I have been divorced for about 2 years. My wife abrubtly left me for someone else. In the last 6 months, I have found a special person. However, I am having diffculty trusting her because:
1. She goes out to meat-market clubs weekly. I am okay with fact she wants to go out to happy hours with work friends, but the happy hours turn into a few hours, and it's the same place my ex hooked up with her new boyfriend. She knows it upsets me, but she does it anyways. Last week, we had a special night planned and she still managed to squeeze in some time at this place. Although I was mad, I didn't confront her about it. A couple days later, I noticed she had some calls (on cell phone) from another guy.
2. She holds on to jewerly from ex's.
I have been trying to avoid her because of the suspiousions (#1)
Should I just be patient?
Is sneaking around (spying) right considering the circumstatnces?
I want to move forward but it seems tough to deal with issues.