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  1. cooldude1234
    ummm, you should try backing off a little, your level of infatuation seems unhealthy. Try to become friends with her first, I know you're going to say you are friends with her, but I REALLY mean it. and if your car or job are reasons for her to hang out with you, she's OBVIOUSLY using you.
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    yeah, sometimes I can't keep my eyes off some guys, especially if they look like me then I think they are good looking, its weird. hahaha
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    i think praying is wishful thinking. But believe what you want.
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    I am my current girlfriend's first boyfriend. It's kind of hard sometimes, but she's catching on. I do really like teaching her stuff, it's kind of fun. I wouldn't worry about it. As long as you communicate a lot with your boyfriend, you shouldn't have any problems. Kissing's just fun... no reason to make it into this huuuuge nervous thing. One thing I have noticed about lots of girls who haven't had boyfriends before is that they don't show the guy they like that they like them. They often expect the guy to make the first move and leave them wondering... a little tooo much, which isn't always optimal. regards
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    uhh since when is hanging out with your friends everyday a waste???? I love my friends and would love to hang out with them everyday until 7pm. hahaha... take it easy, you don't wanna become a burnout do ya?
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    unfortunately your post doesn't make a whole lot of sense. If you meant something in the lines of 'is he telling the truth if he was drunk' My answer is disregard anything that comes out when someone is drunk. It may be true, but they 1) most likely wont remember what they said and 2) wont always act upon it because with their sobriety comes decision making skills and possibly the reason 'nothing' has happened yet. Sorry for the run-on sentences
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    yeah, I would consider it cheating. Cheating is a relitive term, so if she wouldn't approve of it, then It could be considered cheating. It sounds like you obviously like this girl much more than your current girlfriend.
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    man! that sucks shes definitely 2 and partially 3. I guess i'll just have to hope that shes more shy than anything and that it'll wear off after a while... btw: were both 19 (roughly) and have been going out for almost 2 months, however, we have known eachother and been good friends for almost a year.
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    yeah, i see what you're saying, but its hard for me to relate because i never really had that problem
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    agh... same old problem. My girlfriend is having major hangups on being close to me, closer than a friend. She claims to want to be more affectonate both physically and emotionally. I'm her first boyfriend, and I have plenty of experience. She is rarely open with me, and I always have to talk to her about problems before she says ANYTHING (about our relationship.) This also applies to physical affection. She rarely reciprocates, which isnt as huge of a deal, but it would be nice. She wants to work on this and so do I, but this is tearing me to shreds, and I can only take this for a little longer before I need to break up with her. How can I/she do to work on this?? Is it even possible to work on this??
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    yeah, at least get on a talking basis with her. You don't have to be really good friends, just get to know her a little bit. I would think it would be weird if someone i havent ever really talked to asked me to go to a movie (even though i'd prolly still go)
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    That hit the nail on the head. I once had a girl 'blame' me for her becoming a lesbian. I quickly got her out of my life and never spoke to her again. You should do the same.
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    i don't see the point in play games with your ex. All this being best friends then cut her off garbage, is just that. If you're going to be friends, do it for the right reason or don't do it at all. Thats just my 2 cents
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    if she was raped, she would probably be traumatized. I had a girlfriend that got raped once, and it was painfully obvious. You should probably talk to her about it. If rape is the case, a baseball bat might be in order, but thats just me. You should actually call the police like everyone else says.
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    yeah, you're right
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    i also wonder, how "far" can I go w/o it being cleating or disrespectful to my girlfriend? I want to hang out with some of my friends but haven't because I'm not sure if its "okay." What do you most of you think?
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    Look on the bright side: be glad that you didn't waste time with him or worse: sleep with him. Now that you know what he was after, consider him scum and move on. You don't need that guy.
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    Sounds like you hurt her pretty bad, and she never really got over you? This new contact is probably re-opening old wounds, so to say.
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    clarifying: I talk to them a lot and sometimes they hit on me, but I don't hit on them back. I have been tempted to cheat, but I dont wanna mess up what i have, while it lasts
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    what?!?! i do 50 of the things i said WITH weight. If michael jordan can only do 20-25 then he's a softy also: try only eating 1500-2000 calories a day of healthy food, and resist temptation to eat when you're bored. Eventually your stomach will shrink and you wont get hungry as often. I take vitamins every day and that also helps. Do pushups too, those are REALLY good. Keep your stomach flexed while doing them, and keep your head up (dont look down). Good luck
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    a friend sent me this a while back: Okay, I'll see if I can describe this in a message =) You lay on your back, with your knees up like you're going to do crunches. Then you move one elbow forward, like you're doing obliques and at the same time, you move the corresponding leg straight out, so it works sort of like a "bicycle". Write back if you don't figure it out, but I'm sure you will. It's a real killer. Oh yeah, do four-counts, not singles (i.e. 1-2-3 ONE 1-2-3-TWO). Do about fifty, and you're good to go (25 is good, too, but why not do 50...it just makes your abs stronger). Those and flutter kicks really tighten you up.
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    SO, I kind of have this tendency to lead girls on even though I have a girlfriend. I didn't really realize what I was doing until a little while ago, as I just viewed them as friends. I can't just stop being friends with them either, hahaha, i havent been able to bring myself to it. Is this unfair to my girlfriend? Should I stop being friends with them? Or am I a-okay?
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    im kind of 'skinny' but with a fair ammount of muscle. as far as I can say, im carved out of wood HAHA, i've been working out my right arm fir a while, so it's about 3x as huge as the oher one, trust me, women love it
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    yeah, im prety addicted too... hahaha and i thought i my coffee addiction was hardcore...
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