I'm a this confused. I've been with my husband almost 7 years and 2 1/2 married. We have a 1 year and 4 months old baby and I'm 4 months pregnant. My husband is being very indifferent and doesn't want to be in home that much, altough he does. He says he would like to go out whenever he wants without having to "ask for permission", do other things and most of all, not having to hear someone (me) asking and calling and checking his phone. I've tried to do my best. But when I think I can put my head for him, he was unfaithful on October last year. We talked and he said he wanted to be with us, and I forgave him. But of course, haven't forget. Now, I talked to him, because I need love, passion, romance, company, but he said he already have no motivation. What else of motivation does a man need, just knowing he will be father again?!! I'm just sad, maybe depressed, but I have to handle this well because my baby needs me. We have (or had) lots of dreams and plans together, and he says that without me he won't do them. What can I do? I just don't want him to go. I want him to love me again. I would do whatever it takes. 'Cause I know I can make him happy. And he can make me happy too. We just need to start over. But, how can I gave him some "motivation" for wanting to start over? Please, I need advice. I don't want to talk this to anybody and I feel very lonely. Thanks for every help you can give me.
