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look into his eyes and ask him. You really don't know if you can trust anyone. Everybody has alterior motives, you should do what you think is right.

well if your both virgins that how do either of you know what good sex is? don't sweat it you'll do fine, no worse than any other man on his first sex expierance. GL

well id have to agree, weed doesn't make you happier in some sense. Let me put it this way, if someone does cocaine and snorts up, you see them on the bathroom floor shaking and bleeding, to the person on the floor he/she may be happy in that fraction of ones life, but everyone who sees this person on the floor views a unhappy person who is trying to escape from the real world.

well, i wonder if any of your senses hav eovercompasated for your lost of smell??

I try to help, but only hurt, thoes who laughed, begin to cry. Pulsing with all the emotions they all exhert, my heart inside screams to die. Some have fallen, others have faded, as their lives drift into memories. Their world so cold and jaded, shall soon vanish into bottumless vallies. I gaze upon thoes eyes shaded gray, like the sun who has lost the moon. The fleash of love has forgot about the day, My heart will wait for you in this temple of ruin. The medowlark awakes thoes who have slept, frosting life carries on its way. I cast my eyes out upon the silk of love, no more crying, no more hurting. Well this is a very simple poem thought of while listening to some music, it only took about 30min to write so it is not well thought out. But i hope you enjoyed it, perhaps i will expand on it later.

you could always get wasted and kiss , it will make things for you alot eaiser. No i kid, thats bad advice, at least till you get to college, lol. Well take a deep breath and just give a small kiss. To many people think that when you kiss it has to be a long drawn out kiss. Just give a short kiss, not to short but you get the idea. After the fisrt one, or second, it will become alot eaiser. until you do kiss, it will create stress that you don't need.

Good, i hope you 2 have a healthy relationship. Very proud!

well it has come to my attention that many people are having issues talking to someone they like. With keeping shyness in mind, and that fact that some personalities don't have trust in their capabilities to persue the oppsite sex, or is other cases the same sex. Now, most people who like someone well generally just stare at the other person off and on. Now this is good for a starting tool, but after awhile it just becomes weird to the person on the other side of the stare. So instead of trying to drill holes through their eyes with your eyes week after week, go say hi to him/her. After you do this the potential relationship won't think of you as an old highschooler stalker who has had some plastic sugery. Now keep saying hi to her all the time you see her, throw in some hellos and than throw in the how are you doing today. After that things will become easy when it comes to talking to him/her. Now i know that saying hi to another person can cause come people to sound like thier about to die, but i assure you its alot eaiser than some tests that i have to take in college. There is a problem that needs to be addressed with all this. Some many people try to move in to fast, like asking someone out on a date the first time they talk to them, this is alot harder to do because of rejection. By just saying "hi" there will be no rejection, unless the person is a coldhearted skeleton who just missed halloween. Hopefully some people will take note of my advice, this whole processes will take about a week and half to become on long conversations with the person, maybe a little shorter. i can map out the steps but i don't have the time to do so. Never forget that love is only one word away, and that one word my change your life forever.

well, it seems you have had a rough road behind you, but your not putting that road behind you. TO me, it looks like you traviling a familier road, and along this road you haven't found your nitch/home. You need to get yourself off this depression road. Do things you normally don't do; join a fitness club, do some voluntering ect. Yes you lost someone very important to you, and there was knowone to fill that gap your mom filled. Maybe you should take this time to try and connect with your father,or perhaps some siblings or old friends. i hope you can overcome where so many other people have fallen amongst the depression, be strong and pave your own way.

well i do alot of boxing at my college, its a good workout just as long as you do the right things. The bad is good, but you should do some jump rope inbetween slots of hitting the bag, keeping the heart rate up is very important. If you heart rate drops during workouts, these workouts well become less effective. As long as you stay commited you should see results a month, of solid working out. GL

well, your only sixteen, and trust me when i say this, most relationships won't last through highschool and college. Its a hard fact, so if she moves you may lose a love but you will always have a friendship.

don't blame this all on your self. He needs to be a more perceptice person, unless your very good at hiding you feelings. But if you want to experss your feelings more, start with touching which may be eaiser for you. When he ask you how you feeling, just smile at him give him a hug and say " i feeling good now that im with you" ansd assuming that he has no commitment issues he should begin to understand. As your relationship progresses you will find it eaiser to expresses you feelings toward him through words, it just takes time.

