Ninja88

ok this is what happened......me and this girl had been dating a while and I have fallen deeply in love with her. Well we broke up and I was starting to get her back. She actually checked me out the other day and I know that that was what she was doing because she told me. She also told me that I was hot! Now obviously one comes to the conclusion that she is falling for me again right? Well I asked her back out on Sunday and she told me that she has not quite fallen in love with me completely yet. Well today she told me that she is going out with this other guy and she also told me that she still thinks I am hot! I am in complete and total misery! This guy has stolen from me the most important human being I know from me! What do I do??????? I was so close to getting her back! What can I do and what does all this mean????

You have a point.....do not fight unless you are attacked. Do not start ANYTHING!

Go after her......do not let these infidels steal her. Do not be a coward! be the man you are and take her for yourself, if they fight you, defend yourself, if they do not, good! Stand up for yourself and take what is yours my friend!

indeed.....

thanks I will try that!

She is depressed at times, I do not know whats wrong with her. Every time I call her beutiful, or cute she says "No I'm not..." and when I tell her that she can sing good, she says "No I can't..." It hurts me to see her in such conditions....another thing is, we are not at the same school yet so we cannot see each other on a regular basis, only like once a week sometimes not even that. I know I can get through all this but how and how can I help her?

She may POSSIBLY like you. She may just be covering up her feelings so that she can get to know you. Just take it easy and slow and do NOT assume anything or you might get hurt. Just play along with her "game"

You are depressed. You need to talk to a friend, teacher, psychologist, etc. to help you get back on the right track.

Well I think you are doing the only thing you can do but try talking to your friend about this.

Lock ALL doors and windowns at night. Keep a few lights on, and learn how to defend yourself, and notify the Police.

You could be in love. Some people have spent 2 hours with each other and have fallen in love and gotten married!

I agree with Rage

I hate to break it to you but divorce is the only way out of this one. You apparently married the wrong dude. Just tell him how you feel. Let him have his woman and find another man who will love you for who you are and will not do these things to you. I hope you find the right one.

Dude I am the SAME EXACT way except that I am a sophomore. I am going to college to be a Marine Corps. officer. The military can pay for your college and they will help you find a college.

I have gone through this as well. All you have to do is suck up your courage and walk up to her and talk. You will be nervouse and shy but after you have been talking for a while it all disappears. Good Luck and I hope you get her!