Jump to content

cooldude1234

Members
 View Profile  See their activity

  • Posts

    160

  • Joined

 Content Type 

Everything posted by cooldude1234

  1. cooldude1234
    yeah, a red rose might come off as too strong. If you wanna get her a flower, I wouldn't get a rose. If I was you I would pick a flower myself that I found to be pretty. MUCH more subtle. Also, if you don't make a big deal of it, she most likely won't. If you give it to her just like you'd give a friend a flower, she will probably just think it's a nice gesture.
  2. cooldude1234
    Hmmm, It sounds like the cancer thing has made him think "I might loose her FOREVER." So, he's lying to you to go see her. If you haven't allready, get rid of him!
  3. cooldude1234
    He's probably shy or afraid? That could be the reason he's chatting online in the first place. If you actually said "if you have the urge to communicate, then you could call me" then that could also be a reason. That sounds sort of reluctant. Maybe if he's got a good excuse and you REALLY want him to call, tell him "you SHOULD call me" or "i want you to call me sometime." Something more concretre. BYE!
  4. cooldude1234
    Missing pills definitely is not good. And I don't really know what to say about your other issues. All I have to offer is this: You should use two forms of protection, no birth control is totally failsafe.
  5. cooldude1234
    i'm sorry, but this is very confusing to read... I'm probably not alone.
  6. cooldude1234
    yeah, i'm going with the day walker. If he's ditching you allready, he's got problems you don't want to deal with.
  7. cooldude1234
    It sounds like he's taking out his stress and anger on you. It also sounds like he's using the alcohol thing for an excuse to be mad at you (he obviously isn't letting it go.) Just ask yourself "Is this the same guy I knew when I started dating him?" Nobody deserves to be neglected by someone they are in a relationship with. Hope you sort things out up there.
  8. cooldude1234
    make her something funny
  9. cooldude1234
    if she's never done it, make sure she knows what to expect, assuming she's young. Just kiss her like normal, a bunch of small kissed then go from there. It will come naturally
  10. cooldude1234
    MAN... So, just when I'm thinking things are going great my girlfriend tells me that she thinks we are making out too much and we aren't communicating well. I don't think we even kiss that much, once every few days we make out. I feel like she doesn't want to kiss now, and I feel like I might have just forced it on her(she has NEVER initiated it.) I guess I'll back off, but I really like kissing, haha... I guess what I want to know is how can I communicate better? I talk to her at least twice a day, I just I just can't figure out what I should change cause she doesnt seem to know either... ahh man, now I'm all bummed Any input will be appreciated, thanks!!
  11. cooldude1234
    i think she did that so it wouldn't turn up in searches
  12. cooldude1234
    wait wait. god's telling you that it's right, but telling him that it's wrong?
  13. cooldude1234
    Hmmmm, in some aspects you are anyalizing but in others you are right. The phone call comment was pretty messed up thing for him to say. I wouldn't be glad if my girlfriend told me that, in fact I would be mad. Has this guy been in many relationships?? He said he was the nice guy every woman was looking for. I would say --based on what you've said here-- that was an exaggeration.... However, as far as the ex's phone call thing goes, I don't think it's a big deal. I would be more concerned if he talked about her a lot. It sounds like you two speak your minds no matter what the concequences? Some things are better left unsaid. There's a fine line between being truthful and just being rude/mean. It sounds like the problems you're having could be fixed by talking it out, but if you have a gut feeling that he's not the right guy you're probably right. Hope this helps a little
  14. cooldude1234
    If he really wanted to be with you, I think he would. Unless god slapped him in the face and told him it's wrong, I'm going to go out on a limb here and say he wasn't that into the relationship for whatever reason.
  15. cooldude1234
    Does he have manic depression(bipolar)? If he's back and forth, that's one of the signs
  16. cooldude1234
    I don't get "fireworks" with a close mouthed kiss/peck, either. Haahahaa. I hope thats not what you mean bu 'kissing.' French kissing on the other hand, is a different thing. HAVE you ever french kissed? Have you ever been kissed anywhere but your lips? But, if you aren't into the guy nothing will happen.
  17. cooldude1234
    Why are you fighting so much? Why does violence always get involved? If he's just abusing you then I'd say you did the right thing, however next time I would just threaten to call the cops. Never throw the first punch against him, you might end up in jail, happened to a friend of mine.
  18. cooldude1234
    How far away will you two be? This will be a major factor in how often you will be able to see eachother. Another factor is if she has a car or not. My girlfriend is leaving for college(this summer) 3 hours away and is getting no car or mode of transportation. But, I hope your situation is less bleak. Another question to ask is, can you HANDLE an LDR. They are TOUGH. Especially when she starts telling you about people she's meeting(guys) jealousy comes in huge here. Goodluck
  19. cooldude1234
    Being in a band myself, I can understand why he invited them. Usually when people are just starting out, they invite EVERYONE they know(they bring money, support, etc.) He probably didn't even consider that it would make you mad. If he wasn't 'hanging out' with them afterwards or anything, I would try to be not so upset. However, you can talk to him about it if you want.
  20. cooldude1234
    It sounds like he's questioning everything. Have you talked to him about how you're feeling? Maybe you shouldn't apprear so dependant on him(assuming you are coming off that way.) It's hard to say what he's going through. I hope you work things out.
  21. cooldude1234
    Yes. I agree with all of the above posters. If you go out with the mindset "i dont have any time," you will be turning people down on a subconscious level. I used to do the same thing.
  22. cooldude1234
    That could be....
  23. cooldude1234
    Question is, were YOU being sarcastic when you said that? Question two, am I being sarcastic in posting this? Hey, man. It sounds like you're on your way to finding yourself. Some of us get lucky and never change, others take a while to be ourselves.
  24. cooldude1234
    I can't think of a reason why he would be lying. Anyways, how about next time you get asked out by a 'promiscuous' girl, ask her why she needs to have sex so badly.
  25. cooldude1234
    the abs is a very suggestive location to kiss, probably not as physically pleasurable though.
×
×
  • Create New...