To sum it up all you ned tot do is RUN!

well maybe you should have check this back problem out with a doctor. If says no than you know there is a problem, other than that i don;t know what to say. But after a few years being together most relationships lose some romance. Maybe you should concentrate less on sex and more on here feelings. Getting her in the mood usually begins in the morning,.

yes, everyperson likes to make thing final. Plus girls like to pay attention to small things like that. So just ask her out, it won't take more than 6 seconds.

dang for us college is almost over, how long do you have left? than i will answer you question.

well he still has feeling for you, but he just wants to be a friend, maybe hes just a nice person and still values the friendship that you two may have. Just keep buddy/buddy with him.

i don;t think i would want to control my dreams. I think that everydream means something, ie; aspects if your life. Dreams bring so many wonderful thoughts to me in my sleep, i won;t want to change that.

nope, that doesn't seem like love at all.

Yeah thanks so the imput, I'm trying to reffer to her as a sister like person to help trick my mind into thinking of her as a sister. Come on now the insecest thing was way out of line. nasty.

well i guess time can only tell, don;t be jealous of other guys, have faith that she loves only you. Don't base anything off past realtionships thats how generlations happen and fights begin, and nothing good can come from that. Start her on a clean slate, hopefully things will turn around. Anyway im going to bed i have finals in 8 hours.haha, one a writing class hopefull this warms me up. Night.

Well you were once an open person, hell, it sounds like you were a good person. Yes that last girlfriend was a big time female dog, the world has a funny way of getting back at people, she will probally get pregnat in a year and have a bad life(the old GF that is). HUM, since you were once a good person that means you are strong enough to change. But it is eaiser to be bad than good, but bsing good has so many more rewards. I can't tell you how to change, that has to be done by you. But i can say that if you don;t change you may lose the love of your life, and knowone wants that to happen. People think that finding love is the hard thing, but i think that keeping love is harder. Once you find out how to change back than things will fall together and you two will be happy again. I hope you do change for both of you.

it would seem that being shy is the biggest life draining sickness around. What a bummer atribute to be cursed with, yeah im a shy person to.poor US.

Well i don't know to many fairy tales where they fight every week Anyway, maybe that fact that you are fighting all the time, and that your being jealous is causing her to seek someone out that will understand her more. Sorry to say this but from what you wrote she crying out for someone to understand her better. Stop fighting with each other, come to conclusions, meet in the middle, it will be hard but it has to happen. I believe that anyone can change anyaspect of them, but it takes hard work, and not everybody is cut out for it. You need to change for her, start making he happy, surprise her with flowers and other gifts each week, she will start to feel like you care about her more. Tell her she looks good everytime you think she is dressing up. You need to tap into a romantic side that you may have never shown before, but if you do she will love you and drift away from these silly internet relationships.

Im going back home in 2 weeks, after college finals. Now there is a girl back home that I had a fling with last year, (during the relationship we always talked, there was never a dull or quite moment). It ended up in a mess, with her old boyfriend, who she was attached to ( eventhough he was mean to her). She no longer has this boyfriend(goodthing), but i feared that when we broke up things were completely done with us. HAHA i guess not, she come to the city where i go to college the other week, and i guess she asking how i was doing and wanted to see me. When i go back to our home city i will probly see her, I want to remain just friends with her, because i don't have i sister and now i realize that she could have been the closest thing to a sister i could of had. Basically i was wondering how do i keep this from going to far, i know that we will spend lots of time together if i do call her, i want her as a sister nothing more. But will my mind over take my heart? Please just give some imput.