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Yes he's the father we've been married over two years and together for 4.

He told me that watching the baby come out had an effect on his ability to have sex with me. I guess it was the whole visual thing. I knew I shouldn't have let him watch, because he wouldn't have sex with me after the ultrasound.

It's almost been a year since I gave birth and my husband still has not made love to me. I ask, we tried once after 2 months but it didn't work if you know what I mean. He went to the doctor and told me it's not me it's just watching the birth freaked him out. I feel so alone. I'm thirty and I cannot imagine my life like this. I feel as if I'm pretending, that my marriage is a big illusion. This is my first post so I hope I don't look like a big idiot. Does anyone have any feedback?? Advice? Thanks.