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CamaroJoe

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  1. hmmm, a shy guy....no offense to shy guys, but they are some what like a girl. They usually look away if they see you ook at them, although if you are looking first, they often can maintain eye contact. One good way, is to walk by him and just as you pass, look back and see if he is looking at you. If he is and then looks away real fast (feeling embarrassed because he got caught looking at you) then that's a good sign. If he smiles at you or kinda tries to walk past you or hangs around your general area but never really walks up to you, kinda like a girl would do lol, then yeah, that's a good sign too. oh, and btw, if he looks as if he's looking at the ground when you look at him after you pass him, he's not looking at the ground.
  2. Well, my problem is simply this... I can approach a girl, talk to them like i've known them forever. Then they are more than willing to give me their number. I'll call and we'll talk or whatever. But it seems to never go past that stage, well at least not yet anyway. It seems there is always an excuse as to why they can't go do something whether it be school, family visiting for holidays, or work. Anyone have any advice on how I can triumph over this? And how to keep a girl interested? Any advice would be helpful, thanx alot!
  3. yeah, that's true... i misread the question. I took "broken up" as "abusive or neglecting", now that is definitely a cause for that kind of problem.
  4. I'm not sure this will work, but you can try pleasing yourself w/toys or something when he's not around. It probably won't lower your sex drive but it may help satisfy the urges a little. Hope this helps...
  5. That is what they say.... "Because he was hurt by the people who were suppose to love him the most ... He pushes people away before they get the chance to leave him. It's a defense mechanism" -Robyn Williams (Good Will Hunting)
  6. ok, check this out...When I was younger I didn't care much for girls as far dating and what not, and I seemed to have girls just attracted to me for no reason. And now that I'm the one trying, it seems I can't really find a decent date. So what's up with that? I guess the moral of my question is that what exactly attracts girls other than the initial "looks"?
  7. UPDATE! Well, now, I was talking to that girl again and I asked her for her number. She gave it to me, that's a good sign right? Then earlier she was really chatty, and she was only typing short answers to my questions and then I asked her about it and she didnt really say anything and then I told her to start asking me questions cuz she was being too quiet. Then she said "I'm not good at questions. It's not that I'm not interested." That's good too, right? And one more question, is it good to try to kiss the girl on the first date?
  8. lol, u got it all wrong. I'm just talking to her right now. It's not even that big of a deal yet. We haven't even been on a date yet. I was just wondering if anyone any thoughts on whether or not they thought she was really interested or if she was just trying to be nice and chatty. I'd never do an online dating thing. I tried it before, but I've decided I'd never do it again. But thanx for your input anyway.
  9. I agree. just be her friend and leave it at that. Then if they ever break up u can make a move, But of course not right away. Got to give her time but u don't want to procrasonate too long or she might be taken from someone else. If she likes u she'll smile showing lots of teeth, play with her hair or something in her hand while she's talking to u, she'll always show an open posture with u, and she'll giggle when talking with u or if u make a stupid joke.
  10. girls are like that........well, some... but some actually do have stuff come up a lot.
  11. Hey everyone. i haven't posted anything in a while. if anyone remembers me being kinda obsessed with Krisitina a while ago. I just really liked her. But then i found out what she was really like. She now moved to go to FSU. Anyway, i'm talking to someone else now. Actually i have yet to meet her but i've chatted with her online and ive seen her picture. Her name is Brooke. Anyway, are these good signs that she likes me: I emailed her on the site that i was on and then she told me her AIM screen name and I added her to my list, then later she gave me her other AIM screen name. And when we were chatting she wanted to send me a pic of her and her new puppy she just got. Also one more thing, she's 22 and i'm 19 and she was like "your not even 20 yet?" and i go "no, why? u don't date guys younger than u?" and she said "no, but that could change." Anyone's thoughts on this so far??
  12. My problem does not consist of the usual relationship ordeal. My problem is that when i get a job, which i've had a job since i was 16, i'll be 20 in November, i tend to get bored with it really quick. I get used to the job and then I get bored and want to move up in the company or out, which ever is more feasible. I thought I wanted to get into technology, i took some computer classes and networking classes and now I'm leaning towards my old major that I wanted to get which is Anestegiology (sp?) which is putting peep's to sleep when they have surgery and I'm gonna start by being a Radiologist (x-ray tech) first. Any suggestions on how I can overcome my boredom with jobs?
  13. I'd hafta agree to them. It wouldn't be good. What if y'all did that and he liked it but you didnt' and then he kept asking you to do it again and you didn't to? Or even worse, what if some how he got both of you pregnant? there's definintely things to think about when it comes to stuff like that. i hope you make the right decision in your case.
  14. It's hard to deal with stuff like that. The best advice i can give you is to go out with ur friends as much as possible and keep urself too busy to think about stuff. Eventually it will work and you'll be ok.
  15. I would say, let him do his thing for a while. Give him some space and time and if he wants to go out, let him without asking where he's going or what he's doing or calling him all the time to see when he's coming home. Just let him know that mostly what you want is to be with him and for him to be happy. Then he'll see you care for him and all. But if you're constantly pestering him about what he's doing or showing in any way that you don't trust him, it's going to cause him to be driven away from you. hope this helps.
  16. That hardly makes sense. If your ex isn't calling u, then talk to the other girl. But hey, i'd say just play it kewl. Personally, I wouldn't get serious with either of them right now. Maybe you can just go out with both a few times and see who u like best.
  17. Krayzie? no but all girls are weird. You'll never figure them out.
  18. Stuff happens. Things happen and we can't explain why. Maybe you could go to a doctor and he can prescribe u something to help u out. Or u can go to a pharmacy type store and look for sexual enhancing drugs.
  19. screw that! if a girl said that to me i'd just forget about her. that's like one of the rudest things u can say lol that u like someone else more?? i'd be like "whatever".. and find someone else. it's not worth it.
  20. again, i'd agree with Secret......u need some protection. get a restraining order or something. no one should have to put up with that.
  21. tru-dat secret! but here's another thing, u want a girl u can trust, yet u aided her in disrespecting her bf. so what's that say about u? not to be mean or anything, but think about that.
  22. if that's his choice she can't stop him. she can ask him not to, but if he does and she doesn't want any part of that, then she'l just have to deal with it. sorry it's so cruel and blunt but that's the way it is. if he's made up his mind there's nothing u can do about it. personally, i think it's kinda sick. but my opinion doesn't count.
  23. First off, i'm not the most religious person in the world or anything. i don't even go to church. but u are on this earth becauce God put you here and he has a purpose for you. He does for everyone. but he also gave u free will. it's a sin to kill urself. And also, if u can't find happiness in anything that u do, find Jesus!!!! He will change ur life completely. it's amazing. even if u just get saved and read the bible every once in a while and try to live as God would want u to, u'd be a happier person. i believe that. but that will be to ur disgression.
  24. Breaking up a lot is not a good thing. My relationship ended after 3.5 years just 2 months ago. during our relationship we must have broken up like 20 times. But u said he was married before and it sucked for him. so he's probably scared to do it again. Maybe he doesn't want to go through the pain of another divorce because no matter what, u never know what the future has in store for u. I'd just be patient and give him time. If he sees that u are willing to stick by him no matter what, he might eventually come around and be willing to get married.
  25. masterbation at 5? ummm, is that normal? n e way, a lot of women are actually like that, so i've heard. Some women just can't orgasm or at least not very easily. And some are scared to. Don't know about ur case.
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