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I wrote this poem about having a girlfriend and the alienation of losing all your friends and losing touch with them. i dont know what its called im to late to have a friend i'll never see you again I have a girl to the fullest extent we just stay still till the end im not alive anymore the energy of time has left me sore theres no more wine and roses just whisky and lillies now all i can do is see you just circle around me makes my dialated heart want to leave its all sex and no play I dont expect her to go away i dont expect anything to change i just expect to be in my place

I've been going out with my girlfriend for 9 months now andsince the summer has hit, I've seen her everyday or every other day. We constantly argue and we both get jealous easily. I feel so dependent on her because I see her so much. She's become kind of a habit to me. A part of me wants to end it and a part of me doesnt. Should I end it? Also, what excuses can i use to distance myself from her without her getting hurt?

I dont want to say how I found out, but I found that while my girlfriend was at work, one of her male co workers flicked her jokingly on her breast and she jokingly tried to flick him on his penis. I mentioned this to her and she said I was over reacting because I was so mad and she said it was just a joke and it's not like they full on felt eachother up. It was just a flick. And they were just joking. Do you guys think I had a right to be mad? We've been going out for 8 months today

My girlfriend and I have been going out for 5 months now. Lately its been bad though. We just constantly fight. There is this guy that she works with that really flirts with her. He has a girlfriend also but he would constantly text message MY girlfriend and call her. Before i confronted her about how much it bothers me, she used to talk about him alot. He asked her to hang out more then once and she's hung out with him twice. I confronted my girlfriend and said how much it bothered me. And she denied that anything was going on. Then she finally admitted that he does flirt with her basically everytime but she doesnt return the flirting and she said he does it with other girls also. I said I would confront him and tell him to back off, but she said no and she wanted to do it. she claims to have told him to back off. It's to long of a story, but I found out that he hasnt. And that he still tries to hang out with her. He called her a couple of weeks ago and admitted that he used to have a big crush on her while we were going out but he really likes his girlfriend now. He called her to tell her this randomly while he was drunk. I got really pissed when she told me this and said, well its pretty obvious you give him some positive signals if he still flirts with you and I said to her that she probably never did tell him to back off. She started crying and saying to please believe her and that he means nothing to her and she did seem genuinely concerned that I was going to break up with her over this. She said she would stop talking to him all together besides at work. I dont believe her though. She has lied to me in the past. What do you guys think I should do?

My girlfriend and I have had unprotected sex numerous times. We have become fearful that she may be pregnant. She said that she has noticed that her breasts have become fuller and bigger lately. Her periods have been very irregular even before shes had sex, she had her last period this past tuesday, but it all of a sudden went away the next day and she got it today, but she said it seemed very light. She's had cramps all day. Is it possible that she may be pregnant? I mean I said to her that since she got it that she's not pregnant, but she said shes not sure considering how light it was. Do you guys think its a possibility?

My girlfriend may be pregnant and I would like to know how accurate pregnancy tests are if I bought them for her at a place like walgreens? Please tell me what you know and not what you think. Thank you

This past friday I was out with my girlfriend and a bunch of her friends. We were all pretty drunk and my girlfriend walked away to go somewhere for a little bit and I was left alone with my girlfriend's friends. Her friend asked me who was drunk also if I wanted to kiss her. I said no and she came up and kissed me and I kissed her for a little bit. She told me not to tell my girlfriend and I havent because we'd both be in trouble. I thought it would be best if she didnt know and I would never do it again, but ever since then I've felt so incredibly guilty and bad. It's eating me up inside. I dont know what to do. I know for a fact if I dont say anything, she wont find out, but I want to tell her. I dont think she'll understand though. Please tell me if you think it would be best if I tell her. Dont tell me what you think you should say, tell me what you believe I should do. Please I need some opinions on this. I'm to ashamed to ask anyone else. Thank you

"Out of the van" You have walked a mile into my heart We are to much the same we're not the same We've got distant eyes instead of upbeat eyeliner Now I know your smile was all lies She used to say hi! hi! hi! hi! Now she just says hi....hi.....hi I have a walked a mile into your heart So far inside I couldn't find my way out if I tried My lies are whiter then my teeth Now all I know how to say is sorry and please We only had drawn hearts and written names I'm in the van where I know I shouldn't have stayed She used to say hi! hi! hi! hi! In the van she says hi...hi...hi...hi...hi Out of the van she'll say goodbye Now my brain told me that I understand (This is about my girlfriend and I in a car with a bunch of people and she wanted to go somewhere. It's a long story, but I wouldn't leave the car because I wanted to sit and now shes all distant towards me.)

