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  1. jusified
    cheating is just selfish, and running away and giving up (taking easy way out) is also selfish. People cheat because it is easier thn stick around and support the partner when the relationship gets tough. Thats oright though, it just means people like that wil never find true love and a fulfilling relationship because they ust bail and not work on it.
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    Jen that is an amazing story, I hope you are doing well and life is/well treat you good and give you fantastic surprises around every corner.
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    well I don't drink and smoke, but when friends have parties I just go and have fun with out drinking/smoking, its not that hard. But you can just find a few hobbies to do, like sports or clubs etc.... you can always meet ppl in different ways. I suppose god has something planed for all of us, some times its worth waiting for and sometimes there needs to be heart breaks in between.
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    It is all an individual thing. I mean society in general does have this double standard. But to me I would not look up to a guy who sleeps around and treat sex like its nothing important but a way to get him self off, man Wh0res. Maybe, but half the people in the world could be a result of terrible sex which thank god only lasted 1 minute.
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    wouldnt be happy if my girlfriend went bowling with a guy alone without telling me
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    that is very sad, and its really bad how money can change people. I hope that will not happen to me. I think you should suport your moter with anything she decides because the problem is with your parents alone, it might impact you and your little bro but ....its tough. I hope you are holding up ok, its tough to know someone like your father who suppose to be the pillar of strength in your life can change like that. Hope you don't hate all men and view them badly because of this. My sympathy goes out to you.
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    not this asian guys are getting dubed by all the girls again. yes alot of girls don't like asian guys. yes alot of asian girl dont like asian guys. Why?? alot and alot of reasons, most might be grossly unfair and stupid. But you know what you can approach it this way. 1) you can't help what all these other ppl feel and want, just work on yourself. be confident and know that you are good enough for anygirl. 2) why would you want someone who will not go out with you just because of your ethnic background anyways? They don't even bother to get to know you. My best suggestin to this is dont even sweat it, if they don;t want you because you are asian then obviously they are not worth it.
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    listen to tamara, what she said is the truth. You know I bet there are alot of girls and guys that are like you and the former tamara. But lets see it this way, if tamara didn't keep on been "friends" with her ex she would not have been hurt so many times and might have found someone wonderful for herself. Mate, try and move on. Even if you don't get a relationship anytime soon just know that this relationship is over and its for the best.
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    agree with evans, At lest she could apologies and explain her self. Then it is up to Evans to decide wheather or not he wants to talk to her back. So evans, if you are over her and dont want to talk to her due to the pain she caused you, you have every right.
  10. jusified
    or you can just keep on wondering........
  11. jusified
    i havnt even heard that one, but vagina size can vary depend on muscle strength correct?
  12. jusified
    I always thought an enlarged Clitoris meas the girl has alot mroe testostrone in her body then a normal girl should. I could be wrong.
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    lol Kevin, .....the lips down there. Hmm, trimming is good or wax. You might find a few waxes your hair will be softer and easier to shave which will stop the itching. The itching is because you have strong/hard hair and if you shave it smooth the growing back will hurt So simple solution is go get a proffessional wax or just do it yourself (if you can take it) and you will find shaving and waxing will be less and less painful/itch
  14. jusified
    Well the hard thing is you were engaged so..... Its tough, if she says shes meet someonelse (so quick and out of no where) thre really is no point in trying to get her back.
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    Simiar situation where girl met someone new (a stranger) over the eekend and all of a sudden they wan to explore what else is out there. Thats fine, just don't let them come back, its just not right for anyone to thow away a great relationship which had a lot of care, love and emotions involved so easy to pursu something else. Its hard but look it as a good thing and you found out what kind of person she is. Move on.
  16. jusified
    just keep that attitude up and believe in yourself. Wow you are going through a tough time but you seem lie a strong person an stay that person. New year will bring you new wind and along with it better opportunities.
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    Good thing for me is that she is over seas Young girls....errrr, maybe some of you more mature/wiser women can really understand what shes going through and tell me a few stories about when you were 20. I am trying to understand and I can see it, but i still think she did the wrong thing in terms of the way she just bailed and ran for the hills. I am truly on my way to moving on though.
  18. jusified
    there is been nice and been nice to her. I guess some of us were just nice to her. But we need to let people work problems out for themselves and move on, thats been nice.
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    LOL, My ex and her ex met up for lunch. Basically he asked her to meet him for lunch at a fancy restaurant before she gos over seas to say goodbye, she said can she bring friends he said no. She went anyways and didnt tell me until we had a fight the night before about something different and then she told me. Then she broke up with me that night LOL... Then she told me how great the lunch was and how the guy paid for her. Note, this guy is having issues with his gf and they see each other every weekend in a language class anyways. So as you can see I don;t like the idea. I think you should never meet an ex alone (like a date), you could always say can i bring a friend or my partner along.
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    I think everyone is different, but the norm is that you need to be spontaneous, funny, charming, loving, caring, blah blah and keep them interested while feeling like they still love you but yet still on a chase. Example, if you always buy them gifts, talk to them sweetly and do everything for a girl and let them walk over you then they will take you for granted. Been nice, be there when they really need you, be supportive when times are tough, have chivalry. At the same time be spontaneous like spank and pinch her for no reason (thats just for my own pleasure), Don't let her get you to do whatever she wants (you are not her dad and she is a grown up), have your own things to do with mates or individual hobbies. Anyways, treat them mean keep them keen is not true, you can not treat someone mean and expect them to like you (in the longterm). Its more treat them with love and sometimes tough love so they can be a better person to themselves and to you.
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    Who broke up with who and what was the situation of the break up?? Did you guys have a good relationship?? in the end whats in the past is in the past, you are with someone new now. If you love the person you are with now you should try and stop thinking about your ex all the time (Everyday). My ex broke up with me out of no where from what i thought was a great relationship. I still think about her everyday, but more of a realisation kind of thinking. I'm sure when I get into my next relationship she won;t be on my mind much as my new love would always be on my mind and in my heart.
  22. jusified
    you should take up golf. She has her reasons (another guy, just wants to experience, don't love you anymore), but she still hurt you. Mate, mve on and improv yourself and a better garl will come along when you least expect it In the mean time, enjoy the company of people on the forums.
  23. jusified
    Well we've had no contact for a month now, she's over seas till June LOL, so by that time I think when she comes back everything will be different. I just find it funny how all of a sudden a girl can just not care about you anymore. I suppose what everyone has said is right, maybe she will realise her mistakes in years...decades to come, but it will just be a I made a mstake so I will learn from it and won;t dwell on it. The holidays are pretty bad..benn pretty much alone, but one the holidays ae finished I think my life will ick up and hopefully all goes well opportunities in the new year will present it self.
  24. jusified
    you sound like a really great person. But, don't get mad at me, i do think you have your own set of problems that you need to deal with. This guy seems to cause you alot of trouble, and honestly, you are still young and believe in your self that you can find someone better. In the end you need to try and do things thats bet for you. Fro a third person's point of viw with limited knowledge of the relationship I do think the reationship is not doing you good.
  25. jusified
    Geez, LOL, why can't I have a gf like you. It seems like this guy has treated you with disrespect and does not truly love you but you are still willing to forgive and stay by him. If his got condoms it means his either doing her or some others as well. Ask yourself why are you still holding on to him? You sound ike a eally great girl...you deserve so much better.
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