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  1. suprema99
    I was just chiming in cause I was thinking you might still like her by writing that. that's all. I wasn't out to attack you. You kinda sounded like you were asking a question about this old relationship. If it's yada yada then, no problem.
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    Hey dako. I'm thinking your getting older now, and you had this woman in your life for a long time and she dumped you. Your probably scared now, having serious thoughts of your future. I think the reason lies why she dumped you? like another poster was asking. If you get dumped your the problem obviosly to the other person. So then you have to question yourself first, put the facts together and decide what happened and why and who's fault it or if it's both faults, and if it could workout. I think you got to constantly somewhat be up to date on things. I don't think you can be stagnent and get into too much routine. Routine is good but too much routine, I can see that as being a bad thing.
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    Hey teacup, you said you got away from all that, that's a good start. Keep it up. Your wired for some reason to get yourself in these situations. Now that your aware of it, it's a good start. When people tell you to seek professional help right away I see that as you reading it thinking your nuts or something. I think it's normal for you to feel this way. Don't put so much pressure on yourself.
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    Hey teacup, Don't worry yourself to much. If you feel this way you'll change it. Yes, you wanna be with people that make you feel good about yourself always. You like yourself, and that's a good thing. goodluck
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    Hey eric f, you said it's not set in stone and it's the end of the year. Enjoy the time now, and worry about it later. I'm sure your not the only one and throughout the decades in the military, that would experience the same thing.
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    Hey moore, I saw an innocent girl once crossing the street get struck and flipped up in the air in front of my eyes and I felt the same thing. It was a horrible site. I read my my paper for the next week cause it was bothering me. I saw that she was still alive but in intensive care. They gave no information about who she was or anything so at least I knew kinda she was alive and I can still picture that image everday if I want. It hasn't had any effect in my life so to speak, accept maybe now, cause you wrote here about a similar experience. Somebody said time heals all wounds. This is something that probably won't bother you in the future.
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    Hey nomorewill, I think your doing the right thing by assuming it's over. If she wanted to be with you she would obviously. I can see how you feel now. Do nc like capricorn85 said, and if you're right about your opinions on their relatonship, she'll come back probably, only to do the same thing again. Lost her track record there somewhat now I imagine. Dunno who's fault it is or why, but that's what I would think. Goodluck
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    Hey raykay, kinda browsing through all this. And I get an overall feeling your worried about your mom, yourself, your boyfriend and your stressed. Just do the best you can with this. Enjoy the holiday
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    Hey sukerbut, obviously your writing this stuff cause you do still care about her. Your mad cause all other girls, you didn't really care about. It built your ego up for along time. You got rejected now. This girl that your writing about must of had an impact on you. Maybe you should start looking at your flaws more and if you do care about her, maybe you have to suck up sometimes and give more attention. That might be a problem. You gave her a call and she was distant. But after 23 days of no contact she still is in touch. That means something. Just go along with how you feel as best you can. Goodluck
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    I agree with newts, she is not thinking. To natedogg, having condoms on the garbage can just shows your excepting this stuff. What girll worth anything to you would be screwing someone else like that? Don't you feel at all like she could never be trusted? If it was worth anything she wouldn't of took it that far.
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    Hey raykay, I'm sorry to hear that. I hate when bad things happen to good people. Your a good person, also like your mom, and it just shows anything can happen at anytime. Try to stay strong for your mom, but, you can't worry like that about yourself now getting breast cancer. Your young and there's no need to dwell on that right know. You have your own life also that has to stay focused. Try to live your life as much as you can before the news. Easier said than done, I'm sure. But Your mom knows you care about her and that's all she needs from you right now. just be on her side as much as you possibly can. Wish her and you the best. Goodluck
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    When you talked to her about the halocaust movie, you had a good chance to bring all this up. Like antibarbie said, have another chat if you can, and this time tell her she better not hurt anymore animals or anything or she could be sent away from her family. She's a kid of 10 years old that needs to be scared herself. You say she acts real with you and not her parents. So you should be the one to tell her what's wrong with her. Maybe she knows no better since her parents are obvlivious to all this. Then inform the parents of what you told her. If they don't believe you now, they'll find out eventually. One way or another. goodluck
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    Between the two of you, you have 6 kids. His kids are not welcome, and I can understand that their not your own blood, and I'm sure he feels your kids aren't either. It's a shame really . His kids didn't like you from the start. Maybe someday all the kids, you and your husband will come together. Cause I think it obvious this sort of thing can happen easily in this situation. There's nothing you can do really except deal with it, and try your best.
