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cheating is just selfish, and running away and giving up (taking easy way out) is also selfish. People cheat because it is easier thn stick around and support the partner when the relationship gets tough. Thats oright though, it just means people like that wil never find true love and a fulfilling relationship because they ust bail and not work on it.

Jen that is an amazing story, I hope you are doing well and life is/well treat you good and give you fantastic surprises around every corner.

well I don't drink and smoke, but when friends have parties I just go and have fun with out drinking/smoking, its not that hard. But you can just find a few hobbies to do, like sports or clubs etc.... you can always meet ppl in different ways. I suppose god has something planed for all of us, some times its worth waiting for and sometimes there needs to be heart breaks in between.

It is all an individual thing. I mean society in general does have this double standard. But to me I would not look up to a guy who sleeps around and treat sex like its nothing important but a way to get him self off, man Wh0res. Maybe, but half the people in the world could be a result of terrible sex which thank god only lasted 1 minute.

wouldnt be happy if my girlfriend went bowling with a guy alone without telling me

that is very sad, and its really bad how money can change people. I hope that will not happen to me. I think you should suport your moter with anything she decides because the problem is with your parents alone, it might impact you and your little bro but ....its tough. I hope you are holding up ok, its tough to know someone like your father who suppose to be the pillar of strength in your life can change like that. Hope you don't hate all men and view them badly because of this. My sympathy goes out to you.

not this asian guys are getting dubed by all the girls again. yes alot of girls don't like asian guys. yes alot of asian girl dont like asian guys. Why?? alot and alot of reasons, most might be grossly unfair and stupid. But you know what you can approach it this way. 1) you can't help what all these other ppl feel and want, just work on yourself. be confident and know that you are good enough for anygirl. 2) why would you want someone who will not go out with you just because of your ethnic background anyways? They don't even bother to get to know you. My best suggestin to this is dont even sweat it, if they don;t want you because you are asian then obviously they are not worth it.

listen to tamara, what she said is the truth. You know I bet there are alot of girls and guys that are like you and the former tamara. But lets see it this way, if tamara didn't keep on been "friends" with her ex she would not have been hurt so many times and might have found someone wonderful for herself. Mate, try and move on. Even if you don't get a relationship anytime soon just know that this relationship is over and its for the best.

agree with evans, At lest she could apologies and explain her self. Then it is up to Evans to decide wheather or not he wants to talk to her back. So evans, if you are over her and dont want to talk to her due to the pain she caused you, you have every right.

or you can just keep on wondering........

i havnt even heard that one, but vagina size can vary depend on muscle strength correct?

I always thought an enlarged Clitoris meas the girl has alot mroe testostrone in her body then a normal girl should. I could be wrong.

lol Kevin, .....the lips down there. Hmm, trimming is good or wax. You might find a few waxes your hair will be softer and easier to shave which will stop the itching. The itching is because you have strong/hard hair and if you shave it smooth the growing back will hurt So simple solution is go get a proffessional wax or just do it yourself (if you can take it) and you will find shaving and waxing will be less and less painful/itch

Well the hard thing is you were engaged so..... Its tough, if she says shes meet someonelse (so quick and out of no where) thre really is no point in trying to get her back.

Simiar situation where girl met someone new (a stranger) over the eekend and all of a sudden they wan to explore what else is out there. Thats fine, just don't let them come back, its just not right for anyone to thow away a great relationship which had a lot of care, love and emotions involved so easy to pursu something else. Its hard but look it as a good thing and you found out what kind of person she is. Move on.