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Like I said before, this COULD be a one sided thing. He said he called to see how I was doing (how my injury was healing). I've never had a doctor, nurse, or any medical professional call me months after I ended my visits with them, but it could have really been an innocent gesture on his part. I feel like an alcoholic trying to stop drinking. I know it's bad for me but I'm craving a drink (really want to hear from him). don't they have buddies in AA that you can contact when you're gonna "fall off the wagon"? Okay guys, help me get through this. On the plus side, I sent the letter on Friday (so he should have gotten it by yesterday) and I haven't heard from him. That's a good thing.

It's so hard to turn off the feelings of a crush. The feelings were starting to fade until he called me. He's married too. I don't think either of us were/are looking to cheat. I'm not even sure if he's actually into me. It could be that it's completely one sided. There's a tremendous desire going on here (at least I know on my part). I have never been tempted to cheat before and now this guy comes along and makes me question my ability to stay faithful. Lonelyinasmalltown - the previous posts were actually about this guy. I altered them because I didn't want to come clean about being married when I posted them. So you can't really go by what I posted before. I wrote the letter to him about the crush because he told me that he was going to call me again and I wanted to tell him why he shouldn't. If this is all one sided, that he never had interest in me, then he'll stop calling and I can forget about him. Even if he had any interest, I did ask him to stop calling so he may just do that. Out of sight, out of mind - I'll get through this if he leaves me alone.

I'm happily married, or so I thought. I shouldn't have any reason to want to stray, right? Then why do I? I had an injury and started going to a massage/physical therapist for gentle massage. We spent a couple of hours a week for a few months together. During our sessions we talked a lot and built kind of a bond. That bond turned into a crush for me. While I was seeing him, I could see little signs that he was interested in me also. Neither one of us ever acted upon our interest. When I finished my therapy with him, it took me a couple of months to stop thinking about him. It was hard because I really had strong feelings towards him. I'm sure the feelings came out stronger because of the intamacy of getting massaged by a person I'm attracted to. I suspected nothing would happen between us because he owns the practice and wouldn't risk losing his license. In our state there's a three month "cooling off" period before therapists can date former clients. Well three months (and 2 days) after my last visit, he called me. He tried to make small talk but I kind of brushed him off. OMG - here I go again. All of these feelings for him have come back stronger than ever. I sent him a letter in the mail (too chicken to talk on the phone) telling him about my crush and that he shouldn't contact me anymore. But what if he does? What do I do? How the h*ll can I fight these feelings that I never intended to have?

...now what? I tried to make the first move on a guy I like by, here comes the stupid part, fax. Yeah, I know, hind sight is 20/20. Anyway, I sent him a fax saying hi and gave him my number and email and told him to contact me. But he hasn't. I used an online fax messenger and the first several attempts said that the fax didn't go through. Finally I got a message that the fax was successful. Now I'm wondering if he hasn't contacted me because he's not interested or if he never actually received the fax. What would you do?

Nothing I can really take as attraction/flirting. Everything could just be taken as things friends do. The only thing I can say is that he was looking at the picture for soooo long that I remembered & tried "the trick" on him that I learned here. After a minute or two, I leaned backwards to get closer to him (to see his reaction) and he didn't budge.

I was showing this picture to a guy I know - we were both seated. Instead of taking the picture from me, which I thought he would, he pulled his chair up VERY close and looked over my shoulder (our arms were actually touching). He stayed like that for about 5 minutes - which seemed like forever to look at a picture. Later, he was reaching for something in front of me and he leaned his leg against my leg - he could have easily reached it without touching me. Does this sound like he's attracted to me or do you think he's just the kind of guy who invades peoples space?

I'm afraid to put myself out on the ledge in case he's the "don't mix business and pleasure" type. Here's a question for the guys regarding the time he seemed mad at me - do you ever get nervous with a woman you like and come accross as indifferent/uncaring? And does stuttering (when you don't normally stutter) mean you're attracted to someone or just insecure? Maybe I'm reading too much in to this...

I've been working alone with this guy on a short-term project. Dating between us would be pretty much frowned upon by the higher ups. I think he's hot but I've kept it professional because of the business relationship. BUT, I think he may be interested in me. I'm really curious if these are signs - At our first 2 meetings he pretty much stuttered when he talked to me. I actually thought he had a stuttering problem. But it stopped by the third meeting. On the third meeting, he seemed like he was mad at me (or himself?). He was distant and all of the sudden seemed uncaring. By the fourth meeting (and subsequent meetings), he was nice again and we had pleasant conversation. Then when he was done with his end of the project, he told me to keep in touch (let him know how things turn out) that he'd be thinking about me. Well, the project was extended, and now we're working together again. I know that this is taboo for us but I really am curious if he has feelings for me. Anybody think so?