LostnIL

lgirl, I distinctly remember as a younger man competing to see who could run the fastest into a wall without being knocked out, or who could spit the furthest, or swim the fastest..... so who is a better computer gamer, men compete on everything, but none of the above things are an insecurity to men as penis size is.. why that is? Because these competition mentioned about don't have any female influence. They are simply men competing as men do. Whens the last time you heard a man insecure about how far he can spit? I find it humorous that you are so quick to label my posts as "misinformed" yet, you have failed to provide any information that in anyway contradicts what I have stated. You have failed to address the inquiry on how 2, heterosexual men came to the conclusion that a big penis is better than a smaller one, or vice versa without a female's input. Did 2 men wake up one day, and decided they needed something new to compete about? There is no possible way, 2 heterosexual guys could of come to the conclusion that a bigger one feels better, that information would of had to come from a female, which.. and let me be clear, is the birth of the penis size complex. You females seem to cause all the trouble, from the dawn of time, Adam and eve to now.... first it was the fruit, now penis size - Lost

I was 21... which was completely by choice.... My wife, and the mother of my child is someone who I "messed" around with throughout my teenage years... We did almost everything but have sex... finally after about 8 years of this I decided it was time. I've known her 14 years. been married 2 years. We started young Im 22 she is 19. I tend to babble... forgive me

Holy Cow... This topic has exploded... I came in here and have to duck due to flying keyboards!!!!! Hi lgirl, I'm going to have to disagree with you entirely. Boy, where to start.. Several medical studies have shown the average penis size isn't anywhere near 8 inches... These are credible studies and as only your personal experience guiding your assumption about 8 being more flaunt than 5.5- 6 inch penis's I'd have to respectfully consider that as being incorrect. Yes, men do complete about penis size, men complete about anything and everything... but, seeing as very few straight men would pull their penis out, regardless of its size to prove a point of size, I find it hard to believe male competition is at the heart of the size complex. In all actuality it is women who have gave birth to this complex, and feed it continuously, as males do about breast/ female appearance and so forth. Fact of it being, how do 2, hetrosexual men know that a bigger or smaller penis feels better than the other? I don't see how logically they could of come to any conclusion without input from a female. I was only looking for opinions here, but you've tried to set the mold, as in you brought it upon yourself to try to set a standard of 8 inches as being the size that you can "feel". This statement wasn't made as an opinion but more as a self evident truth, a "one size fits all" sort of thing, which I find absurd. Depending on the female's physical conditons, size of her vagina, the amount of "use" are all factors in what she is confortable with and what she can "take". The fact that you have the experiance and physical condtion to "take" 8 or more inches doesn't mean every women can or is confortable doing.... There has been alot of input here, interesting reading all the replies... - Lost

Wowzer, No matter where I ask, or who I ask.. there seems to be alot of heat surrounding this topic. In no way, is it a one size fit all... but nevertheless theres so much anger and fear surrounding the whole debate. Its my opinion that women are indeed responsable for this size complex men have, we are quite confortable with our member, he keeps us pretty happy regardless of size... but its when the female factor is calculated into the equation is when the debate heats up. But then, to be fair the same attitude could be applied to female "ego" issues.. that despite what they might say, does exists. Men aren't the only ones with egos, IMO... So, what'd we end up with? 12 being the average? Sure does leave me in the dust... =| - Lost...

ONE SXXY LADY, Heh, well that is true.. we are stuck with what we got... I personally I am not attracted to women with big breasts, I like the med-size to smaller breasted women - Lost

WOwzer, I was just wanting to poll opinions and perfered sizes lol, this is kinda turned into a heated topic... IM new to this forum, but another forum I used to go to alot had alot of different opinions on sizes and that sort of thing... Never intended to assume anyone was a S word or a dog according to their preference... - Lost

Hey ladies, What size would you classify as being "perfect"...

Indeed it does really depend on the person, although we can still gather a general consensus... - Lost

Hey shiminimo, My wife was with a girl before we got together, she was in a LTR with her, that lasted nearly 3 years, before I came in and stole her Alot of the things that attracted me to her, was the fact she was with a girl, I find that extremely hot, and I've even from time to time had fantasy's about us in bed with another girl, we've even talked dirty about it during sex, but I've never once seriously considered bring that fantasy to life... I don't think that mentally at this point in the relationship I could handle it. We've been together a little over a year, and our first child, my son is 2 months old. From what I've read, most couples who do the threesome thing, regardless of rather or not one has bi-sexual feelings, normally regret it which is the reason why I'd never do it. - Lost

Hello Forum, There is so much controversy surrounding this question, but does size really matter? Lets hear it from both sides... Women: Does size matter? In your opinion, whats the "just right" size. Men: Does Size Matter? Or is it just our egos getting in the way again!! - Lost

Hey Day_Walker, Thanks for your reply... Much to my frustration she refuses to talk to her doctor about it. She does acknowledge there is a difference, but she doesn't seem concerned about it. Don't know what else to do or say... Its gottan to the point where I avoid sex at all costs... I've had a record number of head aches and back-aches these last 2 months ;P Thanks

Hey RooferGirl23, Thanks for the reply... Is it normal to be open? I don't mean to poke fun or anything, but looking down on her vagina I can see into her body... I don't know how else to explain it. She doesn't seem to concerned with it and doesn't even wanna talk to her OBGYN about it. She hadn't even done those exercises you speak of until I said something about it.. maybe I am reading to much into this but she says sex is great and she has no complaints, but I don't see how that is possible.. if I can't feel much surely she can't either.... Thanks for the reply.

Hello izzysmom, My wife just had our child 2 months ago today... I think the issues your husband is having are extremely common among men after birth... I watched my wife give birth and I thought it was the most beautiful thing I've ever witnessed... I even cried... but I've since avoided sex... the birth isnt what bothered me.. but the changes to my wife's vagina afterwards is what has caused the problem.. My only advice would be to keep the lines of communication open, share your feelings and opinioins freely between yourselves... Good Luck!

Hello Forum!!!! Im New here, my wife just had our first child about 2 months ago, during the birth she was cut by the doctor, about 2 1/2 inches and he also used forceps.. Now, I know this is a sensetive topic for most women, and my intention isnt to offend anyone or sound selfish, but now she is loose, to the point that during sex it gets to the point where I can't really feel anything.. now, all fun aside I know what most might be thinking, no Im not 2 inches Im a little above average. I won't go into great details, but im thinking the doctor messed up... Im not sure of the rules of this forum when it comes to details, I don't mean to offend anyone.. but her vagina opening (sorry I don't know the medical terms) is open all the time now? the opening is little bigger than the size of a US Nickel.. which is kinda freaky cause its always open.. It wasnt like that before.. The point of this post is to get advice from other mothers as to rather this is just a standard side-effect of birth, or if something can be done about it. Thanks Lost'n'IL