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  1. suprema99
    He said he "fell out of love with you" drop him to the curb then, as hard as that may sound. Those are very bold words. Words said by somebody, who must have it all figured out. Try not to waste your time on that if possible. If you feel you caused it, then it might be a different scenerio. But only really you know that, goodluck
  2. suprema99
    If he's got depression, if you can't handle it, you should leave then. You can probably help him I'm sure, only if you truley wanted to though in your heart, but you sound otherwise. Spying on his emails, probably does nobody anygood then for the both of you. Cause what good are you gonna do knowing anything? If you feel you really need to move on and end it?
  3. suprema99
    Hey jasper, I had a hunch she wouldn't of told you, cause nobody would probably in real life, if they knew they would get away with it. I don't know how your gonna go about it in the future. I would defenitley keep my eyes and EARS open for awhile. She's on probation, cause she did it more than once. You only did it once, so she's more at fault in my opinion than you are. So I think if she wants to visit that college again in the future, go with her next time. If you get my point. Take care, goodluck
  4. suprema99
    I wonder also, like lady00 said. Would she tell you she cheated, if you didn't say anything? Did you happen to ask her how long ago it was when she cheated on you? I'm guessing she would of kept it a secret. But who knows. Goodluck
  5. suprema99
    Hey miahni, I hope I didn't come off sounding like there's no hope. If you guys were together for 6 years, I'm sure there's gotta be hope in it somewhere. Do what you feel is best, is probably the only thing you really can do right now.
  6. suprema99
    This kinda sounds like a bad relationship. There's always problems in relationships. Alot of history I'm sure is involved here. My point is that you told him how you felt, it was honest, and it's really none of your business now to try to take it any further now. What more can you do or say? Go with the flow now, and wait awhile. Maybe do what he's doing now and talk to other guys. Relationships shouldn't be onesided.
  7. suprema99
    mihani, It's your job now to stop begging him. With all respect, I don't think it's wise for you to keep sucking up to this guy, after he keeps ignoring you now and seems to be playing a game or making final calls with a relationship of 6 years. You messed up pretty bad obviously, you were doing the same thing in a way to him, for a long time. Messing with him and now it backfired in your face. I respect him for dropping you to the curb if that's how you really treated him. Your only option now is to back off, if you truly want him to have any respect for you in the future. It sounds harsh but it's true, goodluck
  8. suprema99
    I agree with what DN said, but I still think you did enough at this point. There's nothing more this guy needs to hear. You told him how you felt and try to leave it at that. Hanging with these younger girls, maybe he's not into marriage counseling is what I'm thinking. I don't think miahni, you guys are on the same level right now, and it might of always been like that in your relationship.
  9. suprema99
    hey miahni, If your content with him seeing other girls like he's doing, then continue trying. But, you also spent six years of your life in a relationship, so for all the bad things you might of done, I don't think you should have to go about begging at this point for him to change his mind currently. He should also compromise and understand that and about the relationship. If he doesn't want it, obviously he's made up his mind. He's either being stubborn and immature about this, or it's truley what he feels. Let him figure it out then. I don't think there's nothing you can do right now than to leave him alone and try to give yourself some credit that you told him the truth.
  10. suprema99
    I agree with bellamcb, telling her is the dumbest thing you can do, if you really sorry about this, like you say you are. Just don't do it again. If this was a marriage, I would probably go the other way, but it's not. For the poster, if you believe that you won't do it ever again, I would say if you tell her, she'll never trust you again. She shouldn't cause you cheated, but at least without her finding out you get another chance not to do it again.
  11. suprema99
    Miahni, this guy is acting pretty heartless, to just end things and he sounds pretty serious by what you wrote. Whether that book you said he read, messed his thinking up, or he's having fun now with his new girlfriends. He's alot younger than you remember. He's probably all confused if he should commit. On the other hand your kinda guilty for all that stuff you did during the relationship. I would say leave him alone now. You expressed your feelings and it's up to him to decide now. You can't change his mind, only he can.
  12. suprema99
    I agree if she's innocent and is willing to movie in. But telling her will only make things worse on his part. If he cheated though, I'm sure she'll find out in the long run.
  13. suprema99
    He shouldn't continue to decieve, I agree. but it's all depending on the situation. I say to do that only because if he really cares about the relationship, it won't happen again. I personally think when someone cheats, it's a bad relationship then anyway.
  14. suprema99
    Hope75, If he messed up, it's his job not mess up again if this realationship means anything. If He tells her he cheated, she's always gonna think he's a cheater from then on. What's the sense in that? Anyone that cheats though in a relationship means it's not a solid relationship to begin with.
  15. suprema99
    Lady00, he tells her the truth, the realtionship is over in my opinion. Especially if she really cares about him. There's no trust after that point. He says he really likes her and he messed up. To save it, not say a word, but don't do it again in the future. This is all if he gives a damn about it.
  16. suprema99
    Hey jasper, obviously you don't say anything, but c'mon, saying you really care about the relationship as much as you say you do. Don't say anything, but if you keep doing that stuff, i'm sure it will bite you in the a** in the future at some point.
  17. suprema99
    There's something, by her saying 'I can't do this anymore' that is the problem. Either it's this guy that's shes currently with or she has some problems with you? I know though if my ex was with another guy, and I wanted her back I would have to try to move on. Unless she came crawling back on her knees with appologies, thinking it's all good to date other guys. What does that show on your part? She thinks you don't mind that or she really thinks it's over? Nc will not work if you want her back. She will choose who she wants to date obviously.
  18. suprema99
    They sound like a bunch of low lifes. Your making the right desicion. Even though it's family, it doesn't matter. You'll be happier away from them- goodluck
  19. suprema99
    I believe the heart is a muscle, so the more you work it, the more efficient it works. Just like any other muscle on your body. However, sometimes you can injure muscles by overload, maybe it's the same deal with the heart. I'm not a doctor, but heard cases in the past of very athletic people dropping dead of heart attacks. I would say just to not exert your body to the very extreme as much- also take a look at your genetics in the family. Get to know what diseases are prown in your family. goodluck
  20. suprema99
    Hey skyteph, that could be true. I think nobody has to compliment somebody though. And hopefully it's not cause they feel they have to. And like you said about your friends. If you got good friends, then the compliments you get most likely are probably for real then.
  21. suprema99
    Nasty emails, and all that, obviously means to the outsider looking at, an unhealthy relationship here. If it's worth the energy go for it, if you feel it's not, move on then.
  22. suprema99
    If she doesn't believe you when you say one time, I find you attractive. Your comments obviously, either might not matter that much to her or she is very insecure. I don't know which would be worst.
  23. suprema99
    Does she have any hobbies she likes doing? Or something she might be into? Maybe go that route and try to think of something that way. Then next time, do something you like doing.
  24. suprema99
    Baby bear, How many times would he have to ask or is supposed to ask? the answer is one time.
  25. suprema99
    Hey shadows, I never read that book, I might check it out. I notice this all the time, when I'm with other couples and stuff.
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