mrsmarvl

Thx Southerngirl. I dont know what she wants from me or her stepdad! She doesnt get from her real dad what she gets from us. Im scared that she will get back into drugs, and her dad is not very observant, when it comes to alot of things. I want to go over there, but I know that my ex will have a fit, he just hates me and i dont want scenes anymore, hejust wont work with me, he takes her side wether right or wrong, because he hates me and uses my daughter to get back at me, but of course niether one see that. He is just is a few french fries short of a happy meal....But I would never tell my kids that, the older ones have found out for themselves

SHe has already gone threw a yrs worth of counseling, and so have her stepdad and i , her real father refused. He is a hinder instead of a help, She wont go to school she had a job then got laid off(seasonal). I have to go threw this girlfriend of hers to find anything out about her, and she is a cocky one, she told me that shes all Ive got right now to keep in contact with my daughter. and my ex refuses to return my calls, I left him a message that as a parent you should have her call me to let me know how she is. Nothing yet

Hi everyone I havent posted in a while, last time it was about my step children, this time its about MY 16 yr old daughter. Well, she has been back living with me for about 2and half years, she was living with her father. Him and I have been divorced for about 8 years now, but there has always been a problem with my ex and my youngest. She suffered the most ( I think in the Divorce), she got heavy into drugs and alcohol, and boys when she lived with him, no supervision, at all , my ex works nights all the time, so there was no one to be home with her. I would get calls from people that they saw her @ 5am hangoing out on a street corner. Well she called me up and said she was tired of her dads crap and wanted to know if she could come home....Well she wasnt home 2 weeks (I thought she was at a friends house) she got arested for curfew and then she got arested for assault with an egg. She went threw the whole system, court etc for a year, she really changed, then during this transition we found out that she had genital herpes. Not a great thing! so everything has taken a turn, she is bi and is with this girl and didnt tell her about her problem, even tho we have talked about it! So the girl heard roomers and asked my daughter if it were true and she lied. Then the girl went to her sibling and she told her the truth, then she came to me to cofirm. and thats when all this about wanting to live with her dad started all over again, she wont return my calls and she tells her sister that its because I play favorites all the time, and no one gets rules except her. So any advice? Im sure there is more I could tell you a we go

Refuses to go to counseling and everytime I bring it up he get irritated and mad, so of course I let it go, until It bothers me again and I try and talk about it, and the same thing happens again, Like Tiredman said there are alot of things to consider in all this. Its just crazy and Im frustrated!

tried for a while now doesnt work.

Yes out of all the people on this baord you know better than anyone! Right Buddy?

No Im not getting what i need at home , cant remember the last time I was touched or kissed. And Im sure that all I see in this gentleman is just all that. Im a bad person for even thinking like Im thinking!! I think I just need alittle lovin its been awhile since anything, Im old but not dead!! And he (The guy at work) goes out of his way to converse with me, , and he knows Im married.

Hi everyone! I am really sexually attracted to this gentleman at my job, but Im married, and I dont know what to do help I know its wrong to feel this way. I guess i like the attention.

Yeah this state has always been behing the times! And if you call and complain you cant just be an unknown caller ...You have to leave all your info, and then you are found out and loose your job. Which is bull!!! So what do people like us do! The non-killers?

I am a non-smoker and I have never smoked a day in my life! But I work in an office of 40 employees and they all smoke except 3 of us. And there isnt a month that goes buy that I have a chest cold or something upper respitory that I have to go to the docs about, and its all because of 2nd hand smoke!!! and they dont give a c-r-a-p , only about that they need there nicotine!!! NO! I dont feel sorry for people that smoke let them kill themselves! Just keep it away from us that dont!!!

I want everyone to know that I went this weekend to the movies to see "Brokeback Mountain" and it was the best and saddest love story I have ever seen. It was a great movie PLEASE....if anyone has a chance go see it! You will not walk out with a dry eye.

I agree with Moxie. Dont let them know that you are mad, be calm ....but firm! It sounds like your mom has given up They really need to be put in the system for Juvenile delinquents. I know that sounds really bad ....but....its really not. Just the police talking to them is not going to cut it , at all. They need to be aressted and put on probation, were they have a curfew and have to do community service, they need to be made responsible for there own actions. Thats the problem...they have never been made too! I know that your mom is not in the best of health,but maybe you older siblings need to step in...wether your mom likes it or not. But dont do it because you didnt get away with things when you were that age. Do it to really help your sisters out,to become better human beings and to give your mom peace of mind. There are Boot Camps for kids . Depending on what stae you are in the national guard has one that is really good, but again they really have to be in the system. Next time they raise a hand to anyone, or break curfew,destrys anyones things etc.....They need to know that you mean bussiness. Boot Camp should be the last resort. And of course counseling. I know all this because I have a daughter who is sixteen (now) that went threw all that plus drugs and alcohol, its hard to admit that your children have problems, but we as parents are to go beyond no matter how much it hurts US. In the long run you will see an angry mislead teen turn into a better person. My teen is drug free respectfull, its just amazing what tuff love can do. Please feel free to pm me Iand good luck! Dont give up on them we are all thay have they are crying for help threw thier actions.keep me posted

they look at everything that pertains to the child from who you live with to how many bedrooms,(the child has to have there own) . I have 4 and mine was a very bad custody battle.

The truth is never wrong

THX DN YOUR RIGHT THATS WHY I HAVE DECIDED NOT TO REACT TO HER MEANESS THAT SHE IS THROWING AT ME AND THE REST OF THE FAMILY! i AM GOING TO BITE MY TONGUE BECAUSE OF MY GRANDDAUGHTER. SO I WENT SHOPPING FOR THE NEW PLACE THEY GOT. EVERYTHING FOR THE KITCHEN YOU CAN THINK OF. AND I DIDNT GET EVEN A THANK YOU BUT THATS OK I DID IT FOR MY GRANDAUGHTER NOT THEM. AND IM GOING TONIGHT TO GET STUFF FOR MY GRANDAUGHTERS NEW ROOM. I MIGHT AS WELL HAVE FUN WHILE FEELING CRAPPY:0 THX A BUNCH!!