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DUDE don't think theres something wrong with you. I have the same thoughts, i don't want to do anything sexual with any girl that has had multipul partners. Basically what you feel is natural, also you are controlling an urge that many people find it hard to deal with. Just keep doing what your doing, it also could be keeping you out of troble.

Well lets try to make this short. Theres a girl in one of my classes, im pertty sure she around my age, of course im attracted to her, and im fairly sure shes attracted to me, she looks over at me during class alot, but she never lets me catch her, i hope thats a sign.Usually im good at reading people but shes a hard one. Anyway theres 2 weeks left and college is done for 3 months. Here is the problem, im wondering if i should make a move on her? I live in montana during the summer and i think she mentioned something about her living in Utah, but we don't talk much. I don't want to miss the chance of finding love, but i don't want to feel selfish by making a move and having her feel like she can't have the fullest summer vacation. Oh what to do? If only two weeks felt like two months.

well, first of all if someone mentions "trust" and hes cheating on their wife or husband, generally you should not trust them. Anyway sorry for what happened to you. I think you can take legal action about getting fired, after all if you can present realitive info about what happened between you and him and the time you where fired you got your self a case. I hope you love live will only prosper after this inncident, you have to take this as a stepping stone, find yourself a man that you know truly loves you. Good luck!!

i guess it depends, i don't think that it would do anything to encourge him, but i don't think that it hurt any chances.

you really can't change a personality, otherwise you wouldn't be yourself anymore. You can change your outlooks and ethics. Never heard of the paper deal but, if you really want to change than look into self imrpovement books.

Good for you wanting to become an english teacher. I to want to become an English teacher(first year in college). Well i don't know what to say except, you shouldn't refer to it as a dream. After all, how often to dreams come true. So maybe you should start to refer to it as a goal than maybe you could get a break in life.Aslo ten year sof college isn't that bad i have to go for eight, mostly because i eventally want to become a dean of a college. But, do whatever makes you happy.

Its your call, after all its your life. Just remember that if you did take her away from her husband all three of you will have to live with that weight on your sholders. My opinion, just stay friends.

lol, that would be a weird expierence. As for what you can do , just let her know that you didn't like that thing she did and than brush it off. She will get the point and things will get back to normal. Also she might want to spice things up in bed, which is a good thing. So maybe you should start to get creative.

Ha! go ahead and ignore this but what your doing Is wrong, you disrespect everyone your family and everyone you know. GROW UP

Well in in college in the U.S. and it required all students to have shots, go to youcolleges website, it should tell you.

Well theres only one thing to do. If you are actually sure he is fooling around and looking to you for a shoulder to lean on then you have to end it. Go to his place, when he answers the door tell him its over and walk away, don'r go inside because all thats waiting in there for you is more lies from him. Turn and walk away and don't look back.

Well i suppose i should get these ideas out and see what everyone thinks about them. Summary on age: 1)Why do we think as humans that we are gradually getting older? To me things that get older have no ultimate death.As humans we carry the weight of death, thus we are actually getting younger. By saying that you are geting older it implies that you are growing farther away from death. Also if people would begin to think that they are getting younger as time goes on, perhaps it would greatly increase the joy of life and it would also dismiss the idea that you have spen a life doing nothing. Summary on religion: 2)Why do people push religion on others? This very sensitive subject has and will always push humanities hearts and souls to the edge. Many people that go to church on Sundays say they believe in "God" but outside church they don't exercise any sign of thier faith, except when they are in need or praying for someone else. On the other spectrum a religion that has many "Gods" which other religions believe is a pegian(spelling error) idea will try to push its beliefs on this many "God" society. Overall i think that it is better to believe in many "Gods" and worship them to the fullest than to believe in one "God" and worship him one day a week.But i guess this negates my thoughts about its better to have an idea than a belief, because ideas can always be changed. Summary on living 3)Finally there's the question of what is our purpose? 3)I believe that our purpose on this earth is to simpliy state it is to die. I think of the Earth as having a 24 hour life span. It has already used up its time between 12:00 A.M till 11:56 P.M. humans came onto this Earth at 11:56, and each life only represents one millionth of a second on that clock. Now im not saying that a human life means nothing, but rather that our pourpose here is to do nothing more than live a life and die. Eventhough you should try to live a happy life, try to make the lives of thoes around you even happier. The best way to feel happy is to know that you have made someone elses day. The time is ticking, what will you do? Please don't inflame this topic, its just my thoughts.

well, my advice is not to pull her away from her present boyfriend, it will only create stress. If you do this you are being a selfish person. Thinking only of yourself and not the happiness of her and her current boyfriend. Than you would be considered a bad person. Let things play themselves out, if you two are meant to be together than it will happen.

Yeah, it takes ahwile to reach ejaculation when getting oral. I guess for me when a girl has a kind of dry mouth it sucks, no pun intended. So make sure you don't have a dry mouth. I guess you could chew gum for a soild few weeks and try to stregthin your jaws.

Yeah, it's completely natural to feel this way, but what makes you a man is if you just let it slide. If you do love her you'll understand that she can talk to other guys well knowing that there is no real attraction between them. Showing you thoughts about this well most deffentally lead to inseceruity.

Well what state, every state has different laws, here in Montana 16 is the legal are to be dating/ect with adults.

just think to yourself, when i stand up straight i look loke i have alot of confidance,thus more people will pay attention to you.

No, don't stop hanging out with them, just as long as there not selling it. I have lots of friends that smoke pot, that doesn't mean i have to smoke it as well. As for the day, its not really a holiday, its just a monument day for smokers.

not only is it normal, but it is also healthy.

jeez, there is really nothing i can say not ever been in this kind of situation before. Im so sorry, be strong and don't forget that whatever makes you happy is the right thing.

It depends on what kind of body your looking for. Having a well toned body or being Strong?

Maybe the answers are not with god but they were with you the whole time. Perhaps you need to step out of you life for a little while and remember what made you happy.

Well the is something as female ejaculation, though im not to sure about it, i think it has something to do with helping any possible sperm go up the vagina and all thoes other parts.

Finding romance is all about timing. maybe you should become friends with one of the girls that you like. this will provide a base for you to look into future intstresed that may follow. Meaning that as soon as the relationship ends which is a good possibility, you will be there to make you move. slow playing is the first step to finding the best possible girl, thats my model.

Due to a semi popular topic i have decided to do a part two. woot Yes, I do realize that it is the 21st centery and more people are now beginning to be more open about thier sexual expierances.But with this statement HAS become my problem as well as the problem of humanity. Many kids and young adults that are indeed having sex are doing so without the proper knowledge about thier actions. This brings about the truth that STD's are becoming a major factor in Western civilization societies. Mant std's that have kept a low brow along the std radar are now beginning to arise in many young adults. these young adults (15-22) are doing these sexual actions withput thinking about the consquences. Because thats what the human instresed is right? To maximize pleasure and minimize pain, and in doing so the wrong decision may be made. And yes, underage kids were having sex since the dawn of time, it is only until recentally that it has become a mass practice. Perhaps the world needs to slow down to allow its inhabitants to catch up. Part 3 will be alot more informational if this topic is popular enough to da a part 3, part 2 was created to answer any questions that may have been raiesed due to responses. Thank you for all thoes good thoughts and any new one that you may have.