Clueless788

Me and my boyfriend of 7 months broke up. and i will be the first to say that i didnt know what i had, until it was gone. well let me explain what happened.. Ok, my boyfriend lived 45 minutes away so i only say him once a week on average. Which was hard for me towards the end. And he also got a job during the last month of our relationship.. he worked aftter school (co-op).. 2pm to 10 pm, and then he had a 30 minunte drive home. So i couldnt talk to him a WHOLE lot during the week.. maybe 4 weeknights (anywhere form 20 to 50 minutes).. well it began to get VERY hard, so i broke up with him (he knew we were about to break up..we both did) and we broke up over the phone and continued to talk for another hour (i secretly was crying the whole hour).. and we were laughing and cutting up and stuff. Well he was still suppose to come and see me and call me and what not.. and we talked a few more times.. but i never saw him again, and now we dont talk at all... and i think its partly due to the face that he has a new "lady friend".. his friend and i are good friends, and he told me about her. Well, although i wanted the break up... now i would give ANYTHING to be with him again.. i mean he was the BEST boyfriend seriously.. JUST MY TYPE.. and we never fought or anything.. we had an awesome relationship and i still had a life besides him (because of the distance).. so it was great.. and now i cant stop thinking about him.. one month later and im still crying every once and a while.. and no other guuy i have tried to date has been good.. and i have ffinally decided that maybe i dont want to get over him, and maybe no one will ever be as good as he was.. but i KNOW we will never even probably be FRIENDS again.. and yall, its killing me on the inside......... and then the other night i found out that went we went out he really and truly "had it REALLYYY bad for me" as his friend put it.. and that made it harder.. please, any comments?

I know that with my boyfriend, i will mention other guys or tell him when a guys calls or something because .. i dunno i cant describe it.. its like to let him know that...... hes got something good and that other guys think so too and that i could have other guys if i wanted to (but i dont, i love my boyfriend! i just like to keep him on his toes) ** and i know yall may be thinking im like fishing for a confidence boost.. but its not that, i mean we all do things like that

I wouldnt be worried about it.. its either stresss.. hard to get.. or like Maggie18 said it may not be all her. Just dont worry and if you continue to worry just casually be like "dang i havent talked to you as much latley"

I think if anything, you should ask your friend what you can do because ur eally want to go.. but i wouldnt ask to go with them, because homecoming is like a romatic night with your guy, and she might not want you "tagging along" ya know? And no one likes to be a 3rd wheel. IIFF you still cannot find a date, try to find another friend who doesnt have one.. and you and her can go (and just have fun, like gurls night out). Im sorry it worked out like that though!!!

yea! im reallly comfertable.. its just most of his other girlfriends were alot more experienced than me.. and im to prideful to ask.. ya know? but i mean if i did ask he wouldnt care att alll!

nooo i cant ask!! haha i just.. cant.. im sorry!! pleasee tell me how

I wasnt sure what to put this under (sorry moderators if its wrong).. I have been looking for like 5 days on how to give a guy a blow job. and although i have foind little things here and there im still not sure. And it is very important that i know what im doing and dont look like a fool. And yes, i have looked on like every forum and its like little stuff about it here and there.. but not what i need. can someone PLEASE give me like goooodd details on what to do.. PLEASE.. since we arent allowed to get to graphic on here, you could like PM me.. this would really mean alot to me!! (im one of those people that worry about little stuff and so i already have an ulcer and what not in my stomach and im soo worrried about this and its making me sicker..haha) -thanks...

ok. this guy asked me to a dance at my high school. well its a pretty big deal at my school to dance and stuff and i never really have...m not even sure i know how.. and i told him i would go (hes a really popular guy and he could get alot of gurls) well i was like "im not gonna dance" and he finally talked me into it and now im scared.. because i have no experience.. and im not gonnna know what to do!! HELP ME SERIOUSLY

in my home town there are like 2 main schools. well i have a large group of friends, and we are mostly friends with some people from the other school. well there is this guy at the other school that most of my friends know, i dont personally knwo him, but i know like about him just from my friends..and i know alll of his friends..well me and him have been talking online and he knows who i am, and what i look like, unfortunately i do not remember ever talking to him in person..anyways...we have been talking online for a LONNG time..and on the phone a couple times..well he has stated that hes interested in me, and i have heard really good things abiout him, and we get along pretty good online... well i am interested in him to...problem: we have never met, he saw me once at a restaurant..he was with his friends, i was with some people from my church that he dindt know...anyways he didnt speak to me, until that night he told me he saw me..and also everytime we go to do something it nevver works out, he never really seems to be like ALL for it... and i dont wanna push it, i mean hes like "yeah we need to meet" but we never do..and he has told my friends he is interested..i dunno what should i do?? give up... i mean i cant wait around forever!!!

I'm happy that she doesnt want to lose her virginity! My gosh i wish more people were respectful of themselves...and maybe she just doesnt want to burn in hell

well, for starters...make eye contact with her, smile at her....as soon as your comfertable with that then slowly build up to "hi" and then when u get comfertable with that..slowly build up to more small talk! always works with me

I pray to god, hes always there to listen

oh no! I wasnt saying sensitive guys are bad!! alot fo gurls like sensitive, there just not my dating type, but i still love them to death! its all a matter of finding your type sorry if i offeneded you

Well, for me, i always seem attracted to the popular, self confident...OUTGOING guy...thats like not all sensitive, and like guys that I see that are all sensitive and like trying to be something there not, or show off , seem to be more like one of my friends, instead of bf...but like i think a guys hott, and then i get to know him and he acts like a total self consience loser then i get turned off..i guess i just like a strong guy!...because alllll my guy friends are the sensitive type, ya know? because gurls are sensitive so her friends tend to be too, but nooott my bf pm me if u have anymore questions

thank you kayla! any other advice??