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    Its funny, I was in your exact position one year ago. Just for that reason I joined this forum. There is no easy way around this 'experience'. I know its sucks to hear this but 'time heals all wounds'. It took about 8 months to one year for me to get over this specific girl, my first love. You just have to power your way through this, you will make it, I know you will.
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    What do you want to do? Follow your heart because if you dont you will not be happy. What is more important, your culture or your happiness? Don't feel like its your duty to pass on your culture because frankly it isnt. Its a simple question, are you attracted to this person or not?
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    Im not too sure what to do with my life, and its only getting worse. Im in constant fights with my family, and the degree Im taking in university is only making it harder. I really want to move out and travel but I have no money at all. I can't get a job or I will fail my classes. I try being nice to everyone but it always seems to back fire and it turns into a fight. Im really in a deep "rut" right now and I feel like garbage. What should I do? Maybe take out a loan and move out?
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    Matt01 replied to if only's topic in Personal Growth

    Don't change because some moronic guys don't like you for who you are. If you change your personality, you won't have fun and you will just be miserable. Im not sure about other guys but I love humor in girls, it makes everything so much more enjoyable. Have fun with life, and be who you want to be. Don't change because of some idiot that doesn't like something about you. Its his loss....
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    Talking is great, but its always better in person. Don't stall, ask her out on a real date, just you and her.
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    Hey Chris, This whole situation sounds very distraught. It sounds like you have done everything to make this women happy; you can only meet her half way and hope she does her half. I think you should get out of this abusive relationship because lets face it, if your not happy and not getting along, why should you be with this person? Having a son only makes this situation that much more difficult. I beilieve you should keep visiting your son even though you have to see her when you do this. When you go, don't bring anything up, not even small chat because then its even more awkward. You know your with the right women when you both mutually respect eachother. Just let it go and try to move on, even though its much easier said then done. Make sure your always in that baby's life, and try to be a excellent father, even under the current circumstances. Good luck, Matt
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    Since you hurt him twice he will probably never trust you again. There is no way he will come back to you after a cheating a second time. I don't want to sound mean but how could you cheat on the man you have been with for about five years? Did you just get bored?
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    I ask this girl out once and she cancelled. She went out with some of her girl friends and had sex with this one guy. Heh, so its all relative who you want to get involved with i guess...
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    Thats friggin rough.....you alright DBL?
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    It would be funny if you just snapped on her one day.....heheh but dont do that. just talk to the boss and let him know about it...
  11. Matt01
    Don't sweat it your still young.
  12. Matt01
    Just approach him and ask him out on a data, what do ya got to lose? -if hes looking at you all the time he is then interested too - just bite your lip and go for it.
  13. Matt01
    Interesting concept, makes sense.
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    My sister had a long distance relationship with a guy that moved away for college, but it eventually fell apart. I think the biggest part of a relationship is actually being with the person, thats why long distance relationships dont work most of the time.
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    Sounds like he is kinda shy, in that case you gotta make the move. He might be thinking the exact same thing you are right now. Just ask him out for coffee or something, what do u have to lose?
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    hey dude, believe me im going through the same thing. Im taking engineering right now and i dont have a life. The people who say " this is the best time of your life" are completely wrong. I have a huge dilemma - change to something easier and pay for it later, or just stick with it. I think you should just stick it out, you will thank yourself when your 50 and retiring.
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    Even though hes your ex, you havent really left him yet. Be smart about this, leave him and find a real guy that will treat you right. Don't get caught up in a stupid game like this.
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    Hey me too, but i wouldnt know anything about that.....fabulous 0X
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    Then dont do it....
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    I believe most guys want a relationship but are too mascline too admit. 15 year old boys are going to think about sex all the time because, well, they are 15. But you will eventually find a cool guy that will be there for you, who actually cares about you. When your looking for this guy be careful though, because theres alot of trash out there. Matt
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    maybe if u read the complete post u would realize im not saying i buy into the god thing, infact the complete opposite...
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    im sry im posting so late but i cant stand this..... You guys go around kissing and making out thinking its all fun and games. A few months ago I got really screwed over by a girl like you sandy...i will never be the same. Like spirit said, you lose a sense of innocence and hope. Now, I dont even look for relationships because I dont want to go through that bull again. Im friendly to women but theres always that voice in the back of your head never to pursue anything....whatever............
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    drinking isnt fun......riiiiiight guys go to clubs thinking they might get lucky......girls go there to dance .... i go there to get drunk and bust out my glow sticks.....lol
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    no it just sounded funny..... like in demolition man the cops are told to approach the suspect with extreme assertiveness.
  25. Matt01
    What if u dont believe in god? what if god is just something for weak people to beileve in so they are okay with the idea of dying?
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