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  1. jusified
    Lily, that sounds really bad and I can tell you not all guys are like that. I personally think a girl's personality (caring, loyal, committe, loving, funny) is more important then her smarts (but of cause I still like to have stimulating conversations). However, if you say all the guys you've dated seem to be like that maybe you should have a look at yourself for reasons why, not that these reason are bad things. For example you could be 1) Really cute and pretty so guys in general want to get into your pants 2) the guys you date probably are the confident guys that approach you and are use to dating girls and want sex 3) The way you carry your self in conversations (body language, language tone, laugh frequency) could appear to be dissy, anyways, you shouldn't think that you are not smart enough for some guys. Set your bar high and be picky with guys, that way the results will also be high. I'm sure you can afford to be picky and find a great guy for you.
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    Thanks Blender, that is really nice LOL I'm understand the stage she is at with her life but never less her actions showed me who she is right now. Thanks for the replies, I know at 21 I will meet wonderful people in my life but at the moment some times it feels like I won't. All is good and I'm doing or planed alot of things now and am looking forward to them.
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    But Tony Saporano does it all the time.
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    Then you must talk to him about it.
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    trruth i, shes at college with alot of guys, shes young and wants to try other people. Nothing you can do, not your fault. Just don;t contact her at all (not because you want her back but becos there is no longer relationship). Heal your self and move on. Best of luck
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    Well i guess the difference is I was really good to her and a great bf. No cheating and avoided girls that showed interest, helped her around the house, cooked for her family, look after her when she was sick, looked for acoomodation to travel and then she leaves me LOL. I agree, it's been 1 month since the break up, still hurts, still annoys me and I am disappointed. But I pitty her cause of the person she is and that down the road there will always be a little thing at th back of her had thats going to regret (Maybe not now but way down the line when shes experienced the orld more). I am moving on,and is looking forward to my life because I have realised alot of things. I now want to do alot of things that I didn't get a chance to do and thinkabout before. I am also looking forward to meetin a nicer girl and eventually be with someone that truly loves and appreciates me.
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    hmmm that might be true but there are orgasms from Clitoris and orgasms from stmulating the Gspot. The Gspot orgasm is usually better, stronger and longer. I am a guy and to be honest not that sexually experienced. BUt I don't think Clitoris is the only orgasm you can get. Sure some girls can only get a Gspot orgasm with clitoris stimulation but it is still a different orgasm. I agree that the mind and the way your partner operates are a combination factor to the NON Orgasm issue. talking about intercourse, ask your partner to stimulate your clitoris with the part of his body that is just above the base f the penis in missionary position. So instead of Pull and insert, get him to do it in a grinding way that stimulates the clitoris while at the same time rubbs the Gspot. Geez I need a root right now!!!
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    send nothing, N l email NOTHING!!!! You're relationship is over and she doesn't deserve someone like you. Trust me, there are alot of girls outthere that would be alot better for you and you will get them. But to do that you have to heal and improve yourself and move on with out having any baggaeg from the old relationship. Day 4 is very tough, it will be tough for the first few month. But try and find activities to do. I am doing a lot of volunteer work, sports and summer school (In in the southern hemiphere). So try to see if you can volunteer for somethng, go to parties, take up some dance lessons or anything else you were interested in but didn't have time to do.
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    well there is your answer, your own mental bock and the Long distance thing. I'm sure the relationship will improve once he moves. But on a relationship level things will change drasticall when h moves, so try and keep the excitment and love with each other and work through any problems.
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    i dont know if saying "I love you"all the time is a good thing. It cant be over used.... specially during sex.
