jessicake
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mmm, i have just started seeing an ex from 4 yrs ago (we dated about 1 yr). its quite early days but i think we both like each other a lot. but its very hard to differentiate whether i like him because of him or the memory of him. we broke up because we were young and needed to experience the world individually. we didn't see each other for 3 years or so and then we just started bumping into each other everyhwere! i dont know if this will become a story of success get back togehter, but mmm there is hope!
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Your post definitely sound like a good start to your fool proof road to recovery. I wish you the best.
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Dear Spiral Love, In all honesty, I feel that I can relate to how you are feeling. I finished high school at almost the top 5% of my state, and is considered attractive and also do some volunteer work. There is no reason for me to feel suicidal but I do. If you want, read my thread about suicide in the forum... I know that it may not help much, but please know that you are not alone! feel free to pm me...
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thank you for your post somebloke, no i havent... i really should. I think that it is necessary for me to. It's not that I don't have reasons, there are definite catalyst... but perhaps none that would justify (even thou, i know nothing justifies suicide) even the contemplation of suicide. especially since i feel that the catalysts are actually positive. Shadow, yes I did see the link to the website. I came accross it a few months ago when I was looking for resources to combat suicidal thoughts. The site helped only temporarily.. .and then I felt that it just became words.. Althought I genuinely believe that what it says on the website is sooo true. Its strange, I feel that ending my life is not necessary.. rather it is such a waste. I am ashamed of feeling this way because I have so much going for me.
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What is the reason that even though I feel fine and good generally, I still want to commit suicide? I don't really understand..
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What is the difference between "dating" and "seeing each other"??
jessicake replied to confused25's topic in Dating Advice
i think it depends on the person who says it! to me, they both mean casually with someone with not a huge commitment. -
well said!! thank you.
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dear llammas, please do yourself the favour of completely ditching your ex. he definitely seems to want to keep you as a 'back up' just in case the deal with the new woman is off!!! i'm glad that you have decided on NC. i hope that you will feel better soon, because no one deserves to be treated as a back up! feel empowered!! he is definitely not worthy of your hurt and pain!!!!!
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mmmm it seems that he is not interested in pursuing a relationship... not right now anyway. but it seems that he might be happy to be in a relationship when he feels ready. if he wasnt ready for a relationship with you in the same town then it would be even harder with long distance. i would suggest that you date other people as it would be unhealthy for u to dwell on him. he clearly seems to like u, but not enough for a relationship. so perhaps just have fun with him with no expectations. and at the same time date others and if u and him come to be more in the future then so be it, but do not stop urself from meeting other men and having fun!
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i m not going to let depresssion get to me! thanks for ur concern superdave!! ...twinkies.. yum! lindsay, good luck! keep us posted about ur feelings!
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i am 32A and i am happy with my flat chested ness. i think it fits clothes much better! when i was on the pill i was 32B or C and i really grew to love them but once i went off the pill i deflated back to a 32A and at first i had a huge complex about it but as time went by, i grew to love them once again! i like my flatness because i can wear lots of clothes and get away with it. (with no bra!)
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Wasn't upfront with date about living with ex
jessicake replied to melinda1122's topic in Dating Advice
perhaps he has not replied because he is confused about what to write? or perhaps he did not want to pursue the relationship? or perhaps he did find out and was hurt that you lied? you wont know unless you do talk to him. but if you do want to contact him... wait a few days before u do and see if he does reply to ur msg. i would suggest not to appear desperate. (not that u seem like it!) do u know if he is dating other girls? -
please help - cant understand messages from ex
jessicake replied to needingadvice's topic in Breaking Up Advice
keep up the NC... you WILL get there!!! after your denial stage comes the hardest stage... the depression... but after that, it all goes up hill!! be strong, it will get easier. look forward to all the things that WILL make you happy in the future.- 42 replies
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i agree with littlebylittle! music is great advice!!