nexus532

I'm so sorry you had to lose you dad. there is no pain greater than to lose a parent at such a young age. You must find ways to look for things that remind you of your dad in your stepdad. You are only fourteen years old, there is much love in the world, soon you will find someone who reminds you of you dad.

I too have just moved to college, all the things seemed to come at once and there is a point where i thought i should just drop out of college and find a boring job. I had to leave my girlfriend of 3 years because she was moving down south. I came to college thinking that i was going to be a pharmisists, now i know that i can olny be happy as a teacher. my girlfriend said before she left that after her four years of college that she would come looking for me so we can be together. My point is that you need to get through these years of college no matter what. Think of what life may be like when your done. A good family, the love of you life and a beautiful house. Four years is not that long but to be happy you must get through the hard times.

I have recentally moved to a new town to go to college. Back in high school i would have no problem talking to any girl. But it seems that now that i have moved towns communcation with the oppsite sex has been a throne in my side. It has been about 3 months and I haven't even talked to any new girls. Some have tried to flert with me accross the classroom EX: looking at me and begin to play with their. But it seems every thime this happens i brush it off to the side and don't acknowledge them. I feel bad about it but it seems i can't help it. if anyone has any tips on how to get back into my game it would be greatly appericated. Thank you "When you do something right people won't be sure you've done anything at all".

Maybe the fact that she is acting different means that she is trying to find ways to get you to ask her out.

This may sound crazy but it could be the olny way for you to find out if he loves you more than his games. First keep doing as you did and confront him more and more, see if you can start to get through to him about his gameing problems. If it keeps to continue after that let him know that you are very upset that he is spending more time with his games than you. If this addiction still continues present him with a choice, tell him its either you or the games. This will be very hard for you to do but it may be nessecerry for you to to in order to find happiness. After all you don't want to go through you life feeling lonely because your boyfriend neglects you for his games. there are always more men that will give you the attention that you truly deserve. remember if you are not happy with his actions now and he doesn't change you may never find happiness within him.

recentally i have moved to a new town, it is much bigger than my last one and has more of a night life, due to the closeness to a major Montana college. Before i came to this town i would never have any problems finding a new relationship or even making new girl friends. i bascially had relationships throughout my high school experiance. Now i am in college and 200 miles from home, its been 6 weeks of college and i can't find a new girlfriend. I go out alot, to the gym every day, out to parties, and to school functions. Though i have met some girls at parties i've decided that i am done with one night stands. I am not a shy person and usually have no problems talking to the oppisite sex. If anyone has helpful thoughts for me it would be very helpful.