angel_n_chainz

Just because they tell you they need space doesn't mean there is somebody else, or Whatever.. When I broke up with my BF, i told him that I needed space and time to think about things and Get my Head Clear and I havent Once cheated on my bf nor Was I breaking up with him for anyone else, I just needed Time to Myself. Yes, I'm sure there is plenty of girls (and guys alike) that use that line when there is someone else but Dont automatically assume that's the reason. Cause sometimes people do need "Space' and need to be away from the relationship for awhile. ~ Angel ~

I Totally Feel where You are Coming From, My ex did the same things to Me. You Should Talk with Him again and Tell Him That It Makes you Mad and Upset and If He doesn't Understand where You are Coming From, Tell him that When He figures Things Out and Has Time To spend With You To call You and Not Until Then. Cause Guys Like That Will Jus Continue to Play Little Mind Games With You and Decide Their Friends are More Important Time after Time. Nobody needs to Be in a Relationship Where They are Being Pushed to The Side For Their Friends or Anybody. So Just Tell Him How it's Making you Feel and If he's a Good BF ( Like he should be ) He'll be More Understanding of Your Feelings and Would Make More time For You. Also, I've learned that Most of the Time When a Guy Says He is Sorry He never really Means It. ~ Angel ~

Thanks guys, I know it'd be wrong for me to not tell him and thats the last thing i want to do is keep something like this from him, Cuz I know he would be a good father. I'm just kinda scared and upset at my mom all at the same time, but I called him earlier and told him that I needed to talk to him about something Important and he said he would meet up with me after he gets off work so now all I have to do is tell him. But Of course, my mom is pretty upset with me now and not speaking to me. Im just worried that she's either going to kick me out or Try and get him into trouble. ( The thing is his age, He's 21, will be 22 soon ) Thanks ~ Angel ~

I Think You Answered Yourself.. If you two can still love each other after not being together and seeing other people then maybe her parents will see that maybe it's meant for you two to be together. ~ Angel ~

OK, I broke up with my bf bout a week or two ago and I found out last week that I am around 8-9 weeks pregnant. Im not sure what to do, I told my mom and she is being supportive so far. But my problem comes in with the father. Im kinda stuck. I feel the need to tell him, hes the father so he should know but My mom is threatning that if I tell him shes going to force me to have an abortion or get my ex bf for rape, which ive asked around and dont think she can do that considering that im 16 and in the state I live in , 16 is of legal consent age. But im still scared that she could possibly find a way to get him into trouble. She doesnt like my bf and never has , he hasnt done anything wrong to her or anybody else in my family, yes weve had our times and arent together now but who hasnt? But n e way my mom is just scared that if I tell him we'll get back together and he'll wanna get married and seh doesnt want any of her kids getting married. The point is, Should I Tell him and Risk him getting into Trouble? or should I just hold out? Cause I dont want him getting into trouble. That would just be wrong, When we slept together it was just as much my idea as it was his and we used protection, but obviously something went wrong and we didnt realize it. So could somebody please help me out here?!?! Thankz Guyz. ~Angel~

Thankz so much for replying.. Like you said, I still feel inside like there is alot that they arent telling me and I dont want to be in a relationship where I put everything into it and I get nothing in return. I'm only 16 I have way more priorities then worrying about if the guy I love is cheating on me. Thanks so much once again.. ~ Angel ~

As the topic says, I posted on here awhile back that I thought my bf was cheating. Well I found letters that the girl that I suspected that he was messing with had written him and well to make things short they werent just the everday 'Hi, how are you letters'. They were very, Lets say very sexual !! anyway, so I broke up with him. He told me that she wrote those letters cause he wouldnt do anything with her and that she wrote them hoping that he break up with me. Ok, for some reason that sounded alittle odd to me. So I go up and I confront the girl ( twice! ) and the first time she tells me that yeah she did sleep with him, Of course I was mad so I called my bf and ask him why he lied to me and he starts getting all emotional and telling me that we need to talk and bla bla bla.. So I meet him and we go back to his house and we talked for a good 3hrs or so, He tells me that he loves me and doesnt want us to be apart and would do anything for us to get back together. He tells me that he never slept with this girl, they kissed once and that was it, and the only reason he was hanging out with her was because I wasnt hanging out with him enough and he wanted to make me jealous so I would spend more time with him ( I go to school during the day and work pretty much everynight, and The time I am off work I spend it with him ) How could I possibly spend more time with him? I mean I dunno maybe I did fail at being a good GF? But anyway, the next day after I talk with him I confront this girl again and tell her what he said, and she says " oh yeah we only kissed " an well I dont know if I should believe her or what ?! So that night my bf comes to where I work saying he was sorry for hurting me and he loves me and how it was a stupid thing to do and all that. And now he is sending me emails saying how sorry he is and everything?!.. I'm just confused, is it possible that he did only kiss her and she was just doing what she was doing to break us up? Thankz! ~ Angel ~

