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What would you do in this case ?
PeterPan replied to PeterPan's topic in Ex-boyfriend/girlfriend Relationships
Yep , i know im lucky .. What you said is pretty much what im doing , im just trying to read her and make sure that she feels the same way . Im not rushing at all. And well there are songs we had and everytime they play around us she just looks at me and smiles in a good way .. And well when we were together I made her a cd with a bunch of songs that described us , and like a week ago she is like Im going to make you a cd , and then she has spent tons of time trying to make it perfect for me , and so far everysong she has picked is about 2 people in love and getting back together .. And our old song is going to be num 1 *collin raye - love me* , btw girls real like this song to let you know .. and i know this cuz her friend told me what songs she has so far , and she was going to put our song first . Also she is always going to my work to see me , i mean would a friend just go to your work just to say hi for no reason , or making sure they know what time you are taking your break or lunch so they can meet you to eat ? Well THanks for the advice brother Anyone else got any good advice for me ? -
Hi , my name is brent and im 19 About a month ago me and my ex broke up , well she broke up with me for some of her own reasons .. At first I was fine with it and didnt let it get too me i just made sure that i was 100% compfertable , for the first 2 dayz we didnt talk but then she called too see if I was ok , then we just kept on talking and then hung out , and now we are like best friends , always hanging out and doing stuff, and talking everyday , telling each other exaclty what we did that day , playing around with each other , and we know each other like the back of our hands , and she just had some hard things happen in her life and she comes to me too feel better ... Well now im starting to like her more than i did when we went out . And this i know cuz I was at work and some girl asked me to the movies and then i thought of my ex and I just smiled and realized im happiest with her and I know that she is happy with me too, and she is the one that i want to be with .. Well my thing is , I dont know if I should tell her how I feel or just let it go , i mean i know this is real and I should act on it , and tell her but im scarred it will make this friendship uncompfertable if she didnt feel the same way , I think that she wants to get back together but im not sure . I really am confussed .. What would you do ? would you tell her or just not .. Any advice would be nice . thanks, Brent
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Thats exactly what I was going to do , but I have a heart and dont feel that is right to do .. But I may just do it , Im already looking for other people , just not looking to hard , I mean girls are always flirting with me and stuff at work , I just miss my ex so much I cant even enjoy it , I just end up thinking of her and end up sad .. ANyone else got some advice for a brother ..
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HI , my name is brent and im 19 .. Almost 2 weeks ago , me and my ex broke it off , well she broke up with me cuz she wasnt ready for a long relationship and the commitment. Me and her of course stayed friends and we hang out all the time , and we talk online and on the phone a lot too .. There hasnt been a day i havent at least talked to her .. At first it was uncompertable , but now its just fine and everything is great OTHER than the fact that I still like her a lot , which makes me feel weird everyonce in a while , its sorta hard to adjust to just being friends now . SHe still likes me and she admits it and sayz theres always that feeling in her that will like me .. We know each other so well , and we make each other happy . And now im just confused , I dont know If i should just wait or move on .. one of her friends told me that she said she would never get back with me ever again .. So i dont know .. I really dont know if thats true .. I guess what i want to know , is do you think that I should just let the chances of getting back together and go date other girls ( keep in mind I REALLY like this girl ) or just wait it out .. She doesnt know that I like her as much as i do still , i try and not show her that .. What would you all do in my case ?
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Hi , my name is brent and im 19 after a month and a half me and my girlfriend broke up , cuz she didnt want to make a commitment .. I was ok with thism we talked and aggreed this was the best thing to do. Now we are talking like nothing happened .. I mean its weird , I still like her a lot and I think that she likes me too .. Now we will hang out as friends and im not sure what i should be like , im scared cuz I dont want to show any kind of liking her AT ALL , cuz I dont want to make her uncompfertable . I love to hang out with her , it makes me feel good and happy , and well now im just 100% not knowing what to do .. One day shes your g/f and you dont have to care , now im have to watch everything i say and do What would you do , I mean how would you act and say .. I mostly want girls to answer this , what would make you feel weird ..
