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yeawutever

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  1. Just wondering, how can the guy quickly assume the girl's reaction will be a defiantely yes. Let's say he actually surprise all of the sudden with a ring and propose and in fact she doesn't like wearing rings at and is like "Huh, you got me by surprise, but I don't wanna marry and don't like rings". With proposals wouldn't it be better if both partners talked about it in advance and it's one just one proposing, thus risking a "no" answer.
  2. Not neccessarily true, maybe it's her first time saying that. It does take a while to open up you know and saying those words is if you really mean them, those are intense words. Did took me a while to say them back to b/f, but I did, gotta admit I was very shy at first. Before, whenever he would say it, I would hold back and only say "uh, ok, yea me too". B/c when you're a first timer on syaing it, the thought of possibly getting hurted, rejected in the future goes in your mind a little bit and the fact that you never really open up in your life.
  3. Right on, just what I wanted to say, but left it up to someone to mention it. Oh well, stereotyping and generalizations unless you educate yourself that is. Some people are like you described while others are not.
  4. If I had to even doubt in my b/f for one second and go check his e-mail, then why even bother being in a relationship, it would be over right away.
  5. You're right there was no excuse for her to cheat on you. If the relationship was so rocky, she could have acted like a mature adult and break up with you, not run off another man's arm, esp. her boss. You may love her but she doens't love you the way you do. The fact that there's not even one bit of remorse in her shows you what type of person you're with. Point is she will cheat again given the chance, there's a lot of fishes in the tank and she's an ugly one.
  6. huh??? Interesting, as a kid, I was still in the playing with dolls and video games, LOL.
  7. Yes do give him time to cool down, he's just hurt right now. Rejection does hurt anyone, when they don't feel the same way you feel towards them.
  8. Damn that girl is mess up in the brain. If she can't take dating and getting to know you like a civilized and mature being, then a) she's either those men haters who got overly hurt, b) she has the mental capacities of a 5 year-old child, c) was born with a mental disformity or d) is inexperienced along with being asexual also Drop her and go find girl who's normal.
  9. If you don't knwo her well then don't even try it. Just think of it, sex with a complete stranger you met online and there isn't even feelings, yuck. Who knows what kinds of diseases she can bring you. Off course she say that she never had sex with guys she met online, she's saying what you wanna hear, off course she had sex or maybe the pic is anotehr girl or a prank. Either way don't do it if you're having many cons in your list.
  10. If it was just this one time innocent kiss and nothing beyond that, then I would say stick to keeping it in silence, besides you didn't even get her #, so don't worry that much. Just do make sure you control your drinkings or simply don't drink for a while.
  11. If you don't love your wife anymore, then why are you still with her?? Tell her that you want a divorce and that you're gonna proceed with your affair.
  12. I definitely would never cheat. No matter how rocky a relationship gets, there's still no excuse to wonder off. I think for the main part they cheat b/c they don't know how to deal with a committed relationship's components and aren't good at communicating, thus they are lacking some values.
  13. I think he must be scare of getting hurt once he lets his guard down. In that case try explaining to him that "loving" is part of life.
  14. Or if you or a friend of his knows where he lives, write a letter to him. Another suggestion would be to find out who knows his # and then you can recconnect that friendship again.
  15. It's rather the opposite in my relationship I don't open up that much and I'm a girl, lol, odd isn't it while he does??? However that doesn't mean I don't love him, everyone shows it in their own ways.
  16. Nope in the 4 months we dated, I never use the "L" word. That's just me, I feel there's more ways of showing love/affection than just saying that, I'll go by actions rather. However, when he says it, I do say "me too", so I figure that's good enough.
  17. If she was consenting from the beginning till the end then it's nor rape. Just like a previous poster say I would say it's call the "stupidity case". The girl should have think better of makingt he guy wear the condom even before the started having sex. She should have say something like "I'm not having sex with you, not until you put the condom" and the guy was careless as well, both of them uneducated.
  18. What a POS (piece of poop, lol), do throw him out right away and it's a good thing you use protection. However even with protection, you can still get infected so do get tested immediately.
  19. Just wondering, what does the bible has to do with this thread?
  20. If my b/f kept pressuring to say "I love" back whenever he says and kept insisting on it, I can guaranteed I would turn the other way and run. Nope, no one has a right to pressure you to say or do things you don't want to.
  21. Does she know what the guy look like are who he was? If so she can report it and give a full description to the police, most rapers are caught that way.
  22. Well can oral be counted as sex, it's a sexual act afterall?? Ok if so here goes: What happened afterwards you mean, well I got better at performing it, though I like it more when I received it. Nope things have NOT become awkward, he's still more expressive than me. Nothing has changed whatsoever.
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