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suprema99

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  1. I agree also. When you work with people you have to draw the line, like dark blue said. Business with pleasure. If something wrong happens like annie said, you could risk maybe your job, or create for yourself an enviorment that you don't want to be involved with. I would also say keep your social life away from work if possible.
  2. After reading. it all comes down to were you honestly in love with your husband 11 years ago? Your not happy now obviously, and actually lived out your dislike by having a kid with another guy. I think that's selfish. DN was talikng about vows. Your vows mean nothing. If I was your husband I wish you would tell me what's wrong and get counseling before you go off and have a kid with another man. And create real life problems that maybe shouldn't of happened. I think the damage is done and hopefully with counseling you can resolve things. goodluck
  3. Hey Ktog143, that's awsome that you got help. Now that your situation is known, there's more chances this guy is gonna get what he deserves for hurting you. Don't worry about him getting busted. I hope he's gonna get what he deserves, and your gonna live a better life. I really hope so and I wish you the best.
  4. The question is, how do you want to handle it? I think he likes you cause he wouldn't question the other guy like that. Your insticts are right. Office romance and he's got another girl though.I can tell by your post. You sound really pretty. Forget this guy though, your better than chasing a guy that already has a girl. I want to work with you, lol Goodluck
  5. If you got physical evidence of abuse, go to another town then, that has more than a population of 10., and talk to their police department. I don't believe that your parents would believe this guy over you. Especially if you got bruises and signs of abuse. But if so, you need to find some help. Goodluck
  6. She should check herself for liver damage. The more a person drinks, usually they are more tolerant. I would imagine if alcahol makes her sick now more then before, her body's telling her to stop drinking.
  7. The point I got out of this, is that this is a first date. I don't know how old the poster is or his means. But why blow tons of money on the first date, so the next date rolls around, and applebees now to her sounds like mcdonalds? I think you save that expensive stuff for when she's knows it's a special occasion.
  8. I agree with annie. This girl amanda likes you. It's obvious if things don't work out, you just lost 2 girls possibly here. Your in a tough situation though regrdless. Flip a coin, and see who wins. You cant predict the future. So just go with your instict on it. Goodluck
  9. I kinda disagree darkblue. He says he doesn't know her hardly. Lobster no, mcdonald's no. So applebees or tgif fit's right in there.
  10. I give your husband credit for forgiving you and excepting this kid. You should technically be his ex-wife right now. But, I wouldn't really count on this other guy for any support . goodluck
  11. I would try to speak up if I were you. Speak to someone higher than your supervisor. Tell them about the fight and what really happened and that you feel you've had a good record but you got stuck in the middle of a disagreement between co-workers. You did the right thing and you shouldn't be penalized for it. goodluck
  12. hey goldy, I agree. So when he called you on that sunday. Why did you not answer or call back yet? He's probably waiting for you to call him back is all. And probably thinking to himself. If she wanted to really talk to me she'd call. A person shouldn't have to call you more than once. goodluck
  13. I agree. But also what do you expect out of a long distance relationship. It's always the same story it seems with long distant relationships. Find someone closer to you is probably your best bet?
  14. Hey I don't know why you say ex fiancee? If he never cheated on you, or anything major, I think it's your fault. Cause what your writing here sounds all good by him, and you still think somethings up. So if he cheated on you or your kind of paranoid. You don't trust him is your point here.
  15. I agree with helloladies to some extent. But I wouldn't dump her though just yet. since she told you that she would never cheat on you, and she loves you. I think your best bet is wait it out alittle and try to be cool with her. She's maybe playing a game with you right now, to see how much you care about her. She's either really cares about you or doesn't at all, cause she talks about other guys. I would have to get more facts first.
  16. Hey miahni, I can tell you as a guy. If he loves you, you'd have a feeling. .. But it's gotta be obvious to him that you love him, so I really hope he's not hurting your emotions on purpose. Goodluck
  17. It reqiures trust like you said, and having a good time.
  18. Hey kellbell, that's good advice. My parents used the, you get out of line, your in deep s*** approuch. I respect them till this day. Some parents let their kids, walk all over them. I think emmalee111, you said "I know they care about me" keep thinking that, cause they will probably give you a hard time until they feel your old enough to make some desicions. . Make your parents happy as much as you can. They wont be around forever.
  19. I agree with all the above. Your really not doing anything yourself to show her you care. Why should she care about you? and Vise versa. Don't ever expect anyone with a right mind, to cater to you for any reason. You always have to earn things in life. Nothing should come to you without trying.
  20. I agree, I think she likes you, I'm pretty sure you know that already. If you really like her, keep her more close though. Give her more calls.
  21. That sounds good on your part . Depending on your relationship you have. I would go for it now, since she clearly sounds like she want's something different. It's not your responsiblility at this point to worry about her ex. She said I would of cried 2 months ago. For now, don't look into anything furthe at this point. Have a good time, and don't worry about stuff unless you have to. The rebound stuff will happen obviously if she starts talking about her ex too much. Be cautious about that though. It's common in the situation your in , since she just broke rather recently. goodluck
  22. Was she upset about the breakup, or was she like whatever I don't care? That's the question. The less she was hurt about it, the more I would think she's okay with it. If it's the other way around I would hang in there for a bit and see what's up first.
  23. I agree. To the origianal female poster. You sound like you are very young. I think it's not about being nice or a bad boy, it's that you think this guy your with might not give you all you need. If he really likes you he will try to change. But I think no guy wants to cater to you. . So I would leave you if you ever told me that, cause obviously your thiinking about your own needs first.
  24. Take her wherever you want, but always keep it positive and make her feel good about herself always Make her feel like she's the prettiest girl in the world. But, the catch is if she really feels you believe this too soon, your screwed. Your a needy s.o.b. I already knew that, thank god going into my current relationship.
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