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    Lol, soon it will be 12, and we'll all just have to go home then. i guess lol
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    most girls will be satisfied, some girls will need much more to make them happy, lol lgirl are you a pornstar or something?
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    You have alot of kids or siblings it seems, and it's very confusing to read. Unstability, and it's hard to understand. No more kids first off and that's the problem I would think in your case. There's too many kids from different people here. Is this a family or a motel?
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    If your advisor told you the statics course will be available in the summer, I would believe it then and wait. Sounds like you kinda wanna do that anyway. Definatley take a class you can understand the teacher better. I would believe that the summer course will be available if that's what they said.
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    lol, i've done that in the past. Play like I got important things to do , but just chill all by myself or do what I want. Come back strong later and repeat the cycle. Relationships are tough sometimes cause everyone needs their alone time. I noticed when you want the alone time, you get more bothered. Bothered being a good thing, but at those times you can see it as just being bothered. If you like this guy I would give him his space as he should with you. Try to go with the flow and just see what happens.
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    Hey mdal, I think you kinda like all the attention, it's very flattering probably. I think what's happening here is that the more you let it get out of control or make an issue about it now. The problem get's worse. You said something about dating students in the 04-05 season. That's where probably your problems are stemming from now. That was a year ago, and your female students, rumors and gossip, make them think you still are that way probably. I can see you would want some respect as a teacher. I agree with the others. I would slowly start making the teacher side come out. I'm not a teacher, but these kids have to pass these classes right? There in your hands, or I'm sure it makes you look bad if the majority of kids are scoring low. Are they getting good grades in your class?
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    well, 6-12 months is a long time and kinda over protective in my opinion. But she's probably thinking 4 teens in a car, are more innocent when they leave the driveway and are more careless by themselves. Talking on the cell phones, turning up the radio and not paying attention, plus inexperienced, which is the major reason here she's seems to be thinking, can be a recipe for disaster. She won't believe anything you tell her about your friends driving. So I would say make a suggestion not everyday you'll go out driving with them, maybe 1-2 times a week for starters, and if anything goes wrong. tell her, you have every right to remove all my driving privelages with my friends. If your that sure nothing will happen, and you'll be safe, than you should have no problem putting any demands on yourself. goodluck
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    If your getting so many problems like that, I would quit. This is your first job, I don't think it will have too much effect in your life down the road. You need a car or you need a bus or something. Without a licence it's odd you would choose a job so far out of the way. I would worry more though about the hours. Get something closer with 20-40 hours a week. Is it all worth working 2 hours a day. goodluck
  22. suprema99
    That's true about the niceties. lol I would pay for her though in a heartbeat, unless she made me feel on the first date she had some weird money issues, that might come to play or any other issues, maybe in the future .Not saying that to be a jerk, but that show's how fake, niceties" are in the beginning.
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    I agree, also in another post you say you have to do all the calling and stuff. I hope your not being selfish in your thinking. Maybe making this an issue is forcing this guy, to not want to pay. Most guys I think don't have a problem paying for you, if they like you. It's when you make an issue of something small like that, that problems start happening. Your pushing your religion or whatever on someone and it's not helping matters I think.
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    Hey teacup, If that's the case, keep it fair. And it's obvious that if someones doing all the calling, there's a problem then.
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    What's kinda messed up. Say you really feel like talking to someone, and they don't answer on purpose for those reasons. You felt like talking they didn't. Now when they call back, your probably not gonna want to talk as much as you did before. That's the whole reason someone calls you, cause they felt like talking to you at that moment. Give it a try
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