Giggles06

This is what happened...i went out with his friend ,jeff, and he said we would go to the mall and stop by josh's(ex) house and pick him up then we got close to the mall and he said he wanted to stop by his apartment to show me their camping stuff, cuz i was goin to go camping with them, and i had been drinking alittle too much and i dont remember much but jeff said we had sex...so yeah he has a good reason to act like that...yeah we really did care for each other when we broke up he started crying and he's one of those guys who think they are all tough and stuff...ur right about the other girl thing but he didnt meet her until a few days ago...i wrote the letter telling him how i feel but i'm gonna mail it to him and i told him i wouldnt blame him if he didnt call me or even write me back that i would understand i just want him to know how i feel

thats all i ask from him is closure...once i have that i think i'll be ok...i've been trying and trying to contact him but it just doesnt work...i just want closure and maybe have a really good friendship out of it cuz i would always have a great time with him and i still want him in my life...i think i will keep the letter up for a few days so i dont wake up one morning and regret sending it...thanx for the advice i've needed it for awhile

i think they letter is a great idea...my ex and i just split up too... and i was planning on doing the same thing and now i think i will...i wasnt sure what to write in my letter and u gave me some great ideas...i think she'll enjoy the letter and if u cant be together i think u could be friends...keep my posted on how things go..good luck

i was reading another forum and since this guys ex was avoiding him...he decided to write her a letter explaining everything he wants to say to her since he has no way of talking to her...i was thinking about writing my ex and telling him everything i've been wanting to say...do u think this would be a good move or do u think i should just let it go?

thats a good idea...i really do need to get out but talking about it helps too...its just everywhere i go reminds me of something we did or somewhere we went...its really hard on me

my ex and i just broke up a week ago cuz of a stupid mistake i made and i regret ever doing it...him and one of his friends came over to my house one night and i was feeling majorly guilty about what i did and i love him so much so i decided to tell him...they were over here for about an hour before i finally got the balls to say anything to him and when i did i just started bawling and he held me and said he knows and not to worry about it...so that night we talked on the phone until the sun came up and right after that i went over to his house to talk about it...i got over there and it was going great until my dad called and said he was on his way to come get me, thats when we started talking about it...all the sudden i was holding him and he looked down and started crying saying he loved me so much and he knows he didnt always call when he said he would but he was working on it...thats when he finally said he doesnt think its gonna work out...i was thinking about it the whole way home and it didnt sink in until i got home and called him and asked him if he really ment it...i started bawling once again and he said it will be ok and he'll always be there for me...then he said he couldnt listen to me like this and he'll have to call me back...we hung out a few days after that and things were great he said he didnt feel weird around me and he told me he loved me and all last week he would call me during his lunch to tell me he loved me...i thought everything was going great until he came over and we were going out to get some liquor and i gave him some money and he called this girl to come get him and he said he was going to come back but he never did and thats the last time i've talked to him...i talked to his brother and he's dating that girl that came to get him...i'm so heartbroken i've been like this for 2 weeks now and its not going away...the first week i couldnt eat and if i tired it would come back up...i still cant sleep cuz i keep thinking about him with another girl and all the good times we had together...i hate being lead on its the worst feeling in the world..i know i'm the one who messed up but i dont think i deserve all of this....how can i just stop thinking about it or how can i get over it