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I can not stress how badly i want to be back with this girl I was with this girl last summer and she broke up with me then i used "no contact" because i had no better options and it worked we went out again starting around spring break. we went out for 3 months. She broke up with me and it broke me down. So about a month later she calls then we play phone tag for about a month. Then when we get a chance to talk to eachother she calls everyday. We go to the movies and she was flirting with me the whole time since i started talking to her again. So i decide to kiss her and i get a bad reaction. The next day she kisses me bit i feel like it was more of a pity kiss. Then we sort of ignore it. Ever since then she has still been flirting and i back but when she starts hugging me for a long time and just sort of rubbing me i dont do it back because when i made my move i got a bad reaction and i really want to stay friends with her. She is in general a big flirt with all of her guy friends but not like she is with. So now she is starting to talk to this guy and still calling me everyday. Sometimes she tells me that her friends ask her if she wants to get back with someone and she says no. Whenever i try to talk to her about stuff like that she end up changing the topic. Maybe i am just stupid to not be able to figure this thing out but I am so confused

This may not be as big of a problem as i think it is. but here it goes. There is this girl who lives down the street. And i like here alot and have for about a year. Last summer we went out for about 2 months and then she broke up with me. Then about March i start to date her again and that lasted for about 3 months. So she broke up with me and it really hurt me. So i started talking to her about a week ago. And she has been all over me. I mean rubbing her boobs on me rubbing me everywhere and having me hold her etc. So i kiss her and once and she does not kiss me back. Then the next day i go over to her house and she kisses me. But later on when i try to kiss her she wont let me. I think she is trying to make me jelous. Because she is always talking to me about other hot guys that she see's and talk to. She is the kind of girl that is really flirty in general but i dont think that she does what she does with other guys what she does with me. So i am confident that she likes me but i need some advice to get around and deal withe games she is playing