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    My Ex had the simlar issue but even tually she got better near the end. Reasons for you not been able to have a satisfying orgasm could be because; 1) You are not turned on enough, more foreplay 2) You restrict your mind and is still getting use to sexual acts 3) You have to much negative feelings and thoughts while you are doing it, guilt, is it good? shuold i be doing this, does he mind..... 4) You partner isn't doing the right things to turn you on and you don't know how to communicate it to him. Suggestion?? read cosmo, or other books/magazines which talk about sex to females. Get use to the idea that its an special intimate and fun thing to do between 2 ppl who love each other. 1) try play Sothing music (Noara Jones...i don;t know) while you guys are messig around 2) Very Important, lots of anticipation and foreplay (YOU need to be turned on and wanting it) 3) Be patient, relax and have fun, Sometimes a girl needs time to orgasm, sometimes a long time. 4) Keep trying ... I know I was annoyed when my ex didn't want to do that stuff or isnt able to orgasm properly, but with time she eventually did and loved it (lol before she broke up with me). But you can do it. As to if there is any particular methods?? Oral on you is usually easiest, there is a thread thats titled "going down stairs" or something, check it out and get him to do that stuff to you, both clitoris and gspot massage should do it. Hope it helps, let us know if everything works out. A good relationship needs a good sex life.
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    you could alwas read cosmo, foreplay is good, do more of that and just have fun. Its intimate fun you have with your partner, should not be stressful or have worries about it. Communication is key (in Everything)...again and again
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    maybe you are too rough and he doesn't want to say anythig LOL. Hold the stick softer. Besides, do oral and switc to hand for a while (its all about rubbing an stimulating with out to much friction). Eventually go faster with out slowing down. In my opinion I think its all about communication, you gotta let your partner know where you at and how you want them to proceed (for the first few times until they know whats going on).
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    lol, I love the the contractions. As a selfless guy i enjoy gving a good orgasm to the girl i love....and to feel it pulse is awesome. Feel like you showed her how much you love her and gave her something no one else can. Like alt ppl tell you everyone is different, but yea if she seems to love it don't change it, and communicate and get her to tell you wat she wants. P.S (no one has said this) but make some noises like you are loving it (not saying you are not). I enjoyig doing it and its important to let her know you are enjoying giving.
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    Or get the guy to learn that Tantric stuff. Where you can orgasm without ejaculating. So you control when to ejaculate but continue to get orgasms and when the girl is ready to finish it you orgasm together. yes boys, it is possible.
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    Go download a guide LOL. well from all i know. 1) Don't rush into it, tease and foreplay. 2) kiss your way around and down 2) Lick around the clit for awhile (few minutes) use your hands on the thigh and belly and other parts of the body while you do this. 3) When shes wet, start using your hands to rub gently, 4) Do circles or up/down on the clitoris when shes really turned on (depends on wat she likes), 5) Insert finger and massage the Gspot gently and be consistant, don't go to fast and be patient, might take a while but keep the speed consistant. there you go, good luck have fun, enjoy the flavors, aromas, texture and touch
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    agree with Raykay, I'm in similar situation to you shaker (not as bad bust same principle). He showed no committment no loyalty and no respect for you and the relationship. Best of luck and try hard tomoe on with life.
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    I've have already posted my story in another forum but would like you guys to give me some comment especially if you are a girl or guy whom have been in similar situations. I am 21 and my ex is 20 we are both in our last semester of Uni. We did have a great relationship for nearly 2 years and was going to go on exchange together. Basically 1 week before my ex was going to go on a family holiday overseas for 1 month (then I was going to meet her for exchange for 6 month) she broke up with me over the phone after we had an argument. She told me that she wanted space and to be independent. This is after i have booked tickets and organised accommodation for us to travel etc. She basically just abandoned me and left (all alone for the holidays)...i now have lost quite a bit of money on cancellations. I then find out she met a guy on her sporting trip on the weekend she brokeup with me who had similar interest to her, he hit on her and she respoonded and they clicked (made her feel like she dont love me anymore). She then went out to drinks with him a few nights after she broke up with me. She is now over seas and we have had no contact (been 3 weeks), i know she is probably talking to him and having a lot of fun overseas and not even thinking about whats happened. Before she left she was still saying she is confused, need to explore what other relationships there is, but said I have been great but she just dont love me as a bf anymore (while the week before she said she missed me and loved me etc),. I'm doing fine atm, keeping myself busy and doing alot of things to improve myself for my own benefit. What I would like is really a female opinion whom have gone through this situation or male as well and maybetell me an out come. (I know most likely we will never really speak again and she will move on and so would I) Thanks guys
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    it might be best if you guys take some time apart (Which includes no text, IMs and calls etc). You should try and see whatyou want in a relationship and if she can still be that person for you after all thats happened, then take some times to improve yourself.
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