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hey maybe you should try marriage counselling. sounds like your wife has a communcation problem and she needs to get help with it. Or look up articles on how to communicate. That's weird about ur wife saying she'll divorce you in 9 years..odd.
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my bf and i are going out for 3 years without sex. both virigins but we are still very close with each other. He respects my decision. I don't think sex is everything. You definitely should wait for someone you love and that they love you as well. Just give the new girl some time. It's sad that her breakup affected her view on sex. Hopefully she'll have a more positive outlook on it later on.
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if its pre-cum its normal.
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set a good example for your children. If she wants to work this marriage out, give it a go. If she's willing to change, then give her a chance if you really want to work it out. But you do need marriage counselling. Try to also control your thoughts and try not to blurt out random things ( especially in front of the kids). Kids do learn parents behaviours ( trust me!) and do get affected by the fights.
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do not have a threesome..i can't imagine my bf/spouse sleeping with another woman. Intimacy is for two of you. Just don't do a threesome, it's probably his fantasy but plz don't go through with it.
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hello no, i wouldn't want my spouse to go to strip clubs.
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I agree...you have to leave. He can't still love you and want to date another girl. Bascially his attraction to you has gone. Your probably is "backup" plan if things don't work out. I wonder if the new girl knows he has a gf...
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if your married, i'd cut off all contact wtih that guy. You'll always meet ppl that you could be interested in if you were single. But your married, focus on the man your married with and remember the vows you took
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yeah if you two get along, she has to make a choice - break it up with her bf or stay with her bf n not see you anymore.
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My gf doesnt seem to want me enough sexually
candy604 replied to Tears May Fall's topic in Sex and Romance
dood seriously you don't have to have sex everyday. It's fine to just cuddle or hold hands during some days. Not always have to be sexual! There's more to a relationship than being sexual. With my bf and I we don't jump over each other when we see one another. There's other thnings to do eg. dinner or movies, shopping..etc.. Perhaps her depression etc..has an effect. Also if your having relationship problems girls tend to get less attracted to their mate. -
hha i thought the guy was to call usually. My bf always calls me out to do things. Maybe she's the old fashioned girl ( where the boy has to make the plans). I know a few girls that are old-fashioned don't worry about it!!
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Saw somebody I never thought I'd see again
candy604 replied to Yankee Confedera's topic in Dating Advice
don't be a snail., just go for it! -
doesn't mean ur bi. i have giflfriends that were straight but kissed girls while drunk. weird but maybe its the alcohol speaking.
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i had friends that were in the exact situation as you. broke up just before their booked trip to mexico. They still went as friends, had a great time. I wouldn't forfeit 2000 dollars. Just wondering if marriage is not on your mind, we can't u both be together? just b/c ur together for a long time doesn't mean u'll get married
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advice on getting back together- need help
candy604 replied to candy604's topic in Getting Back Together
that's true..so the casual dating is not a good option then. Wondering if its possible though or is it very unfair to the other person?, but usually its beginning of a relationship that casual dating happens..sigh. i noe i tell him all the time, but he says he needs time to mature n does realize his faults. but its a personality change..which is so hard..i've been waiting for 3 years ( it has been gradually getting better) but at a slow slow pace. -
Okay here's my other post i've posted : Bascially i'm on NC for 7 days now. My bf txts me and emails me but i don't respond. Anyway what are the options of getting back together? I think the fear of lossing him as a best friend is hard, but we truly don't mesh. Been going out for 3 years. ( both of us have never had any gf/bf before) I stlil love him but I know even though he says he needs to changes..it probably won't happen. I was thinking of just taking the relationship a step down- very non serious to see how things will turn out. Like just hugs or kiss, see each other for dinner or movie but nothing more. is that just a bad idea?? I'm just hoping one day things will change ( hoping for 3 years i guess ). Our mutual friend was talking to my bf n my bf thinks that everything will be okay next week n we'll get back together. But i'm having second thoughts! What makes a successful get back together?
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exactly, he's looking for an ego boost. So if your missing him like crazy n etcc..then he'll feel better. Don't give him that advantage!
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hey buttermaker she's just playing games with you. good that u decided to have no contact Block her on msn
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personally, a bf's or gf's family is a big factor..i mean would you really want to marry into a family that dislikes you? it makes life very hard. ( going through that with my parent's families).
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u deserve someone better than ur ex. Don't go back , don't even attempt to contact him anymore. Move on and find someone that will treat you with respect, won't lie and won't cheat.
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hm..sometimes ppl are like that b/c they enjoy hurting someone else or being above them ( higher status) so i guess it is some kind of control problem. dILLY I just laughed so hard at ur story. That's a good story though!
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mmm... don't be friends right away though..i suggest u just cut off all contact for a few months until ur fully recovered and you know what might help is think of the negative things he did to you. I told my friend who just broke up, that realize ur feelings but then set a date when ur gonna stop sulking and get on with life. Now she's happier and she's doing alot of things she hasn't done in a long time ( swimming, hanging out with old friends, studying more..etc..). You can do it! Just think of it as a time for yourself and a time for you to be independent without being attatched to someone. hehe we don't need boys to run our life Do you have some friends that will drag you out? or have ur family to talk to?
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one advice : keep yourself busy as possible. Go out and hang out with friends or watch movies, read a book, or play some sports. It does really help! I'm on my 5 day of NC, it's hard but i keep myself preoccupied with things to do. So now i'm doing alot better. You can do it! stay strong!!
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sex too soon....i think she prolly used you
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the way you describe him to me, sounds like you aren't attracted to him anymore and he is bothering you instead of being a bf/lover. That's probably why u can't stand sex with him. so i don't really think you hate the idea of sex. Just sex with him. perhaps you need a break from the relationship and find someone else who isn't a jerk towards you. I find for myself with no emotional connection = no attraction. Same situation, my bf is inconsiderate and just irratiates me,so thus I naturally limited our physical contact to just kissing or a hug. I don't think i can stand doing anything more than that as of now.