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I told that Im here for her , and im happy either way . And a friendship is still worth having with her .. Anyone else wanna help ?
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Hi my name is Brent im 19 heres my thing Me and my girlfriend who is 17 have been going for a month and things looked SO perfect .. Then out of no where she is like , im confused and she is not sure what she wants , she says its not me , its all her . We went out today and things at first were bad, just silence then we talked and then we went to eat to talk more , we talked a lot , she sayed that she doesnt know if she is just scared , or nervous or what, i am her first boyfriend and I know that makes it hard when she is not used to it yet .. I dont know at first i thought that it was just going to be a little phase but then she is like away, no holding hands , cuddling or kissing is going on .. Even things like nicknames are no longer being used , usually at night we will talk on AIM since its easiest to do , and she is just getting weird and i mean she always Calls me babe and now she isnt calling me it .. I dont know what to do , she is going to make up her mind soon BUT im now just getting irritated its been 2 dayz , and i told her she can have a week. Now im just Blah , I am performing VERY badly at work , Im a cashier at wal mart and people are asking me whats wrong , cuz im not smiling or anything , cuz im hurting knowing that I may lose her .. I told her that Im here for her NO matter what she decides to do , Im now thinking that she is going end it NO matter what .. But im not sure even on that .. Well is there anything that any of you would do in this situation ? I mean i dont want to lose her , she really is special and great for me .. hope someone can help me thnx , PP
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Well im just allowing her to do what she wants , its going to suck to lose her BUT if thats what she wants, then im not even going to try and stop it .. Is this a good idea ?
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Well my name is brent , im 19 and heres my problem A month ago I got with someone who just makes me happy and makes my life worth living , things were looking great and it didnt seem bad at all , but then today my girl which is 17 told me that the fact im technicaly a adult and she is not makes her upset. So we talk and it was a long talk and well it got a little better .. But then she told me that it was really not that it was just that she was confused and doesnt know if she is making the right choice, now she wants a few dayz .. I said Ok , but i just know that she is going to end it cuz of the type of person she is .. Do you think that I should try and salvage the relationship or just let is end .. There is a chance that she wll not end it But im not counting on it what would you all do
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HI , my name is Mark , im 18 years old Im very happy right now yet confused , 4 days ago a girl that I really liked told me that she really liked me and she was always thinking of me and hoping that I would feel the same way. I told her I did . There were a few problems that we had and we decided that we should not get together officially but keep it between us , im always seeing her and if not talking to her . I like her but I dont want to get into something and then want out and hurt her , she is more special than that . She makes me feel good and I think of her when im not with her , and she has the same thing happen..
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azn_lover , you try and get a girl with muscles , car etc . And your just showing the materials but not you . I dont know to many girls that care if you look like arnold or have a super amazing ferari . They would settle for al bundy and a pinto if the guy was speacial and had a personality . My advice is be yourself , unless you want to get some real good looking girl that is just with you for your stuff . Hope that helps Azn .
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I thank you guys and gals for the help . Trust me I like her a lot , there are just complications that would need to be resolved and removed b4 i would even take our relationship to the next lvl . I dont listen to my friends and wouldnt listen to them , just there are a few of them that dont like this person and will just be like always making her feel bad for being with me, just cuz they dont like her, I mean they may not and for my sake they probly wouldnt . And Thats why I said " cuz of who she is ". just cuz some of them really dont like her. Trust me her looks are not important to me . Is there any other advice you could give ?
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HI , my name is Mark and im 18 years old . I have a major problem one in which I dont know what to do , I have been looking for a girlfriend for the last few months and you know like most guys im looking for some hot ass girl. but recently I have found this girl who is so nice and is perfect for me and is ok looking but is not exactly a good person to go out with, because of who she is I would get riddaculed by my friends and Im not sure if that is worth getting with her . I know that she is perfect for me and likes me but im not sure what to do ? What you guys and gals all think ?