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  1. cooldude1234
    I don't understand why you feel so guily when you do this. Would you like to explain this to me? Are you bored a lot? How old are you?
  2. cooldude1234
    hey! You aren't worthless. He didn't want to date you, oh well. He's missing out! You're better off without him anyways. Not all men are bad guys, find someone who's worth your time. Don't let this get you down. This kind of thing happens, just blow it off. I'm sure you're a great person, stay positive!
  3. cooldude1234
    HEY! Take a deep breath Well, as far as the whole 'anti-social' thing goes, it might be tough, but start introducing yourself to people, talking to people randomly, it will get better. How I got over mine was to talk to girls in class and try to get comfortable with chatting about nothing. Now breathe... How can you love her if you don't really even know her? I think the word you are looking for is infatuated(very attracted.) Talk to her, try to spend time with her at school, possibly get her phone # (or messenger handle). If you think she likes you, even a little, ask her to hang out after school. It's actually pretty easy once you do it enough. Goodluck dude!
  4. cooldude1234
    if she's married, she's married. Sorry, but there wouldn't really be anything you could do in that case. Find her, but I wouldn't 'TRACK HER DOWN.' That could come off as obsessive, definitely how you don't want to seem. Goodluck!
  5. cooldude1234
    ah, dificult situation... true friends are hard to find. It sounds like you're going to have to branch out into other "social groups" (which you'll find out don't actually 'exist.') Eventually you'll find friends that actually mean something to you.
  6. cooldude1234
    Yeah, he's probably trying to figure out if you'll reject him or not. Understandable. Yeah thats definitely a good thing. hahaha. You said you were a pretty friendly(and outgoing) person and i think most guys are attracted to girls like that. I think "just an aquaintance" implies that there isnt a lot of attraction there, but he obviously is attracted to you. He likes you so yes, it is normal for him to be jealous. As far as lunch goes, why not? Just make sure he pays
  7. cooldude1234
    hmmm. how old is he??? He sounds kind of immature, however, thats your call. If you decide to go out with him, you must think, do you think the relationship will last longer than your job? Say, you go out for a month, and he gets really clingy so you break up with him, the workplace could be very akward, expecially if it's a bitter breakup. Allthough it might not happen that way. Just something to think about. haha, You must be pretty hot, cause he might feel 'in love.' I have a friend who wants to marry one of my other friends cause she's really hot(infatuation) Which makes me wonder how much experience he has had with relationships. It's really your decision, it might be fun. He sounds like a funny guy. I would take him out a few nights before you get into a relationship, though. goodluck!
  8. cooldude1234
    haha, if it's sense of smell or whatever then why can you can be attracted to people from seeing them in only a picture. I don't believe attraction itself is chemical (i think it has a lot to do with instincts and social conditioning) but the quite obviously, the feelings you get ARE chemical.
  9. cooldude1234
    remember the 'drug war'? I do. We didn't win that, so i DOUBT we're going to win this. This is unfortunate at best...
  10. cooldude1234
    do you have other friends you hang out with???
  11. cooldude1234
    yeah, i'm familiar with this. Its been going on for a while. It used to be huge in san francisco in the early 1900's. They would actually set up traps for people in bars and stuff.
  12. cooldude1234
    definitely visit the colleges, you're going to pay good money for your education, so make sure you get the most for your money. CHECK THE LIBRARIES.The college library will be one of the most valuable resources at the school, definitely visit it. Since you allready know what field you want to go into, you probably have allready looked into the college's strengths in your area, you you should be good in that area. Make sure you like the campus itself, like another poster said. It sounds like you have good grades, so even an average SAT score will probably get you in. Just get your application in early!
  13. cooldude1234
    Caldus is right, its a lot easier to choose a school if you know what you want to do there. Most school specialize in some aspect of education, science, biology, chemestry, computer science, the list goes on and on.
  14. cooldude1234
    do you have lots of money? do you know what degree you want? college IS important, but depending on the degree you want, you may want to go to community college for the first to years to get your AA, then goto a university for 2 years to complete and get yous batchelors. Its a much cheaper, often overlooked possibility. good luck! you can PM me if you have any other questions!
  15. cooldude1234
    hahaha, jeez. definitely don't bring porn to school, man. You can get into serious trouble for it. I don't even think you're to allowed to look at it yet. People will make fun of you a lot if you keep bringing it to school, so dont to it!
  16. cooldude1234
    thanks for everyones replies. I feel a little better now
  17. cooldude1234
    yeah... i know how you feel. I don;t have a problem if she was just generally busy, or didn't agree to do something if she knew she had other plans. But planning right over me, that hurts
  18. cooldude1234
    hahaha... i know i post here a lot, but SHEESH, this girl... SO, This has to do with how much I am able to see and tal kto my girlfriend. This past week has been very stressful for me and I have been unable to see my girlfriend and communication has been limited. The time that I had open this week, she ditches me to go see her friend's boyfriend's band play (she see this band a LOT, so it wasnt anything "special"). even though we planned on doing something together. But okay, not a HUGE deal, I finally get time to spend with her on friday and we see eachother for a few hours so, that was nice. So tonight I could have gone to a show (a few awesome bands were playing) but I decided to not go and spand some time with her. We had planned this out too. After all I havent really seen her much this week. So she comes over and I find out that she has to leave in 2 hours to go to a friend's house. This upsets me... I agree, I probably have become far too attached, but i have lots going on in my life, so finding other things to do that isn't spending time with her would be EASY. Am I at fault here and what should I do (we've been in a relation ship for a couple of months now)
  19. cooldude1234
    HEY Don't believe that. There are lots of people who care. I'm sure there are many here, myself included. You have many reasons to live. Don't give in, things can only get better
  20. cooldude1234
    Hey!! YES! definitely send him some mail! He'll love it. Army dudes LOVE getting mail. DO IT DO IT. My friend's in the army and he loves getting mail
  21. cooldude1234
    Hello! It sounds like you're getting plenty of physical affection and a good ammount of emotional support as well. Some people just forget to say "you look really nice today" when they think it. She obviously cares a lot for you so i would try to not worry about it tooo much.
  22. cooldude1234
    Wow, thats pretty rough. I wouldn't be worried about her cheating, though. Try to not look down on her for it, everybody makes mistakes. She apparently really resents the decision. It sounds like she's being blackmailed in a way to stay in contact with him. I wouldn't really worry about her cheating on you, it sounds like she really loves you. Just keep the lines of communication open between you two and you should be okay in that area.
  23. cooldude1234
    GROSS. HAHAHA
  24. cooldude1234
    How old are you? Apparently there is a major breakdown in communication here among some trust issues. Even if you "caught" him, I believe he would lie his way out of it and nothing would be resolved, the situation would only get worse. It sounds like he may be doing something sneaky behind your back, but it's hard to tell. If this guy isn't open and honest with you, he may not be right for you.
  25. cooldude1234
    steal the car haha, just kidding. Do YOU live near anything?? Or maybe if she's kind of athletic ride bikes?
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