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    cheating

    musicguy replied to enadevoli's topic in Infidelity

    I think cheating is wrong! If you love someone so much, are committed to them and want to be with them, why cheat on them? I never understand/understood why people cheat on each other. Musicguy
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    I'm halfway done with college, I get outta school in 4 months and graduate hopefully 7 weeks later after my internship. I'm heading into a pretty tough industry. (the music industry). I've wanted to be an audio engineer since I was 17. I'm 24 now and I'm finding out that I'm struggling with things a lot. The first two months of school I was getting A's and B's and now it's been going downhill since then. I took semester finals 2 weeks ago and I did fairly good. My friend asked me a question and I couldn't even answer it, it was a fairly simple question and I blanked out..I felt like crap. I even asked him "how am I gonna graduate from this school if I don't even know what I'm doing?" I don't know what to do, I just can't quit now (even though I've wanted to) It takes me a lot of repetativeness and understanding in order for me to get things and it seems like my classmates learn at a quicker pace than myself. I dunno know I wanna graduate and do what I love doing. Musicguy
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    I'm a skater and yeah skating does get to be a BIG part of life, but it's not the only thing that we do, but try to learn how to skate. Personally I think that skater girls are pretty cool, just cuz there aren't a lot of them around..so grab a board and try to learn, have steve teach you, ask him where he usually skates and tag along. Good luck. Musicguy
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    allstarsassyone, I know how you feel. I have a money problem right now. I'm in college and luckily my mom has been kind enough to pay ofr my college and my rent each month by sending it to me. I don't have a job down here cuz I need to concentrate on my studies while I'm here. Don't be ashamed that you haven't graduated college or have gotten your degree yet. I felt the same way you did when all of my friends were graduating from 2 year colleges and I was still back home working everyday and I knew what I wanted to do, but I had to wait 2 years to get into the college that I'm at now and now I have 4 months left of school. You'll gradute and get your degree, just keep pluggin away. I have a friend back home who has no idea what he wants to do and he's in his 3rd year of college. You'll be okay. Musicguy
  5. musicguy
    how old are you?
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    A lot of the advice that the others have posted are pieces of advice that I heard back in junior high and high school also...so go for it my friend, what do you have to lose? if she says no, she says no, if you wait to long to ask her then you might regret it later. Good luck!
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    A lot of my classmates in college are always talking about wanting to get laid, sure I like sex and all, but sex to me is more of an emotional AND physical experience. I've never had casual sex before or any one night stands and I'm okay with that. Sex to me is meaningful, it's an very intimate encounter between two people who love, care and respect each other. I've always associated sex with love in my past relationships and with my relationship now. Sure, I do "lust" after women sometimes, but can control myself. Musicguy
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    it's not a sin to masturbate, as for lustful thoughts and porno thoughts being a sin, well I don't believe that they are a sin, in fact it's human to have these thoughts, but that's my opinion. Musicguy
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    Sorry to hear that I hope that she gets better. I will keep her in my thoughts and prayers. Musicguy
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    Vagina's like penises look different. You can get surgery to reduce your labia..if surgery is what you want to do, that's your decision to make. Guys mostly like anything, so I'm sure that any guy that you are with is gonna be okay with it. Personally I like large lips, but not too large. musicguy
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    I'm 24 and my girl is 17. I see nothing wrong with it. musicguy
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    I'm 24 and my gf is 17. Age to me is just a number. If you love each other/like each other a lot, then age shouldn't matter. musicguy
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    my fiancee got in trouble with her cell phone..actually it's an "emergency" phone and she text messages me and talked to me on it. Her lil sister told on her and she got grounded and I'm assuming has her phone taken away from her...also she rarely checks her e-mails. I'm all about communication in a relationship and this really sucks, because I'm trying to get in touch with her but I can't. I don't know what to do...I've been all because of this. musicguy
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    a 1 year age gap isn't THAT much of an age difference. Go for it man!! ask her to a movie and hang out with her. musicguy
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    i have a bunch of half-naked, or nearly naked girls pics on my wall...I'd say that if a girl or my girl had pics of guys on her wall it wouldn't bother me cuz they are celebrities, how often does one run into/meet a celebrity? not everyday. musicguy
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    I like holding hands and P.D.A. I just don't like someone who's really clingy
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    I agree with you, there are some beautiful women who know that they can get any that they want and like you said they don't need to put much effort into being wanted and yes out of experience I'm met some really B*^$% hot girls, quite conceited and not worth my time. Musicguy
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    my gf has he same problem. I just tell her to hold the bear that I got her really, really tight when she goes to bed. Musicguy
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    Hmm, well...I'm in the situation that your bf is in and my girlfriend is a year older than you are. There are some legal issues that come with having someone over 18 living with an underaged person. (legal guardianship, paren't persmission, etc). If anything were to go wrong if both of you are living together, then ur bf could get into a lot of trouble. Decide what you two think is right. Just be careful. I too have to be careful when making this decision also. Musicguy
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    here's my question to you..why did you end up making out with 2 girls in the first place if you knew that you are with someone? as for how long it's gonna take for her to trust you again, it depends on her. Musicguy
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    My girl called her nurse at the hospital and she told her that she isn't pregnant!!! the home pregnancy test that she took was inaccurate!!!! YAY!!!! I'm sooooo happy, WE are sooo happy!! What a relief on her shoulders and mine. We can no continue to heal and recover..This has been a hellish week and now our love will be stronger than ever. Thanks for all of you that replied to my post being concerned about me and my gf, thanks for all of your love and support thru out all of my crazy posts.. Musicguy
  22. musicguy
    it's a nice gesture to do.
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    my gf took a home pregnancy test last night and she told me that it was positive. What is the time frame or window when one can tell if they are pregnant or not. She tested 2 weeks after she got raped. She get's official results on Oct 31st. Thanks for ur input. musicguy
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    after a long talk last night with my fiance we got things straightened out and we are back together. She blamed herself a lot for everything, I mean she was an emotional wreck...after a rape, ya, any woman would be an emotional wreck. I asked her if I needed to change anything to help better the relationship and she said "no it's not you, it's me" Her counselor and her best female friend were very angry with her, in fact her best friend wouldn't talk to her anymore unless she reconciled with me. My girl has been feeling sick and she thinks she's pregnant because of the rape and she has made a decision to abort IF she's pregnant. because she and her body aren't ready for a baby right now and I support her decision or whatever decision she would make anyway. Things are really, really tough for her right now and she has been going to counseling, I'm reallly proud of her for doing that early on. I love her a lot, I care about her a lot, she means everything to me and I just her to be happy and hopefully get things back to normal. Musicguy
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    Carbine, bro, you have to tell someone, whether it's your mom, dad, a friend, anyone at school. I know things are rough. My fiancee temporarily broke up with me since Sunday night and I felt like crap and I wanted to kill myself, but the good people here at ealone and at link removed told me that I need to get professional help and I'm actually going get help. People have told me that suicide is a selfish act and ya I'm a cutter..you need break that habit if you can. Go to a therapist tho, it's for your own good and the good of ur family. People love you and care for you...so stay alive. musicguy
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