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  1. cooldude1234
    you're right. Thanks
  2. cooldude1234
    well, I plan on telling her I want to break up, maybe exchanging a few words, then handing her that and leaving. I'm not going to try to get her back and i won't have any contact with her. I have allready asked myself if I am ready to say goodbye and mean it. I am. But, if you think it's too nice, I'll see what i can do to make it less compromising. I don't want to hurt her too much though, I'm her first boyfriend.
  3. cooldude1234
    Well, I have decided after a while to break up with my girlfriend. I want to meet her somewhere or go to her house and I want to give this to her after we talk for a little bit after I tell her. Is this okay? Is that good? Too mean? Too nice? Should i meet her at her house? Or maybe catch her after work in the park? This is depressing...
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    Hey, Actually, opium in it's pure state has no side-effects besides the addiction. Weed, is worse. Heroin is mainly 'bad' because of how much it gets cut. Either way, this girl needs to read up on drugs. Anyways, the fact she is doing this may be because she is afraid. If you aren't going to quit, then you need to sit her down and have a convosation about this (if you haven't allready.) Tell her why you do, what it's about and the health concerns. Make sure she knows everything about it. THEN let her decide. Also, if she is telling you to loose weight, but she could loose some weight as well, then that is quite hypocritical. I would definitely tell her that this hurts your feelings. Try not to go down the road of "well you could shed a few pounds yourself." Allthough, that may seem easy, that will almost definitely errupt into a huge argument and your marijuana use will be brought up again. Hope this helps.
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    Hey, As much as she may love you and want you to be around, it probably makes her want to rush if she thinks you are getting bored. Remember, she probably knows a LOT about this and this may be her way to kind of get away and relax. Maybe you can only go out there every once in a while? Don't be hurt by this though. She really loves you but knows it is boring for you to be out there she can't have as much fun. Take care
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    Hello, Do you do oral? If so, maybe you can take care of him first, give him a while to charge (while kissing or whatever) then go. That way it won't really matter if he doesn't get to an orgasm when you do. Hope this helped at least a little
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    he used my name I meant end the post. Yeah, I knew it would be impossible to change her. Things are great when I'm not stressed out, sad or in an otherwise bad mood. But, when I do get sad or stressed, I feel completely alone. I don't want to dump her cause I really like her, but sometimes it's almost unbearable. Thanks for your responses, any more are welcome. Loner8080 log me out next time, john
  8. cooldude1234
    Hey, I would give him another chance. But, unlike some of the other posters have suggested, you should, one, forgive but don't forget that this happened and, two, don't go through this with blinders of trust on. Is he being sincere? Probably, but it's hard to say whether or not it's going to happen again. Remember, a high level of trust has to be earned. It just can't be given.
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    Hey, I've never heard of "S," are you sure that what he said? Are you sure he wasn't talking about "E," another 'soft' drug. Regardless, I wouldn't get invlolved with this person. Many of my friends were like this through high school; shrooms, cigs, weed, and alcohol is what their weekends consisted of. If he's doing these drugs me might just be telling you he's quitting smoking to get you to like him. Either way, this guy is going nowhere. I don't want to sound condescending, but this guy will likely do more drugs. Every one of my friends who dabbled in those activites, left highschool (some graduated most dropped out) and ended up totally wasting their lives. The drugs like took over their lives. Even though it was 'just' weed, they got obsessed. They couldn't hold jobs, etc etc. This has gone on too long. Basically, if you like him, whatever, but don't get dragged into that. I'm just sayin this guy sounds like he's gonna go down the tubes fast.
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    Hey! I agree with this soooo much. Being discriminated against for age does happen a lot. Even if you're "legal" being young is looked down upon in many places(workplace, school, etc.) In my case, I am almost 20 but I LOOK like I am 16. So, in the eyes of employers, I might as well be 16 cause I am treated that way. It never occurred to them that I do the work of a 40 year old. Anyway, our society is still a while away from breaking down age discrimination.
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    Commercial Reception Nothing but lies In your minds Turn off the cable And you'll be able To see reality twisted You shouldn't have listened Media deception And commercial reception Death, destruction from lies Cut illusion and ties Corporate profits on the rise The masses watch their demise Eye for an eye, tooth for a tooth Media lies, there is no truth.
  12. cooldude1234
    yeah, poetry is a good way of doing it.
  13. cooldude1234
    those are sad, but very well written
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    feedback welcome Nuclear Holocaust Nuclear holocaust raining from above Destroying everything without hate or love Living dead walk the earth Without thought and without worth Radiation poisoning Will be in full swing! For no reason you all will die All human kind will likely fry.
  15. cooldude1234
    you're lucky man, i'd love to be in your shoes right now ps: what kinda music are you into?
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    If he's not watching porn on the TV(or computer), then he's watching it in his mind. And as to all those comments about "guys who say the don't like porn really like it," I am not really into porn. I haven't watched it for a LONG time and don't plan on it... call me what you want (i.e. "liar") but that won't change how I feel.
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    Hey, I'm sure this is pretty painful for you. I would do what the other posters suggested and definitely look into a marriage councelor. Try to talk to her in a non-aggressive manner(i.e. don't use "you always.") Instead use non-aggressive language like "I feel." I can understand you not wanting to get a divorce seeing how you have kids. However, if she refuses to listen or work toward change, divorce might be something to start thinking about. In this case, you will definatelty have to 'clean up your act,' if you want your kids. I know it's a lot to think about, but I hope I helped a little.
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    Yeah, he'll be fine. I had it for a little over a week straight, lost 15 pounds. Drink water and sleep. It should start to get better after a while.
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    definitely a follower. My friend's girlfriend is like this. Needless to say, she is quite mindless. I have found that people like this lack a true passion or interest for anything. Trend to trend to trend, definitely not my style.
  20. cooldude1234
    You should get a friend or a relative to go out there are do it. It's your stuff, so you're still entitled to it.
  21. cooldude1234
    I'm into the jazzier pink floyd stuff, and other jazz-rock/prog artists. But i'm also into 80's hardcore as well. Why do you ask?
  22. cooldude1234
    Hey, Cigars bad for you, as are ALL drugs/alcohol/tabacco. However, smoking a few cigars isn't devastating in the long run. Just don't start smoking the a lot or smoking cigarettes, and if you DO, you should consider rolingl your own: cheaper, less unhealthy, better smelling and better tasting.
  23. cooldude1234
    definitely not. Even if such a magical spell did exist would you really want to use it? Putting an ex into an artificial state of being in love with you doesn't sound that great. As far as the whole "getting your ex back" topic goes, I don't understand it. There is NO, NO, NO, real way to 'get' your ex back. The relationship ended for a reason and chances are the other person was ready to move on. If they DO get back with you, they were planning on doing it anyways. So in reality it's up to the other party. I know not what anyone wants to hear, but really! Sorry for the rant, time for school. Take care
  24. cooldude1234
    Hey, I'm not really sure what you're asking but I can say this; no matter how sorry she is, if she cheated on you without talking about how she felt in the relationship (the reason she cheated) then chances are she will do it again when things get bad. Wether or not you get back together is your choice.
  25. cooldude1234
    next time it's your friend and her, pay attention to her and talk to her a lot. When you see her say hi and eventually just start talking to her when you see her.
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