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alright ive always been a bit of a jealous person but it has never effected my relationship with my gf. we have been together for 10 months now and i really feel like i love her. the problem is that she went on a trip to san antonio with the school choir and was gone Wed-Sun. I went up on friday to see her choir perform. Whenever i showed up i felt abit out of place because everyone there were my friends but they had these days of bonding and had seemed to have become alot closer. i have no problem with that but i felt a little bit pushed away. and i let it show that i was upset(big mistake) and said somethings that were inappropriate. anyways we talked about it and she said the way i was acting was making her feel smothered which is very understandable. we had decided to slow things down abit after we went on a date for valentines day. well that night was amazing and we sorta called it off and have had a wonderful time since then. last night though, we were hanging out with the same people that went on the choir trip and again i felt pushed aside. she could tell and was getting pissed at me. now the thing is im not trying to be this way and i really dont like it at all. im just trying to figure out why it has happened both times whenever i was around these certain people. and i dont feel threatened by any of them because the two guys we were hanging out with are gay and going out. i just want to figure out what the problem is and how i can fix it because she is saying that she is not attracted to me whenever i act like this and she says she wants me to be myself and that im not. anyways please help me get rid of this green-eyed monster. thanks.

alright me and my girlfriend have been together for 9months now and we have always had a bit of a problem with communication. i have always been really shy and she has helped me to open up more but i still sometimes can't get a good conversation started with her. the main times we talk are whenever we are discussing a problem or talking about or relationship. sometimes it just seems like we forget to talk about things besides ourselves, lol. the strange thing is thatt on the phone, we have wonderful conversations, you know the kind that dont really have to do with anything and your just talking because you love to talk to that person. i guess my question is why do you guys think it is so easy for us to talk on the phone but it gets hard in person and if there is anyway to help with this. its really starting to make me jealous the way she can talk with other guys so carefree and with me it seems so hard. in fact this weekend i got really jealous and said a couple of mean things that i wish i could take back. she forgave me but she says she feels a little bit somethered and i dont want that to happen. anyways, any help would be appreciated

thanks for all the replies guys i know i dont really have anything to worry about but i still do worry. ill try withdrawing the compliments a bit, thanks for the advice

yeah, in the way she kisses me but she kisses me alot which sometimes makes me she doesnt want to talk or is avoiding something but im also a very paranoid person

hey will im 16 going out with an 18 year old girl and I feel there is absolutely nothing wrong with it. if your not having sex than it aint illegal whats even funnier is i live in texas too

i have been with my girlfriend for about 9 months now and she is my first girlfriend. she is an amazing girl and everytime i think of her i can't just help but smile. Here comes the problem: she has some depression and anxiety problems and is not currently taking any medication or anything for it but anyways i compliment her often and always tell her how much she means to me and how wonderful she is. the thing is she rarely compliments me and im already pretty insecure about the way i look and so it makes me upset. it doesnt bother me very often but whenever it really bothers me i bring it up to her and she tells me she really does love me, and she has so much going on in her mind that she can't express her love to me the way i do. I believe her whenever she tells me this and i know its silly to get so upset over this but I really do feel like i need that attention and love. I don't know if she will ever change but I would like to know if you guys have any advice for me to deal with this or whatever. -Thanks hope this all makes sense if not ill try explaining it again