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    Your situation is not all that uncommon I can assure you. Heck a week before I broke up with my ex the first time because she wasnt sure how she felt about a "friend", she had sent me an email saying how she cant live wihtout me blah blah blah. It happens suddenly because love blinds us to the signs. Absolutely give her space. If anything show her you do not need her in your life. If she doesnt want to be with you it will never work out. Worse case senario is she comes back and tells you something similar 1 year later after you have invested more time. To be honest if she wants to be with you then she will. As for her time off from relationships. That is great. In that time she has had the opportunity to really explore herself and what she wants. Maybe she didnt? Who knows. I dont see the logic in her needing to "adjust" quite frankly people are social animals and going from singlehood to relationships is a transition but if she is in the right frame of mind and you are the one she wants to be with it wont be a problem. If the transition is such a problem then you need to ask yourself is this the girl for you.
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    UM not to be funny but if she is clinically sane woudl she risk losing you if she thought you were the one? Trying to get her to open up will most likely push her away. Give her space and be prepared that this might be the end. I personally would become less available to her. If she wants her space she has to expect that you are not going to sit around waiting for her to figure things out.
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    I think the difference with what you have pointed out and the OP situation is the object of desire is real, where porn is not, and it is someone close to the OPs GF, porn is not. Bad example in my opinion. A better example would be if the OP was writing sexually explicit stuff about someone he knew and was in close contact with. Different story I suspect.
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    A good healthy woman does not in my experience need to "keep" a "friend" around. A friend that you meet and hang out with along with her is one thing. I would be very suspect of any girl who wouldnt bring me along. Not that I need to go along everytime but if she is hanging out exclusively with another man, then no. Exclusivity is for SO in my opinion. In my experiences both personal and from other people this is a way to keep the options open and you at bay especially if they are unsure about putting all there eggs in one basket.
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    Yikes Frisco calm down! You're scary me.
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    Good point. But it takes strength to know you will be ok on your own or without her.
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    Had blue balls once and yeah it was uncomfortable. I can imagine as the arcticle points out its uncomfortable for women as well, and no I am not referring to my incessant whining for "realease".
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    He's not the only fish in the sea, but I have been so busy trying to get my own finances and career in order, that I have not encountered other people whom I do not have to "wait for" that quite fit what I am looking for. If this is the case I think you should end it here. Why settle just to be with someone.
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    Yeah at this point its just written word. Some girls like to keep logs of past guys they kissed etc. Its her other actions I would be more concerned about and the fact it invovles someone she is close to. At this point as DN said let her see what therapy does in the meantime talk to her but dont accuse her. Its not a crime to fantasize.
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    Huh. My response was my own personal thing.
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    His loss. Now only if I could find a girl to cook ethnic dishes for me then I wouldnt have to do all the cooking.
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    Right before heaven.
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    How knows but very few people are able to juggle everything men and women. I think it has more to do with overall capabilities. Some people can just fit more into their lives. I think that these types of people prefer to be together.
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    I used to think like that then I realized there are plenty of educated people who dont have a clue. For me having a clue is the most important in terms of "intelligence."
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    Referring to me I suppose since I am the only other man who has posted.
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    Actually now that I think about it its like the debate about men and housework for me I have always been conscious in trying not to step on GFs toes in regards to traditional female roles, however I am not too good at that. I can do everything "female" in fact I would be willing to wager that I can do these things better than most women. I can cook, clean, do laundry etc better than most women. I am 100% self sufficient. Sometimes I think though that this can turn women off because it take over their feeling of being needed. Its a tough one.
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    Please not another one of these posts. Nope nope and nope for me.
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    To be fair you shouldnt be too hard on yourself. Maybe it wasnt such a good idea to involve a friend however you did make it clear about your feelings. She just had the expectation that they would change so I dont see it as you "screwed her around." And yes people should definitely take time to date themselves.
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    I use a straight razor (cutthroat razor) and its absolutely fantastic. I get no razor burn and it actually provides some challenge to shaving and makes it more enjoyable. I have been using one for 9 months now and to be honest I cant wait to shave everytime. what was once a mundane task for me no is (maybe sadly) a highlight of my week (I only need to shave every second day). Yuo acn buy a straight razor online ebay is a great source for them. Cheap as well, you can get them for a little as $5. you will need a honing stone a and a strop as well so the initial outlay is a bit but no more $5 disposable blades (mach 3). Heres a site to check out: link removed PS I do not usually use for my "package"
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    If you look back you probably could tell. I had the luxury last night of looking back over some emails of my ex that I had saved. I saved them because we were in a long distance relationship and I wanted them as proof if it ever came that one of us needed to immigrate. It was great to have everything in writing. None of this thinking back and wondering "did she really say that, did she really feel this way etc etc." I have concrete proof and believe me red flags were staring me in the face, big time. Heres synopsis of my findings.
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    Fantastic. You should keep a running log here so that people can get a good understanding of what its like to actually "get it." And yeah they always come back out of the woods when they know you are doing good. Happens to me quite often.
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    I should have said the "incentive" of NOT being with you.
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    Yeah all I can say is from what you have written in the first few paragraphs that she has one foot in and one foot out the door, if even that. She probably knew this guy before and somethign was going on not necessarily physical. She didnt keep her promise. And do not under any circumstances listen to what her friends have to say. They are not part of the relationship and may have ulterior motives. Again I think you are better off dumping this girl.
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