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I wouldn't do it..like the others have stated, it sounds like you are not ready.
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you are very welcome
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It's normal to be nervous. I mean it's uncharted territory for both of you. Make sure that both of you are ready and that he has protection. Better safe than sorry. Ya sex doesn't have a time or a date, it'll just "happen" If he askss you if you are rady than that's a good thing, cuz then you'll know that he's ready too. Foreplay is a good start. If you want, go to a video store and rent a sex educational tape (if they have them), not a porn. to get "in the mood", but if you need any of that stuff then take things slow. You're 1st sexual experience should be a memorable one. Oh yeah and if you want to, get some extra sensual items at an adult bookstore. I used to work at one so I know some good things to buy. PM me if you are thinkin of getting some oils, flavored stuff. Musicguy
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So here's the deal...I'm in college right now, I like my classmates and all, but there is ONE THING that really gets to me cuz this has happened to me at my old job, back in high school and in junior high and it continues on today. It seems like the things that I like or do are things to make fun of me. For example, my classmates know I'm a big Britney Spears/ teeny-bopper fan. (even tho I'm in college) and they know I like Linkin Park, Good Charlotte and a lot of other music or that I do a lil N'SYNC dance once and awhile. Yes it bothers me thet they make fun of me and in a way it doesn't bother me cuz I don't care what they say, it's the fact that whatever topic they want to make fun of me about, goes on constantly everyday or every other day and it get's sickening after awhile (and people wonder why I'm an angry little boy) What am I supposed to do? I've tried to talk to them, they end up saying "ohh...just joking". Musicguy
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You weren't a bad boyfriend at all, in fact you did all of the right things toward her, but she didn't appreciate the things that you do/did for her and you don't really deserve a girl who is inconsiderate or unappreciative of the way you treat her. Move on and find a girl who WILL appreciate the things that you do for her. Good luck. Musicguy
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Slain67, it's hard to try to have someone with bi-polar in your life. One of my ex-friends is bi-polar and it was so difficult to give her any advice...try to work with your friend, if you can, it DOES get frustrating after awhile when they it seems like you can't get through to them. Good luck tho. musicguy
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why do u feel sad that u have a gf?
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Hello. I'm going to be graduating from college soon and my fiance is going to be going to college working towards her future career. My job doesn't have the typical 9-5 hours and neither will her's. Is it possible for a relationship with the future of children be at all accomplished due to odd hour careers? I think that it can work. Is anyone else in this same type of situation? Musicguy
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the curve of a penis is not caused by masturbation, the curve is more of a physical aspect. Some penis's are curved, some aren't, just like some vaginal lips are big and some are small.
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Why do guys think is sexy for girls to be "sexual"
musicguy replied to Clueless788's topic in Dating Advice
lesbians--it's more of a fantasy thing for a guy. blue balls---sexual pain in testicular area. (I'm thinkin that's right, haven't really experienced it before.) musicguy -
this question is pretty much regarding ex's in general. This has nothing to do with my current relationship, because all of my ex's are out of my life (history!!!) and I love my fiance more than anything.
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Here's my question...are your ex's in or out of your life? and if they are in your life as a friend and you are currently in a relationship...how does that make you feel? (that the ex's are still in ur significant other's lives). If the ex still contacts your significant other, how does that make you feel? Here's my opinion on an "ex". I figure that if you broke up with them, have moved on (or not moved on, if that's the case) that they are crossed out of your love life. Does this make any sense at all..cuz I don't know if I've worded this post right. Musicguy
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I agree with Zeldaster..porn is just fantasy.
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babymamahr, sorry that you are having trouble finding a guy to date especially when you have a child. My ex-gf has 2 kids and I kmow it was hard for her to find a date b/c she has kids. Luckily when I was dating her I accepted her kids as if they were my own. Good luck with things, there will be a guy out there who will date you and accept that you have a child too. Musicguy
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Will i always feel like something is missing in my life?
musicguy replied to unonename's topic in Grief Loss and Bereavement
unonename, sorry that your grandfather died of lung cancer, I know how it feels ciz my uncle died of lung cancer back in 7 years ago and yes it will take sometime for the pain to heal, as did mine...just remember all of the good, fun things that he did or that you guys did together. Musicguy -
I agree with Osiris..sexual history isn't really what a lot of people don't wanna hear about. Musicguy
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I agree with what you have to say and yeah life sucks. There do seem to be more downs than ups, but here's what I've been told a number of times. "Life is what you make of it." "Happiness and love is what you need to find within yourself before you sharing it with another person." and so on. Life isn't perfect. Musicguy
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Panda360. I too was depressed in high school and I get depressed too now that I'm in college, in fact that happened today. I'm so stressed with school that I didn't talk to a lot of people today, hell I even thought of quitting school even tho I graduate 4-5 months from now. Like upstatemedic stated. Find a close friend who you can talk to and or go on some medication. I'm glad that I have close friends back home who will listen and I have a couple close friends here that I can talk to you. Life isn't easy, we have to accept that life sucks and we have to go on and live it the best that we can. Musicguy
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I agree with a lot with what Gaz has posted. Trust her when she goes to college, support her and communicate with her while she's there. I'm in college right now and a lot is gonna be happening, she'll probably be going to events, functions and parties. She loves you and wants to be with you. If you want to marry her, ask her before she leaves. I asked my gf before I left for college. Good luck to you and everything will be fine Musicguy
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Boyfriend Problems, I don't know what to do!
musicguy replied to BigButtBrigg's topic in Dating Advice
Hmmmm....sounds like he's controlling and possibly abusive...if so try to talk to him and tell him how you feel. Musicguy -
Dont like to be alone when i go somewhere
musicguy replied to CustomX's topic in Emotions and Feelings
I sometimes feel that way now, probably because I'm living in a bigger city. It's always good to feel safe and secure esp, when it's a place you are not familiar with. Musicguy -
I've seen a lot of posts on a lot of message boards regarding porn, boyfriends and their girlfriends not liking it. Well here's my opinion. I worked at a porn shop for two years, I've met some porn stars and I have a good collection of porn..okay I have a HUGE collection of porn. Now my significant other didn't like me working there, but it was a job and it paid the bills. Anyway porn and celebrity fantasies are just that...fantasies. My significant other and I are in an LDR, porn is my "sexual tension reliever" cuz I know that I'm going to be having sex with my fiance sooner than I am a porn star or female celebrity. Watching or downloading porn is a "guy thing" if it affects your sex life then talk to him and find out what the deal is. Musicguy
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cheating is bad alltogether. If my girlfriend/fiance/wife cheated on me regardless of the situation, I'd break up with them because the importance of trust in the beginning was broken. musicguy
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true, I guess it does depend on the situation, still it would be soooo hard to ever trust that person again, especially when it's gone. I've never had anyone cheat on me and I have never cheated on anyone, but I've accused someone of cheating and that hurt the trust issue a lot.
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nope, I wouldn't give them another chance. Why? because if that person said they loved me and wanted to be with me then they wouldn't be cheating on me AND if there were any problems in the relationship I'd expect my partner to tell me so that we could talk about it.