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  1. candy604
    sounds like your guy has fallen out of love with you. I hope your able to settle the house soon. You need to get out , it's unhealthy for you and him. You don' t need to be around a man whose acting egotistically, revengeful, and bringing/hanging with skanks, it's very immature of him ( especially for a man of 31)gee..that's nuts. Good luck.
  2. candy604
    porn is not healthy, just search up some dr.phil articles and show your fiance. ( it's on his website)
  3. candy604
    maybe your asexual? they just did a documentary on those types of people on sextv the other day. It's possible but it hasn't been researched enough into.
  4. candy604
    i'm glad to hear ur not in a relationship just for the sex. Props to you. I don't think you should feel it's wrong, it's normal!!
  5. candy604
    Okay my bf and I had a big arugment over Jealousy. He made up a story about him going out with his friend and his friend bringing "some friends" along. Then I inquired about who they were b/c he didn't tell me, he said they were two girls that he didn't know but were at his school, so his friend wants him to meet him. I asked a few questions and he told me that his friend said they are hot and single. I was of coursed peeved, but then he siad yah i just made it up to prove my point that you do get jeolous. I am upset at the fact he'd hid the info from me in the beginning so i'd had to ask him questions and also mad at the fact he sounded happy when his friend claimed they were hot and single. I really don't need to know that do I? Mind you this is a made up story. Now I am not an overly jeolous person. Even so, I tell him i am not even jeolous. I have never had any arugments with my bf over girls . Also i let him stay over at his girl friends house who i hardly know. if the situation was reversed, he'd hit the wall. I don't give attitutde if he wants to hang out with his girl friends ( even the girls he used to like) b/c i trust him. Yes, it sometimes bothers me, but i don't make a big deal out of it. So the argument is, my bf wants me to admit i'm a hyprocrite b/c i get jeolous etc..but i find it ridicoulous to go back on my word. I seriously do not give a crap, rather I just find myself caring and looking out for the person. If a girl was to hit on him , yes i'd be concerned and help him deal with it but is considered jeolousy? I'd also ask why he'd want to be friends with those type of people. Also another thing bothers me, is that I tell him everything about what guy i talk to, who i have lunch with, yet he hardly tells me anything, he just says " classmates" or yeah i hang out in a group. Then i hafta ask questions..ugh.. Vague and claims i shouldn't need to know anything about it since it's not relevant and since Iclaim i am not the jeolous person. Another thing is, if he talks about another girl, he automatically assumes i'm gonna get jeolous and tries on purpose to see if any emotion comes out of me ( which nothing does anyway). Or keeps information away from me about girl he talks to b/c he thinks i'm gonna get mad. But do i have the right to know about what he does? So the question is what the freak is jealousy in a relationhip? i'm confused now. I thought we are suppose to be open in a relationship? now if i inquire anything about a girl in a calm tone, i'm hit with " ha, so you are jeolous" By the way, it turned up into a huge argument I don't know what to say anymore.
  6. candy604
    Agree totally with that.
  7. candy604
    usualyl its the certain cycle where girls become more horny ( i guess it's hte hormones), works for me that way, other than that, i'm hardly horny.
  8. candy604
    don't let friends pressure you into thinking you have to have sex or loose your virginity to be cool. It's not mature thinking. Trust me, when you find a girl you love/marry and then you'd understand why you saved it. I thikn basically its all talk with guys. I have a group of friends ( guys and girls) and the guys or girls, we all don't make fun of virigins or make one another feel odd b/c they haven't done it. Remember not everyone tells the truth
  9. candy604
    i would totally stay way from this man. You said this is his third wife b/c of infidelity..that's a track record and a big red flag. Find a nice single man for yourself that respects you.
  10. candy604
    that's the stupidest logic i have heard. I would save my viriginty for someone who deserved it. If you try to get even with your bf/gf that's simply a very stupid immature move. Dump him/her and go find someone that deserves you. You'd be so glad to have saved it for the right person.
  11. candy604
    you made the right choice yasmina. Keep strong and stay strong! You deserve someone that will treat you right. Good luck. Don't look back but be thankful you found this out before getting yourself into a rut.
  12. candy604
    tell the girl to take a shower before you go down on her or use some listerine
  13. candy604
    if you and her use protection during sex, i don't see a higher chance of her getting pregnant before her period. Talk to her about it. Sex does not make menstral thing happen at all. That is a myth, that is not what is taught in school or education at all. You should google up the menstrual cycle and show it to her. The menstrual cycle happens every month to shed the lining of the uterus if there is no baby. It happens naturally, not because of sex. lol..i think you should take her to see a the doctor or sex conseullor to explain to her the menstrual cycle so she can stop worrying about it. I never heard something like that in my life
  14. candy604
    heh guys like that should just buy a blowup doll and then they can have all the sex they want. lol
  15. candy604
    it sounds like she has a medical problem, I forgot exactly what the call it for people who are over meticious, rigid, everythign has to be perfect..oh yeah its called obessesive compulsive disorder. I don't know if she has it or not. she should get help asap. Or perhaps you can convince her that both of you need to go to conseulling? instead of just convincing one another has a problem? Also from what you posted of your wife, she really needs emotional help ( psycholotherapist) and that's why it' probably affecting your sex life with her. Has she been brought up in a bad family?
  16. candy604
    I really think before you give up on the marriage to go see a sex and marital conseullor.
  17. candy604
    Don't let your mate give you a bf if you are not comfortable with it. It's your decision and no one should pressure you into it. If you are straight, you don' thave to do this b/c you feel sorry or b/c he's confused. He might be in a inbetween stage of not knowing who he is. Maybe he's bi? or experimenting?
  18. candy604
    do you think you'll ever come to like him and see if things will work out? sounds like a sweet and nice boy lol.
  19. candy604
    i'm sorry to hear what happened to you. But you are not overreacting. I think you have all the right to be mad at him. Just be careful if you do have an argument again..will he do the same thing? Is that a way to solve a problem? But even with a bad sex life or anything, a man should not go to places like that to get sex.
  20. candy604
    maybe you should go get some consuelling so someone can help you out with your fears of sex.
  21. candy604
    perhaps the porn is replacing your wife. Cut down on the porn? Maybe it has become an addiction. Sounds like it is..you should get help or just fight the urges.
  22. candy604
    make sure these women don't have any diseases. Are you able to join a local dating service? i'm sure there's some around! or just even try to make friends with women ( no dating intention) so you are used to talking to women?
  23. candy604
    There's nothing wrong with your husband wanting sex since you both are married. But perhaps it sounds like you don't know what sex is.Perhaps educate yourself and talk it over with your husband.it's something that two people who love should share.
  24. candy604
    do you have any problems in the relationship right now? maybe she's not with you emotionally right now
  25. candy604
    hey if u never had sex before, i'd wait till you find someone you love.
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