I Have to agree with the post above me.. Some things are meant to be, and its good that you two are happy. Believe me though somethings may seem like they are meant to be and then they change. This is coming from experience and im not saying that you two arent going to spend the rest of your lives together its just somethings just dont end the way you want it too. Like I said this is coming from experience, My bf and I have talked about all those things and were "So much in love", we were going to get married, have kids, etc.. and now our relationship is kinda falling apart. SO dont hold yourself up just to be let down when your relationship doesnt work out. Its very possible that you could spend the rest of your lives together but like Tonk said .. for the majority of people, things dont always end up the way they hope. Hope everything works out for you though. ~ Angel ~

All i'm sayin is just be up front with her. Yah I agree with you that mind games arent fair but I mean come on... Just because she played mind games doesnt mean that you have to go out and play minds game with her. Thats kind of immature, Just tell her straight up that what she has been doing is messed up and tell her how you feel. Show her That you are the bigger person. Thats all i'm saying. But I mean its your call do what makes you happy. ~ Angel ~

If u want to end a friendship that bad and you are that upset or whatever why dont you just say what comes from your heart and explain your reasons instead of some cheesy (sorry) lines.. thats just like trying to hit on a girl using pick up lines. Not gonna work. ~ Angel ~

You guys have been alot of help in the past so I hope somone can help me out now.. As the topic says.. For the past I say week or so my bf has been acting totally different and has been spending alot of time "hanging out" with another girl, someone who I have honestly begged him not to be around for the simple fact that this girl is known for sleeping with most of the guys in my town and I just dont like her. He lied to me a couple of times saying that he was hanging out with one our guy friends until a few days ago I saw this guy out in town when my bf was nowhere to be found and this guy tells me that its been awhile since he has hung out with my bf. So, I go to where my bf works to see if maybe he was working and one of the girls he works with told me that he had left with this chic that I have been talking about so I wasnt too happy. I call his cell and I ask him if he wanted to hang out since he wasnt out with his boys. He said later, so I ask him why? and he tells me that he's hanging out with somebody else and that he'll call me later and I hang up. Well he calls me later that night around 2am and says that we cant hang out because he has to work the next morning and I tell him to forget it. We didnt talk for 2 days and I log onto my messenger last night and he IMs me and we talk for about 30 minutes and he says that he has to go because he is going to his friends house, and I ask him who he is going to see and he tells me the same guy as before ( who he ended up not hanging out with ) which turns out the same in this situation , he ends up going to somebody elses house instead ( which im 100 % sure is the same girls house he has been going to for awhile now ).. Should I Feel Like he is cheating on me? or am I just being paranoid and I should just back off?.. Cause when I go to talk to him about it he ignores me. What should I do about this situation? If nothing is going on why would he lie and tell me he is going somewhere totally different then he really is? ~ Angel ~

^^ i agree.. but all i can really say to you.. first off like the post above me says.. you two sound like teenagers. I mean comeon, you're married, and obviously old enough to go to a bar and drink, there is no reason you should have a curfew or be put on restriction. Im sorry, if you let this continue you are just an idiot (Sorry to be so harsh or whatever) but seriously.. if what you are explaining in your post continues something serious could happen.. Dont ever let a guy control you!?!?! Hope Everything Works Out For you.. Good Luck. ~ Angel ~

yes, please inform us how u add more length with weights, maybe im alittle naive on this since ima chic but.. i dont think there is much u can do w/o takin some type of pill or somethin like that. but then again like i said.. i dunno, im very naive since of course i aint got nuttin to worry bout with that. hehe Hope ya find a solution.. ( sorry for not being much help ) ~ Angel ~

Think Again Hunny... ~ Angel ~

Hmm.. yeah!?! Anyway.. as far as Your Post, All I can Say Is Stick to Being Friends For Alittle While, and See Where Things Go From There.. Who knows Maybe After Awhile Her Mom Will Open and Possibly Change Her Views of You Two Dating. Im Saying From Experience Cause I, Myself am 16 and My Bf is 21 and We've Been Dating For a few Months Now But Have Known Each other For a Few Yrs and At First My Mom Wasnt To Fond of The Idea of Me Dating Someone 5 1/2 yrs Older then Me but As We Started Getting Closer and Becoming More Then Friends My Mom Slowly Opened Up To The Fact of Us Dating and Now She Approves Completely and She Gets Along With my Bf. So Like I and A Few Others Have Said.. Just Kinda Stay on the D/L For Awhile Before Jumping Into a Relationship, B/c You Can Get Into Some Serious Trouble Even If You Dont Do Anything, and That You Should Really Think about, Ya Know.. and Who knows More Could Come Out of It.. Anyway Good Luck and Hope Everything Works Out For Ya. ~ Angel ~