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  1. wayner427
    I think she may have said that becuase it will help your pride to know that you were the one to initiate the first kiss. For the first kiss, you would rather be the one to initiate than her right? As for asking her to be your girlfriend, I say go for it. From what you've said, it seems like that's where it's heading.
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    That's some very good insight lifestream. Great poem too. I'm still recovering from heartbreak too and that helps a bit. craigm, I agree that even though you're young, it still hurts a great deal, and it hurts letting go. But I think it does help though that you have a lot of experiences to look forward to. Try to stay strong and look to other fun activities that you enjoy to occupy your mind.
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    I totally agree with karvala that starting NC for the wrong reasons is okay because hopefully it'll work out for the right reasons later on.
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    I think you and her need some time to move on before friendship can occur. Try to get your mind off of it all by doing things that you enjoy that don't involve her. Trying to be friends immediately after a breakup is very rare in my opinion. You need to give it a lot more time.
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    *Dream what you want to dream.Go where you want to go.Be what you want to be.Because you only have one life and one chance to do all the things you want to do. I wish I could figure all this out for myself. Great feel good post.
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    Wow, that's what I've been doing and I didn't really put it in that perspective. I kind of talk to her like it's nothing. I feel nothing, but never thought of it as... one day, my ex will be just like my former ex.
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    I download a tv series to watch when I'm home alone. This helps get my mind off of the ex. Not very productive though.. I'm currently watching Heroes.
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    Thanks for this Parsley! I've never heard of Reindeer Section until now, and I see that the singer is also the one that sings for Snow Patrol, and I think they're great.
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    wishiknew, It has been about a month for me.. and about 2 weeks since I last contacted her. I have felt myself getting a little better, as long as I can keep myself occupied. I've been through this before as well, and it does get better. For me, I do think that in order to completely get over her and stop thinking about her, I'd have to meet that someone special once again.. I wish you the best of luck as well.
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    I have been doing okay keeping myself occupied during the day lately.. but when I'm home at night alone, I get pretty sad. I keep thinking about her and what she's doing right now. I think about whether she even thinks about me at all ever. I shouldn't be having these thoughts.. It's really late now, almost morning.. I just can't get her off my mind right now for some reason. This is more of a rant, since none of my friends are online for me to talk to. I'm sure they're sick of me complaining to them, but they have been so great. I know I need to look elsewhere for happiness.. being in a relationship with someone I really like shouldn't be the only way, but I just feel that really is the only way for me to be truly happy. *sigh*
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    If you don't look at them or think about them, I would go ahead and just keep them. It might be something you'd want to look back in the future when you're totally over her.
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    I totally agree with you Benson. I guess things could be almost the same, but I would always have the thought of the breakup in the back of my mind. I think it really depends on how the breakup occurred though. I've thought this through before, but not for long. I don't like to dwell on the thought of getting back together even though a large part of me would want that.
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    i went bowling with some friends yesterday, and i had a lot of fun.. but right when I get back home, the pain begins, and i can't help but miss her and feel lonely. this is pretty frustrating! I just want to be able to talk to her like we used to...
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    No i haven't. I just read a summary on it and it sounds interesting. I'll go watch it. Thanks.
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    That sure gives me a lot of hope. I'm looking forward to my routine.. even though it may take some will power to get off my lazy butt. As for understanding my breakup, I really don't think I ever will. If you want, you can look at my previous thread to see how the breakup occurred and see if you can figure it out.
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