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suprema99

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  1. Hey teacup. Are you a girl, say that calls her boyfiend in a time of need. He's really busy or doing something legitamate, and since he didn't answer, you think he's playing games with you? You say you want to be in control of the situation and the calling. Your not doing yourself any good. Your main concern is to keep it as fair as possible. If he calls you, you answer that's good and vice versa. If he calls you reasonanbly 2 times and you don't answer and don't call back in a reasonable amount of time., no good and vice versa. With cell phones and caller id, who are you really fooling?
  2. Hey, I think your blowing everything out of proportion here. also your stirring up more problems by getting angry and stuff. Let her do that if anything. I agree she will come around if you stop creating more problems. Suck it up and give her a little space for awhile. She obviously needs it from all this drama. Telling her your losing feelings for her, when your obviously not. Sending nasty texts saying don't call me, when you clearly want her too. goodluck
  3. This really adds to the proof for threads I've read from guys, questioning, how good girls like yourself get fooled into, and takin for granted by jerk guys, that are munipulitive. And you still want him back. The classic, I want what I can't have, or I want what's hard to get. totally comes into play here. That's normal by guys and girls. The problem is you are being totally disrespected, and your still questioning what to do??? Find a guy that your attracted too, but also treats you decent. Goodluck
  4. goodluck in your counseling, I appreciate agreeing with me on that. She seems to be part of the problem and hopefully you'll work things out with each other, but you have to take care of yourself first. . goodluck
  5. your depression is really hurting you man. Depression is a killer. It sucks being around a depressed person, They suck all the life out of you. They make you lose hope and it's not their fault, but it happens. You find yourself maybe thinking like them after awhile. Why are you depressed right now? I would think someone in your life that was close to you, might of rubbed that off on you. Depressed people can take you down, . It sucks but it's true.
  6. I think it's more of a fued between her mother and her father that raised her more than anything that has to do with her. whether she's closer to one or the other. It shouldn't matter to you. unless you see something really wrong with her situation. Don't worry too much about that stuff, unless you really see a problem.
  7. Okay, When you test, the typical girl like this/you . Guys hate that stuff. What's sad is that you totally know your doing it, and you still do it. All your doing is ruining everything. I totally agree that your current boyfriend would have trust issues now. I would get back with your old boyfriend then, cause that's seems to what you really want here. I never believe what comes out of a girls mouth, only her actions.. Actions speak the words and hopefully your current boyfriend, if not already, figured that out. goodluck
  8. I agree sort of with pavpp21, about how you totally confused this guy. You knew the whole time how you felt obviously, he wouldn't though have a clue after you broke up so quickly. His first suggestion would probably be that you can't decide what you want. His little comments like you suck, even though maybe meant as a joke, probably reflect a bit of truth. I wouldn't beat yourself up over it. You learn from mistakes. Next time just try to make it more clear how you feel. goodluck
  9. How close are chris and paul to each other? I wanted to ask that, cause they are both talking to you at the same time in front of each other?
  10. Hey uongy, you just got to find the right girl for your personality. Don't feel pressured. It's tough to find a good match. Keep that in mind. Your looking quickly to the future. Relax and let what will happen, happen . goodluck
  11. Hey Iaos, I would talk to her more than, and find out what her situation really is. Then you'll have more judgement weather you want to get involved more. She seems to like you, but why does she have a boyfriend and is flirting? That's a good question.
  12. so the guy you like, turns out to be friends with the other guy? That's intresting. Keep posting. For now that's a tough situatiom. I would back off then from the other guy. you sound like your using him to get to this guy you like. I don't think you should lead him on. Are they both aware of this? Or you just know about it?
  13. If he's not calling you, you called him a few times and no answer. I don't think you should play hard to get ether. But If your in the middle here, I would go with the guy right now that wants to take you out.
  14. He's trying to play hard to get. He should be answering your calls if he want's to talk to you.
  15. Macow lover, cheating has made you stronger in what way? Hopefully not, by not seeing someone elses potential. This is classic, he clearly doesn't want to be her friend. He wants more out of it. He should leave her for that reason as soon as possible in my opinion. You wanted somebody also that didn't want you, why are you questioning that?
  16. I think your missing Dn's point. I think if you were to purposly do something (what your asking here) that shows that you are playing games. Your devising a plan to achieve something you want with total disregard for the other. If he catches on, expect a chance he might just do the same thing back to you. If your not happy, then tell him honestly, and if things don't change, then find someone else.
  17. I agree with annie and the others, keep it real and enjoy when you get a real compliment, it's better to get a real compliment obviously than something fake.
  18. I agree about moving on. Kurodashi, why does she deserve to be praised when she doesn't want to be with him in this situation?
  19. Don't tell him anything, you might mess up his head. 3 times is plenty, how many times do you need to hear it? Wouldn't you like for it to be spontanious? Trust me This kind of petty stuff, can have enough power to break up relationships.
  20. Ask her out. All relationships start out fresh. After time things might go bad, that's expected, but don't ever go into anything thinking there's no point in it. goodluck
  21. Hey quing, stick to your guns here. It's about compromise isn't it? She seems too get you angry and that's not what you need in your life. This rich guy she likes or is seeing now, I gurantee will not last. If it does god bless them then. But she makes you angry and there's reason for It I'm sure. . Maybe it's time to focus on someone else.
  22. Hey quing, I'm sure your dead on accurate about her and this guy. Your really about looks though and you say she's model quality, which doesn't help matters. I think she's all about herself though, and for some reason, she doesn't like not having her way with you. She's used to getting her way., this get's her angry when you don't go along. . She's not looking for a relationship, that is the key here. she's looking to make you jeleous is all, and is getting her way with the rich guy.
  23. I'm glad your not writing that letter, like most people suggested. I suggested you wait a little more. I read back and you mentioned something like it was a blow to your ego he broke up with you. Are you trying to get him back for the wrong reasons? to satisfy your ego now? Which tells me if he appologizes and you get tired of him again, you might dump him that much faster to satisfy your ego.
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