KissMe_KillMe
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I did ask him those questions actually... he said he would stay by me....but he wouldnt trust me. he understands if I leave... but he dosent want me to.. we have been together for a little over a year.
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I guess I didnt mention that when we broke up.. they got together.. she was on birth control. But i guess something happened... at least thats what she told him. And.. I do trust him.. Yea, i didnt before.. but i honestly trust him now.. ever since we have been back together, Things for us have been wonderful. We havent fought.. he has been proving himself to me every day. He treats me wonderful. And I know that what he did was wrong.. And your right I should break up with him and get on with my life.. But is it so wrong to look at how much I love and care gor him. Ive Honestly never been so happy before in my life... And things were going awsome.. up until we found out. And Your right I dont know that he is going to stay with me when the baby is born.. nobody really knows.. But, If you could just be in my relationship right now..in my place you would see hes being honest when he says he only wants to focus on us and him taking care of this child. I told him everything that I thought and I told him that he dosent even know that he might want to be with her.. But he cried and begged and swore up and down that he wants to be with me. Is there a chance what-so-ever?
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I know he truly cares about me... I know what he by cheating on me was seriously wrong... But i know he honestly loves and cares about me.. He says that he wants to be with me.. But he is going to take care of the kid.. I dont think I can walk.
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My boyfriend cheated on my within 6 months of us going out..he told ne and then we broke up... Then we got back together and everything was perfect.. EVERYTHING... we were talking about moving out. it was great. up until now. He came into my work and was crying asking if i could get out early because he had to talk to me... so i did.. and he was seriously crying hard and told me that he got that girl pregnant and shes about 9 weeks.. Im freaking out... ive never cried so much in my life.. He says that shes going to keep it.. and he going to be apart of its life.. and he says he still wants to be with me... im willing to be with him and i understand but im scared and im hurting and I dont know what to do or how to react... im scared that this might change everything.. I wanted US to have out first child together.. HELP ME PLEASE... im lost and scared.
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how should i ask him?
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what can i say i moved to a * * * *ty town with ny parents at the age of 17 and met him at the age of 18 and we instantly hit it off.... everything was wonderful!!! but then we started fighting at times and then we started fighting about how i would get mad becaus ehe never wanted to have sex with me... then i found out he started doing coke and cheated on me.. but i was desperate to save what we once had and i never gave up.. never!! And as sad as i sound now... i dont want to give up... i would just like to know why he has condoms in his backpack... he didnt go out and buy them because they are really old ones that were for us... but being for the fact that we dont use condoms anymore... why does he have them in there?... are they from when he was with that one girl and just never took them out. or are they in there because hes still doing her. i havent found any evidence besides this that would conclude he is doing her.. but how can i find out for sure. i hate accusing and then being wrong in the end... but i also hate accusing and then being told im wrong and feeling bad for accusing, but then later find out i was right all along.
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no i know there not for me.. because im on birth control and we dont use condoms.. but i do know that they WERE our condoms when we first got together and we were using those.. but i know very well that they are not for me.. ummm actually to be honest he didnt have to do that much serious work... i just made him feel really guilty all the time and rubbed * * * * in. i knwo thats mean... i often tend to do sometimes without even thinking...
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first before you read this you should know that my boyfriend and i recently got back together awhile after i found out he cheated on me with a co-worker.. everything seems okay. except for the fact that i keep bringing up the past and i am in fear of hurting this relationship. but anyways here is the problem... i really dont know if i should be scared or not but my boyfriend left his backpack that he brought his playstation in and i looked inside one of the pockets and there was condoms in there... im wondering does this mean that A: he still has them in there from when he was with her or B: hes still doing her! what should i do... i would really like to confront him.. but i dont know if i should or not.. i dont want to start another fight.
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okay i really dont know if i should be scared or not but my boyfriend left his backpack that he brought his playstation in and i looked inside one of the pockets and there was condoms in there... im wondering does this mean that A: he still has them in there from when he was with her or B: hes still doing her! what should i do... i would really like to confront him.. but i dont know if i should or not.. i dont want to start another fight!
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Thanks so much for you understanding? i know this probably sound svery immature of me.. but i dont think its right of him to still have her in his myspace top 8. I dont understand why wouldnt right away delete her completely.. i mean i know they broke up on okay terms but to know that shes still there upsets me.. to know that she still works with him really upsets me.. i dont know how to get past that.. also one more question.. what can i do to make us enjoy our company more? something that can bring us more together than ever?
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I seriously dont know what to do.. my boyfriend cheated on me in the 9th month of our relationship with a girl from his work.. someone saw them kissing at a party. We broke up.. but still kinda saw eachother.. they ended up getting together. At this point in time he was also doing coke..and was very depressed. I think he started to doing coke before he got with her but i dont know for sure. Anyways i helped him get off drugs and go to counceling.. a month later we decided to get back together..everything was great.. But latley we have been fighting so much because i keep bringing what he did up.. i keep getting reminded of it. I cant help but bring it up almost everyday.. i feel that im going to ruin this relationship for good. I love him to death and i want us to have a healthy wonderful relationship.. what am i suppost to do? Excpecially when she still works where he does. I need help. Im going crazy. I feel that im letting this take over.
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i wasnt trying to sound gangsta..lmao. sorry. hmm. I dont want to be with someone who loves someone else. so thats why im saying he needs to decide now because.. they could eventually do that if i wait around for him.
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Awww your sweet. well if im in control then im going to tell him staright up no joke if you love you will end it now!
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trying to end what i never had the strength to stop
KissMe_KillMe replied to staticcling's topic in Breaking Up Advice
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haha thats what my mom said. lmao. alright ill tell him. for some reason im scared.