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And now bad news... Her sister bought her a wireless connection card and took her laptop to the hospital. They went outside for a few minutes, and then came back in, because it was cold. I only got to talk to her for about thirty minutes, but oh well. She went to sleep, and I just found out she's unconscious. They've inserted breathing tubes in her, and without them, she can't breathe on her own. How can someone so wonderful have this kind of luck? It's not fair and it's not right. I want her to be safe at her house. Please, keep her in your prayers.

She woke up, TODAY! Thank you, everyone who prayed for her. I owe you my life.

Hi. Well, after taking the advice from some people on here, I stopped loving Carissa. How? I separated myself from her for a long time, until I finally didn't care. That was two months ago. Around that time, I pretty much didn't want to be with anyone, but that changed. Some people may not like the idea of online dating, but I personally don't care. I met a girl, Lauren, and she changed me. From a negative, sheltered person to a positive, caring, loving person. We talked a lot, got to know each other, and then you know the rest. We made plans to see each other during Christmas. Lauren, being twenty-one, is ready to make a commitment, and that's what I'm willing to do, so we're going to get married. Well, last week, she got sick, really bad, so she went to the hospital. She has Pneumonia (sp?) and something else. She also has asthma, so that doesn't help her breathing any. The doctors lowered her asthma medication, because it might react with the other drugs they give her. When they did that, she started having really bad breathing problems. They put her on a twenty-four hour watch, and suspected everything would be fine, but when she sleeps her hearbeat goes down (a lot), so they didn't think anything of it. When it was time for her medication, the doctors couldn't wake her up. She's in a coma. To top it off, she's having breathing problems, again. I told all of my friends to pray for her and they did. I even called people to my house and we said prayers for her. I really wish I could be there to,.. well,.. be there. Can someone help me? I've been crying for several hours. Whoever reads this, please, pray for her. I truly love her.

Material gifts aren't the way, my friend. Sure, they're nice, but... you can't buy a woman's heart.

This is a very good question. "Love" is an emotion. I'll give an example... Say you could have ten girls, but there's one who likes you. Now, this is where "lust" comes in. You need to ask yourself: "Do I want a one-night stand (lust) or a commitment (love), maybe)?" It's totally up to the person, and each choice has a consequence. Consequences dictate our lives. Say you choose the one-night stand... Well, good job, now you might have an STD Say you shoose the commitment... Are you ready for it? Many times, people aren't and it falls apart. I've gotten off subject already, so I'll just end with this: Know when you're in lust. Know when you're in love. If you can't tell, then I suggest you think about it, get to know the person, find out if it's love. Don't date unless you're sure.

Do tell! Please, by all means, tell.

If she "makes life worth living," then it's pretty clear. Get her back.

Well, don't be scared. Remember, you're not trying to impress her.

And now, more confusion. I agree, with SwingFox, but... It may not be a good thing to wait. What if SwingFox is wrong? What if it's too late? What if she was hoping for you to be with her, but, instead, you just wanted to be friends? This could actually hurt her. BUT... What if I'm wrong? What if SwingFox is right? Well, then, I'm an asshole and I'm sorry for causing problems. This may sound cheesy, but...go with your heart. If you really love her and you just can't bear the thought of you being with her, go with your heart. I'm sorry for confusing you, if I did, but I'm just so happy and I want everyone else to be.

Age shouldn't matter, unless you're under twelve. If you have to ask when the right time is, then it's NOT the right time. Learn more, friend.

Thank you. ^_^ I haven't felt this way since she was in my presense.

I know how you feel, friend. Fret not. I suggest you give her hints (compliment her, ask her to do things with you, etc). If that doesn't work, you could just tell her how you feel. While that may be hard to do, tell her. She may feel the same way. By the way, if it works out, which I hope it does, ALWAYS BE THERE FOR HER. Love her. Cherish her. Guys don't understand that they don't deserve their better half. Good luck.

I feel so good. Well, some of you may (and some may not) know about Carissa (ex) breaking up with me. Welllll, I talked to her, today and she kept asking me questions. Finally, she asked if she turned me into a "soft" person. I didn't quite get it, at first, but it came to me: Did she turn me into a better person? Well, my answer, of course, was "yes," because, well, she did. She asked "how," so I answered with "you taught me how to be a nice person." We talked a bit more and she just flat out told me that she missed me and still loved me. Well, this made my day. No. My life. I get to see her in two weeks and I'm not going to mess up like I did before. I'm going to be there for her. I want to thank whoever told me that there was a chance of getting her back. Thank you, so much.

I know EXACTLY (and when I use the term "exactly," I REALLY mean it) how you feel. It's been almost a month since Carissa broke up with me, and I'm still feeling very depressed. I, too, have lost weight. I really wish I could give you advice, but if I could, it would be advice for myself, as well. Just know that you aren't the only one who hurts that much. I'm sorry to hear about your break-up. If you ever need to talk to someone and say how you feel, you can talk to me. Perhaps we can help each other.

Go to the game by yourself You leave her crushed. She's all by herself, crying. She may've been confused and lonely. She may've wanted someone to comfort her. Or not. Go to her house. She's happy. Or perhaps she's mad, because she thought you would go by yourself. Let's just stick with happy. She's happy. You two begin to talk. She tells you what's bothering her or there's nothing wrong at all, she just misses you. You tell her how you feel. I'm sure you can figure out the rest. Stay home and watch the game on television. Do as she insists. It may be good that you stay home. Then again, she might feel crushed, because you didn't go to her house. But do as she insists. Perhaps you could call her; talk to her on the phone. Maybe it will lead to you coming over and talking face to face. I don't know if that helps any, but I tried. The best advice I can give is "take a chance." ^_^ I hope it works out for you (and her).