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So, I get tired of him I walk around the house thinking all these bad things about him being there. I don't know what to do. He just sits there and watches T.V. Recently, I got arrested for Assault in the 4th degree. It would be a violation of my release to reside in the same place w/him. HE knows but he just sits there and plays with our 2 daughters. Is there something wrong w/him? Does he want me to go to jail? I told him to leave. He wouldn't! He has family to stay with and I don't! He knows....it seems like he is stuck! He calls me nuisance but why is he still w.me? I don't get it...he bought me a ring for christmas and engagement ring...he is so dumb sometimes...I wish he would at least get out for a while......

My boyfriend has this odd schedule. He works in a medical office with two other patient access clerks. He kinda supervises them. Anyway, he calls me and tells me that he doesn't get lunch today until 1p.m. Usually, it's at noon. Sometimes he gets off at 4:40 or 4:45. He says it depends on what time he gets in. I asked him about it and he said he signed a contract with his supervisor to be there at exactly 8:30 and get off at 4:30. Now a days it's been changing! He's saying he doesn't like the job and he wants to quit but should I be concerned? He's always there when I call him so I know he's not lying ...he really wants to quit what should I do to lift his spirits up and tell him everything else will be ok? We have kids together that he supports every day and I would love to give him something back in return. If that doesn't help what will? I want to make it a surprise! On the other hand what if he doesn't want to come home and see me? Do you think he is getting tired of me? Hope this isn't too long!!!!

I told my boyfriend that I wouldn't think less of him if he told me that he had sex with 0 persons. He said he's never had sex before and said it was a mutual thing to him. I'm confused!

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A couple of months ago my boyfriend got done using his computer and forgot to log off his e-mail account. Then it was my turn to get on and regretfully I saw this girl's name from his work. It was just one message that said something like "I had a good time yesterday, we should do this again" or something. He replied back and said "I had a good time yesterday too and next time it'll be better". I snapped and asked him what was going on after taking her name and cell phone number. He said it was all just a bunch of jokes. I called her on her cell and asked her she said nothing happened. He said that she said he was going to lose all his teeth and he admitted that he was flattered. She is a dentist's assistant and He works for the appointment making in a different department but for the same place. Anyway, I created this e-mail account under her name and somehow he found out cause I was asking him all this stuff like can you call me....he said to not e-mail him that this is how everything started. It saddens me cause I still feel like he is cheating on me even though he says with teary eyes that he isn't. I would like to get his password for his e-mail on hotmail but it costs money so I was wondering if any of you could help me retrieve that. Any of you computer experts out there. Plus, could you tell me why he lies to me all the time? We have a kid together and i'm pregnant with his 2nd one. It is very emotional for me to stay home raising our kids when he gets out and who knows what he does?!?

How do I actually ask him to sit doen peacefully and talk about our house rules? He got mad when I didn't know what happened to the little bottle of apple juice in his car and things started getting bad because of that! Wish I had some great pointers too...

You may have found posts by me written about my current relationship. Well, things are doing a lot worse now. It has been almost 5 years since we decided to move in and live with each other. Ever since then we had our arguments and our good times too. I have always had this problem of him having sexual contacts with other girls before me. That's been very important to me in my life. He got mad and said yeah I had sex before you, every day, with anyone. I don't know how to accept it and move on maybe with even better things! We have a daughter and he argues so madly about our place being his. That I can't have company over just for a couple of days! I don't want it to bother me but it hurts that it actually does! What should I do everything is very emotional?

My orthodontist said I may not be a good candidate for braces. Although, he had his receptionist schedule another appointment to have molds done on my teeth. What should I do now when he or I don't know about my future and if I will end up getting braces or NOT. I've been saving money and have been pre-approved for a loan but I don't want to take it out unless I know for sure if I am getting them. Guess all I could do is wait!!! AllStarSassyOne Don't know what to do!!!

