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  1. Yeah, i have that problem of having a girl that has had more than 1 sexual partner. i realize that im nineteen and my options are limited. But hopefully there are girls out there that are thinking the same thing. But ill save all my thoughts on that for the part 2 if i indeed do one. thanks for you relply Brownsdawg. Night
  2. Well its time to talk about sex these days. First things first, whats up with all the underage kids having sexual experiances with someone that won't be around in three years? Has Amercias youth lost every sense of morality? When did it become a joke to not have sex before your married or at least in your mid twenties. I have had many girlfriends, and the fact that i didn't want to have much sexual contact was a problem with them, so it never worked out(and yes i just happen to be a virgin).Now as for the college youth, which i am now apart of, it only goes down hill form there. Why does every girl that i meet at a party wants to have sex and not have any relationship after that? it seems that a college could offer a sex only corse for $2000 and it would be the first to fill up. As for me i have to make up a fact to my friends that i am not a virgin, to avoid them trying to hook me up with a extremly active girl. Their good friends its just that they seem to put sex overeverything else. I just want to know why America has gone in the direction of sex and its followers. Though i don't dissaprove of having sex before marrige i just think that people do it for all the wrong reasons. Respond your view on this topic please. I need you reviews if im to make a second part to this.INFO!! Wish me luck in lasting through college without hooking up with a one night stand. Part 2 coming soon (Maybe)????? im still editing this tonight, wrote it fast so maistakes may have been made.Nevermind ill do it tomarrow good night everyone.
  3. well, for the calling thing, if you don't see her at least once per day give her a call, unless she is in her period(sorry if thats offending to anyone).If she is in her period try to give her some alone time but still keep some conncetion with her. Its natural to feel hurt after realtionships, but you must think that one day you will find a girl that loves you so you must not become distant from her.YEAH
  4. Well, its hard to find the proper gay scene with being to open.At least you have good morals, like not wanting to have sex with everyone you meet up with. That trait seems to be disappearing these days, which is kinda depressing. I have same problem with trying to find a girl that just wants to spend some time together for more than a two day period without having sexual encounters. Anyway i suppose a gym is a good place. the shopping scene, which will also help you get a sense of his style, well basically anyware i suppose. You seem to live in a high density area, no? Up here in Montana you selection would be limited so go out and explore.Enough of my rambling, i hope something i said helps, i have no creditability on the gay scene though. Good luck on you soul finding.PEACE
  5. Well it seems to me that the time gap that he broke up with his last girlfriend and started to go out with you is very short. Thus it is hard to think that the trem "love" is being properally used here. He most likely like you but to say that he loves you at this point is a little to far. That my thought though.
  6. i guess it would help if you gave more info about her life thoughts.Does she want to settle down, or does she still have that party girl in her. I guess that was kinda of answered , you know what i mean? Spying will not help you begin to trust her, in fact its doing the exact oppsite. The best thing is to sit down and have a talk with her, most people don't do this, but it helps. Good luck
  7. Perhaps he just needs some time apart from you. You two are so young, he may have felt that you were dsuffercating him, eventhough you thought it was just quailty time. Give it a few weeks go talk to him about this, maybe this will clear some things up.
  8. well man, all i can say is sometimes you have to take a chance. You could be missing out on something really great. From my experience if you don't learn to talk to older wemon at an early age you never will. Go up and talk to her, you have nothing to lose.
  9. You got to go out and run as much as possible. For me to took a little more than 1 month to get a decent sixpack with running and situps. But in order for this to work you have to wun everyday.
  10. Na dude you good, in the college dorms everyone is playing wow and diablo, im on diablo all the time II that is, well not as much since GT4 came out. Seriousally everybody is palying games.
  11. Deffentally 2 , but it really doen't matter, i always give every girl one date to impress me.
  12. does it only happen at this time, or will it continue during the day. give alittle more info and i can tell you more.
  13. Well it just so happenes that i just went to college and had a girlfriend back homw, we did the whole driving bit(193 miles apart) it didn't work out, there were to many girls at the college, but my friend who went to the same college as me is still with his girlfriend back at our home town and they are very happy. So i would give it a 50-50 chance, good luck.
  14. Its simple, older guys look for youth and physical appearances when their looking for a girl. that what out phyc department teaches us.
  15. Wemon like it when you pay attention to thier body movements and emotions in bed, maybe you did all this, at least thats how it works for me when im with my girls.
  16. Well the other guys are obvesoully insterested in you, SO don't listen to them. If the thing with your boyfriend gets to bad comfront him about it, tell him he needs to controll it, your not his property. Getting attached takes time for some people, love is truly present than time will allow you to love him more. Good luck
  17. Its good your venting, this is the forst step to losing these thoughts. Theres not much one can say if you haven't been in this position before. I don't know how it feels to go through what your going through. I just wish that you will begin to appreicate life a little more. Maybe you sould move, go to another country, somewhere green and warm. I hope you life fruitfull.
  18. Sounds like he is wrong in this case. Even if you have to go behind is back and go to the docotor, you should get the mornign after pill. It sounds like your boyfriend needs to wise up on his thoughts about life. Most men with any common sense knows that it doesn't take full peneration to get a femal pergnet. Go get the pill, or you might regret this for the rest of your life.
  19. nexus532

    Help!

    Ok, i saw this girl when i went to Denneys last night, she waved at me and i smiled back. I didn't do anythinelse. My question back is weather i should i go back and met her, or weather is should i brush it off, help; plz.
  20. Yeah, ive dated a couple of girls who were intensely into sports. I got along with them very well. I am an altheletic type of guy so we would always paly some sport, catch, hiking,fishing,ect. Yuo just need to find a man who loves to do these things but has a sensitive side as well. Don't get to sensitive of a man because you won't be happy with the way he acts after a few months.
  21. Sorry i just skimmed over your story, i have alot of post to do tonight. Its hard for you to see your brother fall and keep falling. One day he will look back on his life and wonder what happened. I hope for his sake and your families that he will turn his life around. i have seen an old friend fall to drugs and crime, its hard to see someone struggle through life, and you feeling like you can't do a thing. I wish your brother will turn his life around. Who knows maybe one day he will be a symbol of how someone can turn their life around.
  22. Yeah, you should totally tell him. If he is a gentalman he will have a new found respect for you. I wish there were more girls like you that never fooled around with men in there youth. Im tired of falling for wemon who tend to get around. I hope your relationship will last over the years. Good luck
  23. Good for them, i have a friend who is getting married in a year. I hope every new couple gets thought the good and the bad with only happiness.
  24. Well what your going through is a tough thing to handle. Perhaps its not that you don't love them but you just don't like them. I have that kind of relationship with my mom, i dislike her personality and most aspects about her. That doesn't prevent me for loving her. Its the least thing i can do, they raised my, it was the best gift they gave me. Try to have a talk with them, maybe you both need to open up to each other.
  25. Maybe you should try to get a pet, like a cat or dog. If your apartment doesn't allow you to have a small animal perhaps you should move to a different location. It seems to me that the only thing that your missing is partnership. I know in a sense what your feeling, im going through college, when i come home the house is usually dark and quite, my roomates are usually studing ect. I think of how my cat and puppy are doing and can't wait to the moment where i can hold them again. If you need any more info feel free to e-mail. I have many more thoughts about this but there are so many more post to reply to. You are a good person and don't let anything get you down.
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