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  1. bebecole
    i like it
  2. bebecole
    so your not with your boyfriend???? you didnt write if you brokeup. well if you think you can separate your feelings from sex, then id say okay. but its really hard to do that. ive had a good friendship with a male end in the dumps because we hooked up. We use to work together, hang out and he was a good friend that i could talk to.. THEN we hooked up its ended really messy. How much do you value his friendship?? . i personally dont like the idea of hooking up with friends. been there, done that. and alot of people i know say the samething, NO.
  3. bebecole
    i dont think thats blackmail. oviously he cares about you, hes just saying that to show he cares what your doing to yourself. but i dont think your problem is your ex blackmailing you, your problem is your cutting. Its something that shouldnt be taken lightly. My honest opinion is you should put yourself first and get some help.
  4. bebecole
    i agree i think you should call her. if you feel as if you should leave her some type of message. it wouldnt hurt.
  5. bebecole
    Thats what a breakup is supposta feel like. You have to relize in the end the only person that is going to help you is yourself! You cannot put a man before yourself because if you do your just setting your self up for disaster. Hes not living your life, YOU are.
  6. bebecole
    your only 17 years old. you shouldnt be smoking ciggs and pot. its not very responsible. Oviously your having a problem with this person or you wouldnt have posted here. Do what you think is right for your future. i dont think it will be good for you to hang around this kid. its in the end its up to you
  7. bebecole
    sexual tension. eye contact. flirting. touching each other while talking. Maybe give a little more info on your situation.
  8. bebecole
    a few months insnt that long. I would NOT look for this person. Maybe they just need some space and time to themselves to think. Maybe something is going on in his life that he doesnt want to discuss. You never know what is going on. I wouldnt try to contact his family and friends. If something was seriously wrong he would contact you. Just leave it bee. If you keep calling and trying to talk to his friends, you'll come off a little needy. Leave it alone.
  9. bebecole
    yeah hes very shy. But i havent slept with him yet so im not to sure, but i think he wud be very shy and im the oppsite. I feel very akward asking him. lol
  10. bebecole
    you should really tell this guy that your not who he thinks you are. would you want someone you really liked to do this to you?? i dont think so. So since you know youve made a mistake which is fine, you need to come clean because your actions are hurting other people now.
  11. bebecole
    myspace does suck.
  12. bebecole
    well with my ex i use to always have a dirty mouth while we were having sex. may sound a little weird but i get really turned on by talking dirty to each other and my ex loved it. Well since im not with him anymore im a little scared to talk like that. becuase there is this guy i really like and im getting involved with, i havent slept with him yet but i dont want him to get freaked out or get nervous or something like that. Do guys like it when girls talk dirty?? ive only been with my ex so i dont really know.. i kinda feel dumb asking this lol. i dont wana scare him away or something. ~A question for the guys... what turns you on sexually? give me some good tips
  13. bebecole
    i saw that my ex got myspace, and ofcourse me being a dumb@ss i clicked on it and i felt the same way. i started crying, getting really emotional cuz i started to miss him. i saw other girls leaving comments. i felt the same pain. but then i sat there and acually thought to myself, why the hell am i crying over him!??!?! just remember theres someone out their better for you. as for the myspace. advoid her page and just dont think about it! stay away from myspace for a few days and do stuff you like to enjoy!
  14. bebecole
    sometimes it takes a few tries. atleast for me it did.. maybe shes just nervous and not saying anything cuz if she tenses up its pretty much imposible to insert. you both need to relax. its ok if it takes a few tries.
  15. bebecole
    buy larger condoms and read the directions.. as weird as that sounds. he might be doing something wrong
  16. bebecole
    i dont think its a fear at all. its okay to be curious. Im the same age as you and i think its normal to explore your sexuality. I know how you feel in a way, i think girls are very attractive, but i dont consider myself bi.. instead of rejecting or pushing away your feelings take it in. the more you fight it the harder it will be. You should try keeping a journal and write everything down at the end of the day about how you feel and whats going on. maybe it will help you figure things out once you get it all out.
  17. bebecole
    i dont think so. i think everyone has their own defintion of dating. i go out with alot of guy friends, but i dont consider it dating. i enjoy their company, and thats it. i think it wud be different if you liked your friend romantically.
  18. bebecole
    alot of females dont use them. i have no idea why. ive tried so many times as well, and it doesnt work out. if i get it in, it feels unconfortable and i can feel it. but pads are just fine. i use Always pads the small peite ones. there very confortable and i dont even know im wearing one
  19. bebecole
    take her to court!!
  20. bebecole
    Generalized Axiety disorder
  21. bebecole
    Okay well i just started this topic for everyone to share their story with their stuggles with Anxity disorders. Im 20 years old. Ive had A anxity disorder for a little over a year now, and it recently esculated becuase my very close friend just passed away. So i needed to go ahead and start my therapy to rid this horrible disorder. Ive been in therapy for just about a month now and now my therapist suggested id start medication soon. And thought it wud be best for me to take lexapro. Im a little hesitant about taking it because of the side effects such as weight gain and low sexdrive. Im having a very hard time seeing the light at the end of the tunnel. Im scared im going to have to live with this the rest of my life. Maybe if you guys can help me out by sharing your success stories with me and how you went about curing and being able to deal with your anxity disorder may help me out.
  22. bebecole
    3 words. Change Your Number
  23. bebecole
    LMAO!!!!!!!!!
  24. bebecole
    haha.. you should put your profile on privite so he cant look. thats what i do when i want to keep Ex's out. but sometimes i put my profile public so they can see how great my life is without them. lol haha good for you!!
  25. bebecole
    im currently going to therapy to help with my anxity disorder, and my therapist told me id have to go on medication to treat my anxity and depression. Ive heard about lexapro by several people and heard it was good. any stories? maybe give me some advice if you are taking or have taken it or know anyone who has.. thanks
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