Natedoggld182

How do you make your ex jealous??? thats easy, start sleeping with somebody else. that would piss me off. i wouldn't recomend doing that though, not a very healthy way to deal with things.

yeah, i know, stop thinking about. harder said than done. Im working on that part. and a rebound of my own too, haha. appreciate the help

dont worry, i realized that she really can't be apart of my life the way that i would like (thats a whole nother story). I was just wondering what what usually happens and what she might be thinking

thnks that really helps, heres some other thoughts of mine she has told me that she is sleeping with him to get over me and wants nothing more, but i know that she gets angry when her family says that they dont like him and dont want him around. now to me, if she didn't truly have feelings for him, why would she get upset whether her family approved of him or not?? i also think she isn't admitting to herself that she might actually like to be more than just "friends with benifits" with him. the weird thing is that she still has pictures of us up in her room and still has all of the letters and notes that i've written her when we were together, so i believe she is still somewhat attached. I'm trying not to get involved anymore, i've been in the middle these last few months and just dont really care anymore, but am just curious on what the rebound situation is like. thanks for your thoughts! anymore are appreciated

thanks for the thoughts, yeah i have a messed up couple months but am doing well. so you were a rebound that eventually turned into a relationship?? hhmmmm... she insists that they are not and wont be dating. did you know you were a rebound when you went in or did she say she wasn't looking for a relationship? or when did you guy become bf/gf so to say

I am curious on a few things and your opinions. My ex broke up with me in July (3yr relationship), we've been trying to remain friends (not working by the way, save that for another post). After she broke up she immediately starting sleeping with a friend at work that she became friends with while we were together. and i guess they have been hooking up ever since, (its not my business and i dont ask, but when i go over to visit her and my two buddys, she lives with two of my good friends, there is usually a couple condom rappers sitting on top of the trash can) She says that they are not dating, even though he has insisted that they start many times and she has turned him down. She has told me that he is just a rebound and she would never date him and she wants to be single for a while, but im not sure if i completely believe her or not (not that it really matters) My question is that Ive read the rebounds usually postpone the healing process, and never work out, IS this true? I've never had a "rebound", what is the mindset of the dumper? and how long do rebounds usually last? I mean eventually you would have to get emotionally attached to someone your spending time with and sleeping with, right?? so then it could result in a relationship, or does this usually not happen? any personal experiences??

Birth control isn't a 100%. My friend had a ONE night stand, no condom, she was on the pill and she got pregnant. I dont think you can be overly safe or "overreact" when it comes to things like this.

you could try the extended pleasure condoms, or go to an erotic store and try to find some kind of cream that you put on during foreplay, (i dont know have a clue what its called) it is supposed to desensitize you a bit to help out. I dont know how well it works though.

Some women go thoughout their life without even having one, I'm not sure why, but I read that it isn't uncommon for some women to fall into that category.

if you dont like it because you dont trust him, then i think the problem is not the strip club, but a trust issue in your relationship.

here is a suggestion, do you have any good girl "friends", if so, ask them to go shopping with you because you want their opinion on some new clothes, Girls are always good suggesting clothes that would look good on you. and for some reason they love dressing guys up?!? if not ask one of you buddys g/f for some suggestions or something, they know what they are talking about

what stores do you shop in?

We all wear clothes to suit the weather - to an extent. You wouldn't walk around in layers at 100 degrees, would you? great advice, if its hot hot wear cool clothes and cold out warm clothes, chances are he already knew that. if you think that what your likes and dislikes dont have any effect on what your style is, your crazy.