tylercdurden2004
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What exactly does it need 2 to do?
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Nothing like putting the blame on someone else eh.
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Jazz, You are a very strong person who never gives up. You did everything you could to get yourself better. I wish all the best for you.
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Yes and all too often peoples egos get the best of them and they avoid or are blinded to reality. The best way to get to the bottom of things I have found is to bottom line things. That is look at actions as opposed to words. People can say all sorts of great things but at the end of the day its the actions that matter.
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Give her one!
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I dont think she actually thinks its harmless. That maybe her way of justifying it to herself. You guys need to read between the lines. If a guy she really loved did this to her do you honestly think she would see it as harmless. But when the shoes on the other foot. No sane person would think this is OK. They would however justify it like heck. Shes got all the power now.
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Seeing prostitutes? And hes married? Wow this guy is a real DB. I have to say he has zero repsect for you. You can never love more than you respect.
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She wants you to come accross as a jealous beast? If this is the case I might read into that, that she wants you to show a little more attention towards her. Not in a jealous way but in a controled and confident way. Whens the last time you romanced her and took her out on a date like dancing or something she loves. Whens the last time you surprised her. Most women love to be romanced and surprised with nice things. not all the time but in a meaningful way that shows you are thoughtful and loving towards her.
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Keep cool. Thats it. Show her your have no insecurities that would make her feel she has control over you. Be in control of yourself. If she is more interested in attention and not able to draw clear boundaries then you may have to dump her. At the end of the day she will only be more attracted to you if she knows where the line in the sand is and knows you dont need her and you are who you are irrespective of how she acts.
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You shouldnt have to ask what she needs. She shouldnt have to spell it out. This is the unfortunately the way things her are. Most likely in her mind she think "jeez do I really have to spell out everything for this numbskull". she doesnt want to go to a therapist and that should be saying a lot.
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ever felt like you are a trainer!?
tylercdurden2004 replied to numbhead's topic in Healing After Break Up or Divorce
That is the most important thing you could learn. Next time stand up for yourself that is why she left. You were a doormat. -
If I was in your shoes i would look at why she is feeling the need to look elsewhere for affection. Whats is it that you are doing to push her away. First I think you are giving her to much control and not taking control of the situation yourself. Shes tells you all sorts of crud and you back down. Ultimately you may need to take a hard look at dissolving this relationship.
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Shes your best friend. but guess what? your not hers otherwise she would be straight up with you and not do what she is doing.
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I realize that the suicide is not about the girl. It never really is. t may be that she was the straw that broke the camels back. She is bad for you and you need to get away.
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I'd rather meet up for a coffee and have a chat in person. Good. Thats teh way it should be. Talking on the phone, online is no basis for a strong relationship much less getting to "know" someone. It does happen at time but very very rarely that people sustain a relationship over the phone or internet. Its only really excuseable if distance is an issue and even then that cant continue indefinitely. If decided to marry this girl would the marriage be strictly over the phone? The sooner the better to see someone in person. To get to see the facial expressions when they are talking to you. To be able to read their body language.
