einstein1387

this is a very odd question i know but you can see why i needed to post something on it. once and a while i have a pain one of my... you know. it comes and goes and i have know idea why, i havent had sex or anything like that so its not an std. unsure what to do.

i think if you really like her like you say you do or if your still just a little interested go for it. i mean why not, you never know she could be waiting for it hoping you do call to see if your interested. I say go for it dude becasue you dont want to regret it later on and be talking about her with your friends about how you always wished you called that one girl, the worst thing that could happen is she could say no, i think you have a good shot good luck

ok im really bugged by this because ive been with this girl for what i think is a long time (16 months) and after this huge fight or disagreement or whatever, which i just posted about today,i apoligized a ton and told her i love her and im sorry. i just cant stop thinking if it and im so worried that this is it and in all honesty i love this girl and i cant stand the thought of being with out her. It may be me just being impatient. But she wants to take a break now before i leave for school, she said that she just didnt want to see me for a while and she never said anything about breaking up and she doesnt want to talk until right before i leave. She says it doesnt matter and that it really means alot that i wanted to go out while im in school. However this was before the fight started, we were all hugs and kisses that day and she said that i didnt know everything that was going on in her life when it started, does she just need space or is this the end of the road?and am i the problem or is it something else? help

as a guy i think that when you first start dating that its just proper for the guy to pay i think it shows some chivalry as well if you pay for the first group of dates and if the girl wants to offer it once and a while go ahead but if you date long enough usually it wont matter and you can just go back and forth or split. so all in all, to start the guy should pay most of the time.

i see what ur saying about how it was something very small but i think it might be something bigger behind it and this might be the straw that broke the camals back. If you know what i mean. The real problem that i have right now is still if i should give hersome time how long is enough and when i do try to talk to her again what do i do?

thank you for the quick response. the joke was that she said she wanted to slow down so when she kept going slower i walked next to her and said "hows this?" and just smiled. She said that she knew she was slow and i didnt need to make fun of her. i said i was sorry but she just an the other way and went back to her house very upset. she said that she wasnt mad at me but just upset, i thought that this was just to humor me. i should have been more detailed her, sorry, but yes she is very very sensitve about these types of topics espcially if it envoles her apperance she is extremly sensitive about and her weight, it has gotten better but this may have done something. Once in a while she says its bothering her but im not sure if she has been bottling it up lately. Im not sure if this is the problem or if it is me or something else completely. im not sure how long i should wait to try and talk to her again. Im also concerned that she might want to split up but she never said anything about it but she said she wants to take a break, but i leave when the supposed "break" ends does this mean the end? ~bf

O.K. my gf and i have been dating for well over a year now and im 17 and shes 16, im leaving for college soon and she has another year left and we have talked it over and we decided we care enough about each other where we will make it work. Things i thought were great between us and we have been talking and having alot of fun together. However, something happened the other day and now she wont speak to me at all. We were running together and i made a joke about it and she took it the wrong way and she said that it struck some choard with her and she wont talk to me. Days before i had been having rough times with my parents and she had helped me a lot and the joke was me just being a bit angry. She said that she doesnt want to see me until she gets back from vacation and she leaves in a week and then comes back in a week, for one day and then i leave for school. She told me that she has been dealing with stuff that i dont know about and ive been begging her to talk to me about it becasue i think i can help. I am very scared that this is the end and that i cant change it. I tried to talk to her after it happened but she locked her self in her room and told me to get out. I gave it a day and then tried to call her but she just hung up with out even a hello. I wrote her a love note type thing and just left it with her brother to give to her, but i dont know if she even read it Something like this happened once before, but not this bad. Last time she soon came and told me that there was a lot on her mind things took time to get better and the only time she somewhat talk to me was when i brought her flowers, but i dont know if this is the same. All my frineds say give it time and call her but im not sure what to do or if she wants to end it or already ended it. Im very depressed and need help quickly. I dont know what to do. I just want to make things better. PLEASE SOMEONE ~confused bf