Jay1500

ok me and this girl I met through work dated for lil while, then she abruptly got back with her ex... That was in november, from november until now, we have still been talking and seein eachother, behind his back... they broke up for other reasons, and now me and her and hangin out again... she tells me she doesnt want a boyfriend again, and sumthin bout waiting half the time of the last relationship... I told her ok and that was it... Now were havin sex and doin everything a couple does, but she still wont do it.... Im jus worried cuz school starts on monday, and she has all of her classes with her ex, and he still wats her back.... shes very weak about that, and Im afraid shell go back with him.... what should i do???

OK... me and this girl ive been seing for almost a year now finally decided to have sex last night.... We had been kissing and touchin before hand... during the kissing and all, I had a good erection the hole time, but when we got naked and went to actually have sex, i couldnt get hard enough to get the condom on... I was sooo embarrassed, and it made her feel horrible.. I did eventually get it enough to get it on, but it jus didnt feel right inside... like i wasnt hard enough.... this was my first time, but ive done other things, and never had a problem like this... She wants to try it again, but now im afraid... i don know what to do.....!!!!!!!!!!!

she was worried about getting involved again, because her break up with him was so ugly.... when we were gettin kinda serious she jus decided it would be easier to go back with him, rather than take the chance of getting hurt by someone new..... she knows it was a mistake.. we have seen eachother the whole time, but she says she cant break up with him, beause it wont end there. The only way it can end is with time.... She says she loves me and knows she wantbe with me.. Honestlt I think shes afraid to break up with him

ok.... A friend of mine is in a relationship, that to me sounds abusive. She went out with this guy for a little over a year 2 years ago, then they broke up because he cheated on her, and now they have gotten back together again... During their seperation me and her got very close and were sorta dating. during that time, he would call me and threten to kill me and so on..etc... she told me how much of an idiot he was and everything. I talk to her every night and recently shes told me where hes thrown her into walls and ripped her clothes, and said Im not afraid to hit you... He absolutly domoralizes her when they talk, and comtrols everything she does.... I asked her about it, and she says she just puts up with it, because its been hapening so long that she is used to it... Im asking what i should do, because if I find out that he hits her or hurts her again im gonna hurt him much much worse..... If it makes any difference, we are kinda seeing eachother behind his back.. no sex or nething jus hangin out and talking.....

If you come really quick with a condom, is it ok to keep going in order to satisfy the girl? or is that dangerous

I really believe her though...... she tells me more than her bf, and talks to me more than him. I found out they had sex and when i asked her she said yes its true... I have found some letters she wrote about me, and I believe she truly does loveme, but she feels trapped like shes screwed either way, and im afrais now that they hooked up its gonna be even harder to convince her

ok ive said somethin bout this b4 but its serious now... i met this amazing girl in november, and we hung out like everyday until januray when she abruptly got back with her ex. The ex had been callin me and threatinging for some time, and callin her. she said their break up was too dirty too ever get back with him, but we see how well that worked. Now has been with him since january. she calls me every night, and uusually every day as well. we talk for hours, and she says she has extreme feelings for me, and that she saw herself falling in love with me. She said her last breakup hurt her so bad, that she figured it would just be easier to get back with him than start something new and have it happen again...... I told her to break up with him, but she says too much has gone into to it to jusit like that.... Now today she tells me that they had sex the other day. It makes me mad, but I dont want t olose her so i just let it slide..... Should I wait and see what happens or just get rid of her... I do love her....??

ok......... I met this girl at work, and we imediatly hit it off. We started goin out to movies and hangin out everyday. Then I start getting threatening calls from her ex saying they are still together. she says their not and that hes jus crazy and of course i believed her. After a couple months, I THOUGHT we were gettin pretty serious, bu then out of nowhere she gets back together with her ex... Now she keeps calin me though sayin shes sorry and she cant stop thinkin about me, and she misses me and what not... I feel the same way, in fact i love her a lot. She decided not to talk to anymore, but that didn last longer than a week... we cant not talk or see eachother, but she wont break it off with her ex... she says too much has gone into it to just end it... what should I do?[/b]

she called me today and said that we cant talk ne more..... she says she called him my name, and everything makes her think of me.... so she cant talk to me anymore, but shell still call me tonight

if that is a big deal to him it could be...........have you talked about it with him?

i know............ she acts like she wants to get out of it, but she says their is too much put into it to jus end it... they broke up b/c he cheated on her b4

ok... I met this girl through work. We imediatley hit things off and started hanging out and seeing eachother. Then I et a call from her ex telling me they are still together and to leave her alone. She assured me they are through, and he is just crazy. Everything was great for about 2 months then out of no where she gets back wit her ex. She still calls every day, and says she cant let me go. I love her, and she says she loves me too, and wants to be with me, but shes comitted. She says everything makes her think of me, and she cant stand bein away from me, but she cannot break off with the ex for some reason. I think she is afraid of him or something. Is their any reason to keep talkin to her or should I just try to move on? I really see me being with her forever, if this stops.