I finally found what I need Now there's no reason now to breathe I think you know what I mean I hope you know what I mean Now there's endless time Because I have finally learned how to fly With her painted eyes and insurable lies I'll go... With my heart blanks She chose... That real is the same as fake We know... That there can be fire on a lake You got the act of an angel But you got the habits that will soon be fatal (This is about the happiness of when I finally got my first girlfriend, but finding out she has a past to her and kept some secrets from me.)

Please tell me the truth here. I'm 18 years old and lately I've been having sex with my girlfriend. We're both kind of new at it. She doesnt say anything about how long or short it seems, but I was wondering, how long does sex usually last for people. What's the average time?? I just lost my virginity two weeks ago and we've gone and had sex on 3 separate occasions and I think I last about 5-7 min tops until I cum. Is that normal, short, long? What? If its short, are there any tips to keep it lasting longer. Also...my girlfriend seems like she enjoys it. She does do some of the noises, lol, but I was wondering don't girl's orgasm over it also? My girlfriend doesnt. Is this bad?? Please respond to this. I really need to know.

Ok, my girlfriend and I have been going out for 4 months and she works with this guy that I was positive she kinda liked. She kept denying it and that guy eventually got a girlfriend. He still texts my girlfriend alot, but my girlfriend he does all the texting and she just responds and she said she doesnt find him attractive in the slightest bit. She goes on and on on how she doesnt like him like that and she does seem pretty insecure that I'll make to much of it and break up with her. She does seem like she genuinly wants to be with me, but my girlfriend confessed about a week ago that when ever they work together that he flirts with her basically everytime they're together. An example she told me was he said to her, "So, when are you and your boyfriend going to break up?" She said, "not soon." Then he said,"Well, then we can have sex. You know I wanted you before I hooked up with laura (his girlfriend now)." She said, "Well, I dont think my boyfriend would really like that." She also told me that he mentions how hot she is and everything. He even said it in front of his girlfriend. My girlfriend has admitted that with her past exes she has cheated on some of them, but she said she didnt care about them as much as she cares about me and she said there's no way in hell she would do that. She said she doesn't return the flirting. But I dont know that. She has lied to me in the past on unrelated subjects. Please help me on what I can do!! Please!!

Is it rape if an 18 year old boy got a 17 year old girl pregnant, and we both wanted to have sex?

hey guys thanks alot. I'll see what I can do. But Im not exactly sure if she is doing it. Someone asked what I noticed when I did weed and how it changed me. For me, people lost respect for me. It became my reputation, like, "oh, he's just a stoner." Its what I used to be known for. I do admit, it was fun, but not worth it. It made me careless. My parents started noticing how I just seemed out of it, even when I wasnt stoned and I'd be all paranoid all the time at home and have to hide it in my room. I became extremely forgetful. It caused problems with my friends and I became known as an idiot. I never felt like doing anything either. I'm doing better now, but Im so worried about my girlfriend. I cant let her go that path. I wont put up with it. I dont ever want to go through that again. All in all, I was just plain scared all the time. It was a really bad time in my life

My girlfriend and I have been going out for close to 4 months. I used to smoke weed alot in my past and now I've become so against it. I've told her this before. She said she was also. I also smoke cigarettes and she told me she used to, but never will. She only had one occasionally. But just last week she admitted to me that she does smoke cigarettes whenever she can get one, but she didnt want me to know for some odd reason since I also smoke. There have been times I've talked to her and she'd say she feels so extremely happy and start laughing for no reason. Just today, I was talking to her in school and her eyes were so red and dialated and she couldnt stop laughing. I even brought up if she has been doing them and she'd just say, "I'm not." then change the subject. She claims she's done it 3 or 4 times in her life. I know about weed. I used to do it 3 or 4 times a day for a year and then I stopped because it scared me on how I was becoming. I know that when someone smokes weed, its very gradual on how frequent they'll smoke it. I'm worried about her. The signs were there for me, but she denys that she is high and I have no proof. Please! please tell me what I can do! Do you guys think there's a possibility that she's not and if you think she is, how do you think I can get her to admit it? I care for her and I dont want her to become what I became. Please respond with any opinion you have. This is really important to me. Thank you

My girlfriend and I are both 17. Before we both started going out, she asked if I was a virgin and I said no. I lied, because I thought it would be embarrassing if I said I was. She's also a virgin. Now her and I plan to have sex and I was wondering if theres any way she'd be able to tell that I am a virgin? I would've told her the truth, but she'll get pissed off if I just admit it to her. I was just wondering if there's a way she'd be able to tell that I am a virgin??