Here is what he and I discussed. After that, I don't know what to say next. I am still concerned!!! Help me tell him to understand how I feel cause he doesn't seem to care! READ IT!!!! IT HAPPENED ONE NIGHT, AND FOR SOME REASON YOU ARE BLAMING ME. I HAVE ABSOLUTELY NOTHING TO DO WITH IT. SO IN NO WAY WHAT SO EVER AM I CONCERNED ABOUT THEM Kristian Kasayulie wrote: > > Albert, > > Good morning. > > I am concerned about these late night calls. > > See you > > Kris

I feel like my boyfriend "brainwashed" me into loving him. Whenever I look at him he is something I never wanted. His personality caught my eye and his longing for me is what I look at. Then, his looks aren't even attracting and he is a little over weight. I want someone better cause I am pretty good looking. Why do you think that is? I wouldn't want to hurt his feelings!!!! I just don't know what I want. bewildered allstarsassyone

I don't see why my bf says "finish" instead of "cum". It sounds like he is just finishing something...like a task, or a job he does. Cum sounds more sexier and it's what everyone else uses. It just sounds funny. Why do you think he calls it that?

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Okay, for a while i've been eyeing my boss of 3 years. Haven't seen him for a while but met him and thought that he was the most beautiful person. Problem is I have a boyfriend of 4 years! I want that other guy! It's very tempting to get to know him a little bit. I just feel like i'm dis-respecting my boyfriend.

Don't want to make this too long but..... My boyfriend and I have been living in this un-faithful, dis-honest relationship. For 4 years I thought I loved him. After our baby was born things turned upside down. What I am trying to say is. To everyone who read all my posts thank you for your advice/support. Without your words my mind would be left out of control. Thank You to all of you on this forum. Anyway, he and I are in this weird relationship. Mostly, quiet, no talking, a question would pop up every now and then about what goes on in our relationship. Other than that NOTHING exciting/happiness...an argument is always waiting to happen. In a relationship, this is nothing I ever dreamed of having. Well, it started off with our dis-honesty amongst each other. One summer, I left him to go home. There, I cheated on him and had unprotected sex. Came to him, had sex with him. Got checked with my gynecologist and my test showed positive for chlamydia. Months later, my pregnancy test came in positive. My first tri-mester my physician gave me medicine to treat the chlamydia. So, my pregnancy wouldn't have any complications. So did my boyfriend he got treated as soon as possible. After that, I remained healthy and kept from bad things like that. After the baby was born I went through my post-partum check-up which means another test for STD's or cervical cancer...My test came positive for chlamydia AGAIN! Treated myself AGAIN...I told my boyfriend to get checked and get cured. I asked him why we would have gotton it all over again. He said we were probably not cured the first time he said I gave it to him. He said he cheated on me once. I believed him. Then I think about when I cheated, did I get the chlamydia from the guy I was with or my boyfriend???? SEE WE are living in this relationship where we do this to each other. How would I calm things down? Or how would I get out of something like that???? What do you think?????? SORRY about this being too long!!!!

Ever since Kindergarten my classmates and I have been very close. Now that I am 22 years old I can only think about it through memory. I graduated with 7 other students. Each of them will be in my heart no matter what I do. It's been 4 years. Everyone went their separate ways. Does this mean I miss high school? That I can't live my own life as an adult? Should I be worried? I just feel like crying right now. Feel like I have nobody as a friend. Just feel very lonely. Wish I could go back and be with my friends. I feel like my boyfriend will stop me from that. Every time I am away from him he makes me feel like I should stay here and be with him instead. It scares me. Every where I go I feel like he is right around the corner. The thing is, I love him. But, what is love? Am I confused? He was jealous when I was talking with my girl friend. So, he got up and un hook the line. I asked him why he did. He told me to quit making him look bad. Whatever. That confused me. Oh well. I do miss my friends. Some day I want to move closer to them. I live away from everyone including friends and family. I'm more closer to my boyfriend's family. One of these days i'll quit taking his wants and go for mine. Will that make me a bad person? Well, one day I told him i'm moving out. He said "try"...it just made me feel stupid. Things like that he makes me feel bad. Why does he do that? Is he getting tired of me? Example, I laughed playfully while he was going down on me. He got upset and went to the gym. Is he sexually frustrated? Do guys like to be interrupted during sex? I was just being playful! If I tell him that he'll be like yeah right! What should I do??????