Matt01

assertive....lmao

you guys are so young how do u even know your bi? i mean you could just be going through a phase....

This has to be a joke..........

Im sry to admit it but appearance is everything. People can say everything about personality and inner beauty, but its all bull. Yet, very rarely, there is a girl out there who will look past that. Life is unfair; i have realized this in the last year. Listen man, girls are stupid. You have to pretend you don't care; just have fun and stop worrying all the time. Don't pursue this, your just asking for alot of problems. Its very disappointing, i know, but you need to move on. By the way, never put anything in writing, it can come back to haunt you. "A girl who is your friend is like having $19.99 in your bank accout; you know its there but you can't get at it"

No kidding she doesnt trust you, you CHEATED on her. It sounds like she is trying to get revenge. I think you should just sit back and pretend not to care instead of constantly trying to talk to her, and her stupid friends. If she really does care about you she will come back and approach this as an adult, rather than a arrogant child. When you cheated you brought this on yourself....trust is the most important aspect of a relationship...if you dont have trust you have nothing.

i was in a similar situation as you a few months ago..... "i think she doesnt do ...." .. I thought that once and believe me i was totally proved wrong. I know how hard it is to hear this but move on...find a girl that really likes you and wants to hang out with you, and doesnt mind showing affection. MOVE ON !

i agree with the others ...... maybe you stop leading guys on and that would solve your problems.

It sounds like she likes you, or atleast interested in you. I think you should ask her out because what do you have to lose? If you ask her out she might not go out with you, but if you don't ask she definitely won't go out with you. Life is too short just go for it man. I was recently in the same situation this year and i waited too long. Suck it up and go for it!!!!!! Good luck 8)

PLZ I NEED HELP

When we talked I already told her that I liked her. Thats what I was thinking, she is scared of losing me or something because when i was talking to her she said "it seems to have the potential to be really bad" then i said "it could also be really good". I just dont know.

I liked this girl so I asked her to Grad(Canada's Prom). Everything was peachy for awhile, and I really thought she liked me. She is a friend of my sisters so she would come over on the weekends. She would cuddle with me in my own bed, so what am I suppose to think? Anyways, last weekend we were both really drunk and I look over and saw her basically cuddling with her ex from grade 10. I felt really bad, lead on, totally played. That night she slept at my house. My sister had a fight with her because she cares about me so much(twin sister). So the girl was crying and she wanted to talk to me. I went down stairs to fall asleep infront of the tv, then there she was. We talked to 6 in the morning and we fell asleep in each other's arms. The next night it seemed like she wasn't interested anymore. We sat on the couch and there was that "separation", which made me start thinking. She went home, but before she did, I asked her out on a date. The next day she decided to go with her friend to go skiing. When she called I wasnt home so I guess she didn't blow me off? For the rest of the weekend I went back to my previous feelings of being "played". That following monday and tuesday I didn't talk to her. Tuesday after school she approached me and we talked again. She said "lets pretend this never happened" and then when I asked her if we should go out she said "lets be friends and figure it out later","I dont know". Yet I replied "I dont know either". I felt like a lost someone specail, a possible girlfriend. So we really didn't talk for the rest of the week until she came over the other night. Things weren't really weird but I really miss the closeness to her. I love being around her, holding her. Then last night we hung out at one of my sister's friends house. It seemed like everything was back to normal. I was joking and messing around like before. The way she looks at me, I know theres still something there. I think she is afraid of what my sister thinks. I talked to one of her friends and she said she really like me, but she freaked out from what happened that one night. What should I do? One of my friends is telling me to stay away, or ill get hurt bad. Maybe I should not go hang out like last night? Should we be just friends or should I purse it? I still have that image in the back of my mind of her and that guy...

dude ive been there, especially with the weight issue. i used to weigh 260 pounds but now im 225 and feeling alot better. just find something your interested in; i found football and weight lifting. when you think your life is about to end things can pick up. in grade 11 i hated my life, but things are relatively better now. just keep on trucking...

thxs alot guys, i really needed the advice. i just need more experience with playing this game. thxs alot

I went out to a party with my sister and her good friend, the girl im interested in. Anyways at the party i asked her to grad (prom but in canada) and she said yes. We basicaly cuddled on the coach and everything was cool. That week (last week) we talked on msn every night (yeah i know im a looser) and we talked and i thought she really liked me. But this week something has changed; im not sure what it is .... like she is avoiding me. Last weekend she was over at my house (because shes my sisters friend of course) and she sat next to me. We didnt really get close but her stupid friend made a bet with someone that we would fall asleep close together and she found out. Maybe she just feels weird around me? But if she liked me she wouldnt care right? Ive thought of asking her out but it would make things weird with my sister and all, and i dont even think shes into me now. I feel like crap and i find my self obsessing over her like a idiot. im starting to think she going to grad with me because shes my sisters friend. i dont know what to do. Should i just play that nice guy friend, but then again more times then once those guys dont get the girl. is it true once ur in the "friend" zone ur a friend forever? should i just ask her out? ugh!!!