I met a guy online and had a great first date on Tuesday. We spoke on the phone and emailed everyday since. He was very verbal about how much he liked me, how attractive I was and how he was really "into" me.
I asked him if I could take him out Saturday for his birthday. I was even going to pay. He agreed and said he was so excited to see me. Well, he stood me up. Today (Monday 14 Feb) he sent me an email telling me I was "off the hook" for our date Saturday. He said he could tell I didn't really want to go out and it was "nice knowing me". He advised me he knew I had a date the Friday before. This was untrue. I didn't call him Friday because I knew we had a date for Saturday and I didn't want to be one of those girls who has to have daily contact. I wrote him and told him I was actually out with my girl friend picking out a gift for him and some new lingerie (I was planning on making it a VERY special birthday...
Anyway, I would love for a guy to tell me what's going on here!! My instinct is *he* is not interested in me and he is trying to place blame on me. I would like to see him more, but I am not going to persue someone who is not interested. Thoughts?
