i don't hang out at the bars. I hang out with friends and they are very nice to me. It seems that I always strike out. I can't understand it though. I am nice, honest, smart and I have a well paid job. It seems the jerks always win their hearts but after awhile the ladies reliazed that they made a mistake. I am not needy at all toward girls. So, I only wanted to know how to make a girl respect and love me for what I am (The nice guy). That is all.